Most names cannot be chosen by oneself. A name is a label that accompanies a person throughout his life, not just a person's address. As a parent, think twice before naming your child. It is best to choose a name that is meaningful and connotative.
Many people's names are related to the time of their birth. In the early days of the founding of the People's Republic of China, many people's names were marked with "Jianguo", "Jiangjun", "Defense of the Country" and "National Day". There are many similar names, which reflect the characteristics of the times and are also an expression of patriotism at that time. Nowadays, names have the characteristics of the times, becoming smaller and smaller, and more and more elegant. The names chosen in this way may sound nicer, but they are generally the same and feel lackluster.
Names such as "Goudan" and "Tiezhu" can be seen in rural areas, which makes people feel very at ease, because there is a saying in rural areas: "The more names a child has, the better the child will grow." ”
There is also a way to name. I have seen some parents who name their children very casually or without paying attention at all. As a result, the child will suffer, and when he grows up, he will be troubled by the random name chosen by his parents.
For example, when family planning was not implemented, the children of a family were all in small groups. For convenience, some parents would name their children according to their ranking at home. This may have seemed normal at the time, but now, this The name no longer fits.
Other parents will pick out some rare words when naming their children, just to make the name look special, but the parents do not know that this rare word is causing harm to their children. Don't believe this.
I saw a piece of news before. The male protagonist named his daughter. There was a rare character in the name, which was just one character. As a result, my daughter noticed something was wrong after she went to school. Many teachers don’t know this word. When asked questions in class, they avoid their daughter's name to avoid embarrassment. Other children will think her name is different and won't want to play with her. They should know the child's mentality. If there are people who feel different from them, they will choose to be alienated or bullied.
Here, I introduce some naming techniques, hoping to help parents who are worried about naming their children.
1. Selected from ancient poems
Ancient poems, lyrics and songs are full of charm and meaning. Choose a name from them that will be classically elegant, which is one of the most common naming techniques used by modern parents.
However, parents must also understand the connotation of choosing a name. After all, Chinese characters have lasted for thousands of years and have many words. The meaning of ancient times is different compared to modern times. Therefore, when parents choose poems and songs as names, they must understand their meaning and don't make fun of them.
2. Combining the date of birth
After the child is born, some parents will use the child's birth date to tell fortunes to see what the future fortune will be, and then tell the missing fortune or five elements. . For example, if a child is short of water in his life, the word "water" will be chosen when naming him. This naming technique is still popular today.
3. Based on family genealogy
If you are born in a big family, such a family will have its own genealogy, and the descendants will be named according to the seniority in the genealogy.
To sum up, parents should be cautious when naming their children. Don't give your child a name that is easy to "make fun of" because it will do more harm than good when the child is older.