It is very important for people to remember your name. Otherwise, even if they remember what you do, your characteristics and expertise, they may want to introduce you to you if they have the opportunity, but they cannot remember your name. As for his name, he could only say "Who is that...I can't remember it at the moment"
There are several ways to introduce his name:
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(1) Interpretation of characters, the simplest way to introduce names
A Chinese character can be divided into different components, and these components are sometimes independent Chinese characters, so when introducing your name to others, deciphering the characters is an interesting way to make them think.
I often use word interpretation when introducing myself to others. My name is Wang Lin. It was a bit difficult to write this name when I was a child. The characters are easy to separate, which means "Wang Wang Mu Mu". As people accumulate mathematical knowledge, they will also call me "Wang Mu times two" and "Wang Mu square", so I have had many nicknames since I was a child. Some are called Wang Wang, some are called Mu Mu, and some are called Cheng. Two is called square. Over time, when I introduce myself, I will break my name into Wangwangmumu, which is simple and interesting.
In fact, there is a more clever way to split my name, which comes from my parents’ wishes when naming me. The family planned to have two children from the beginning, so they decided it in advance. Names, one is Wang Ju and the other is Wang Lin. Wang Ju is a girl's name, and its meaning is "located on the king's side". Wang Lin is a boy's name, and its meaning means "King of the Forest", which fully reflects the parents' expectations for their son's career. My older sister was born first and took the girl's name, so I naturally called her Wang Lin, even though I am a girl.
There is a female friend named "Zhang Shu". Everyone is curious why the name is named after the word "forgiveness". She told us that if we take the word "forgiveness" apart and look at it, we can understand the painstaking efforts of her parents. When the word "forgiveness" is broken down, it becomes "ruxin", which is really clever.
There is also a friend whose surname is "Li" and is called "Muzi". The reason is that her mother's surname is also Li. She can't be called "Li Li", so she calls Li If you break it down, it's called Li Muzi.
(2) Stories, names and people with stories are easier to remember
The origin of many people’s names will be accompanied by An interesting or touching story. So sometimes even a bland name can make people remember your name if you share the story behind it when you introduce yourself.
I have a friend named Xu Hongxia. She has always complained about her father because he gave herself such a vulgar name. Although her name is very common, her self-introduction always leaves a deep impression on everyone:
Hello everyone, my name is Xu Hongxia. My name was given by my father. Although I am a very Common name, but I'm still grateful to my dad. Where did this name come from? It was because on the day my mother gave birth to me, my father passed by a military camp on the way to the delivery room and heard the soldiers in the military camp singing: The sunset is red and the mountains are flying, and the soldiers are returning to the camp from target shooting... so he gave me this name. My father said to me: "Don't be too vulgar. You should feel lucky that I didn't name you Xu Dingtang!"
Through Xu Hongxia's self-introduction, we can find out , stories and fun are inseparable.
However, there are also stories about names that make people cry.
There is a classmate named Chang Yiqiu, but the strange thing is that her father and mother are not named Chang. When introducing herself, she told everyone her name The story behind:
Hello everyone, my name is Chang Yiqiu, but actually I should take my father’s surname of Jia. You may ask why my father didn’t give me the surname Jia, or you may think that my mother’s surname is Chang. In fact, it is neither. My name comes from a love message my father gave to my mother. My father wanted to tell my mother that he missed her every time he called my name. My name can tell my mother that he misses her.
My mother died in a car accident when I was less than three months old. Her name had the character Qiu in it, so my father called me "Yiqiu". But because my father's surname was Jia, he didn't want to call me "Jia Yiqiu", so Just changed my last name. After so many years, I don’t feel sad, but I feel very happy, because some people say that the happiest thing in the world is that my father loves my mother, and my father loves my mother so much, even though she is no longer with us. around.
Although it is a brief self-introduction, we can still feel some of the speaker's personality traits, whether they are humorous, cheerful, generous, gentle and quiet.
More importantly, telling the story behind the name can arouse the audience's interest in continuing to listen, because a person who can tell stories will never give a speech that is Too boring.
