When it comes to choosing a name, everyone has something to say. In the past, when ancestors were naming names, there was also a generational ranking and family tree for reference. Parents only had to choose a word for their children, and the relationship between family members seemed to be very close. But things are different now. Fewer and fewer people use genealogy to name their children. It seems that parents have more freedom, but when it comes to naming their children, they are even more worried.
Nowadays, children are the treasures of the family, so parents have to think carefully about naming their children. But sometimes it is precisely because of this kind of consideration by parents that the repetition rate of some words with good meaning is too high. However, if it is just a duplicate name or it is secondary, some words, such as: Xin, Han, Jia, Xi, not only have a high repetition rate, but also are difficult to write in strokes. When children learn to write names, there will be many Troubled, parents should choose carefully.
In addition to the difficult-to-write but nice-sounding words mentioned above, there are also some more popular words in recent years. Such as: Zi, Zi, Zi, Xuan, Xuan, Han. These words are often scrambled and combined together to become children's names, which sound both artistic and romantic, giving people the feeling of reading a romance novel. When parents name their children, it is best to avoid these points
Although it is difficult to name your children, it is not without rules. As long as parents avoid these pitfalls, the name they choose will not embarrass their children even if it is not unique.
1. Uncommon words
Many parents will give their children some rare words in order to prevent their children from having the same name as others. In fact, this is not good. First, children are not familiar with these words, which will make it difficult for them to learn and lack a sense of identity. Secondly, sometimes even the teacher may not recognize the words that are too uncommon, which will inevitably lead to embarrassment.
2. Too many strokes
Words with too many strokes are not suitable for naming children. Children will begin to learn to write their own names when they enter kindergarten. If the name given to a child has too many strokes, the child will naturally become anxious and troubled. If there is an emergency again, writing so many names would be a waste of time.
3. Embarrassing words
Names with homophones can sometimes easily cause embarrassment to children. Not only the homophonic words, but sometimes the names are consistent with some indecent words in the dialect, which is really a headache. But there are also some words that have gradually changed with the development of society, such as the word "xiang" for "fly", I believe everyone understands it. However, this kind of "accident" cannot be avoided. Parents have no choice but to avoid it and keep it within their control.
4. Don’t be too big.
It is best not to name your child too big. This has nothing to do with feudal superstition. It is indeed detrimental to the child to have a name that is too big. For example, if the child is named "Dongliang", the child will achieve nothing. If he gets into a dispute with someone at this time, Bao Buqi will use the name to ridicule the child. There are also some people who name their boys "Tianfu" and other famous names. As a result, they were not born into wealth, they did not work hard, and their lives were mediocre and even a little bumpy. There is no guarantee that someone will not use the name to ridicule them. So in order to prevent your child from crying like this, you should not give your child a name that is too big.
5. Having the same name as a celebrity
Our country has a large population, so it is inevitable to have the same name. But what we emphasize here is not to have the same name as some celebrities in history books or celebrities who are currently popular. Such duplicate names often lead to comments and jokes from others. There used to be a couple who loved each other so much that they each took their own surnames and named their children. However, the husband's surname is Li, the wife's surname is Bai, and the child's name is "Li Bai". It was okay when I didn't go to school, but when I went to elementary school, my children were always teased by their classmates when they were learning ancient poetry, so they didn't want to go to school anymore.
Nowadays, naming children does not have the restrictions of seniority and alphabet, but it gives parents a headache. However, as long as we think more about it, we can still choose a good name for our child.