(3) Association, turning the ordinary into the extraordinary
But sometimes our names have no obvious characteristics and no background. The story can be shared, but the words cannot be separated, so how should you introduce it so that others can remember your name? In fact, you can give full play to your imagination and associate the name with the names of familiar things, places and people. This method can sometimes turn the ordinary into the extraordinary.
There is a friend named Liu Yuliang. He often introduces himself like this:
Hello everyone, my name may be familiar to everyone. I’m not familiar with it, but everyone knows my brother’s name. My brother’s name is Liu Guoliang (a national table tennis player). Because I’m not as talkative as his brother, my mother removed the Chinese character for me. So everyone will definitely know my name. My name is Liu Yuliang. If you really can’t remember my name, just remember my brother.
There is another friend named Li Guangjun. His self-introduction is also very unique, and he also uses the association method:
Hello everyone, I won’t tell you my name yet. I would like to test how well you did in middle school Chinese. The bright moon of the Qin Dynasty was at the Pass of the Han Dynasty, and the people who had marched thousands of miles away had not yet returned. But the flying generals of Dragon City are here, and Hu Ma is not taught to cross the Yin Mountain. This is "Out of the Fortress" by Wang Changling, a poet from the Tang Dynasty. I believe everyone has memorized it. So I would like to ask, who is this flying general? Oh, right! That’s Li Guang. My surname is also Li. Does anyone know what my name is? Li Guang? No, because my mother said that I was pretty good-looking when I was a child, so she hoped that I would not only be brave and resourceful, but also have a good appearance in the future, so my name is Li Guangjun.
Although this method of association is indeed more artificial than the previous ones, it is still a good way to make the audience remember your name quickly. If you think your name has always been a problem for you when introducing yourself, and it's never interesting, then by all means try this method. Because this book has emphasized it more than once: If the audience can't even remember your name, how can they accept your point of view?
(4) Humor, it is easier to spread ideas in an interesting way
The famous litterateur Lin Yutang once said: "I am very It is doubtful that the world has ever experienced the importance of humor, or its potential to transform our entire cultural life—its place in politics, in scholarship, in life. Its functions are not so much physical. Rather, it is chemical. It changes the fundamental organization of our thoughts and experiences. We must acknowledge its importance in the life of a nation. "The power of humor is equally important in speech.
The famous speaker Carnegie once said: "Each audience listening to a speech is like a primary school student in class. His attention can only be concentrated for 15 minutes at most, so every audience Make the audience laugh every 15 minutes and use a joke to interact with everyone, so that others can more easily remember your point of view."
There is a friend named Wang Hanrui (rui). , her name is a test for herself and others, and her self-introduction takes advantage of this and uses humorous techniques.
When I was a child, it was very difficult to write my name. Everyone had already answered the second question, but I hadn’t finished writing my name. Later, when I grew up, I understood the painstaking efforts of my parents. Why? ? Because no teacher has ever asked me questions after so many years of studying.
When I was in the second year of high school, the teacher announced the results: "What's the score for Zhang San, and what's the score for Li Si..." I skipped over when he read it. At the end, the teacher asked whose name he didn't read. I raised my hand, and the teacher asked: " "What's your name?" I ran to the stage and pointed to the teacher on the report card and said, "That's my name..."
There is a trainer named Zhu Yin. , she also used a humorous way to introduce herself:
My name is Zhu Yin, the sound of music. This name was once named after the character "Purple Cloud Fairy" in "Journey to the West" And became very famous. But that beauty’s name is Zhu Yin. I’ve seen many friends accidentally write my name as “Zhu Yin” in the past. In fact, that’s not bad. After all, she is beautiful and famous. But once I saw a friend write it as “Zhu Yin”. ", the bacteria are a little bit angry, so please be merciful and don't let me turn into a microorganism.
Humor can make you more charming, make it easier for others to accept you, spread ideas more easily, and effectively inspire action. The power of humor cannot be underestimated.
Today I will introduce to you four ways to introduce your name that are easy for people to remember. However, it is not enough to make people remember your name. The memory of a simple name is short-lived. . Because everyone only pays attention to themselves, others cannot remember things that are not of great value to them, so you also need to provide value memory points, which we will mention in later courses.