Gender-neutral names are used for both men and women
We often hear this sentence in our daily life, which is called "there are differences between men and women." This means that because men and women have different genders, they do many things differently or have different requirements from society. The reason is not only that in our traditional society, the habit of favoring boys over girls has always been popular, requiring women to achieve "three obediences and four virtues", but more importantly, because they play different roles in society and their actions must be different. The same goes for naming. Naming, as a component closely related to our lives, also has different requirements for men and women. Generally speaking, names for boys should be full of masculinity, while names for girls should be full of feminine beauty. If you cannot do this, you have violated the taboo of naming. When it comes to naming, you should pay attention to gender differences. Although many young parents know this mentally, not everyone can do it in practice. I remember someone once told a joke like this: A female writer with a very masculine name and strong handwriting was once invited by an editorial department to attend a literary pen meeting in another place. The editorial department also arranged for someone to pick her up. But she was never picked up. It turned out that the person who picked her up only thought of her as a man, and never thought that she had a female surname. Later, she went through a lot of trouble to find the hotel where the meeting was held. When she opened the room that had been arranged for her, she found that she had been placed with a male writer again and had to find the organizer to change the room. There are many more examples of this type. According to legend, there was a young man named Yang Hong a few years ago. His parents gave him this name because they wanted him to become a popular person who could revitalize the family business. Unexpectedly, when he grew up, this name would often bring him trouble. One time, the unit held a youth gathering event, and young cadres who were unfamiliar with him actually assigned him to a group of young women.
Later, someone introduced him to a partner, and the woman's conditions were very good. But when she heard that his name was "Yang Hong," she began to wonder: "How can a young man choose a girl's name? It's so awkward. Yes." The girl's name might be a fake man. Wouldn't it be embarrassing to be friends with such a person?" So the girl resolutely rejected the marriage and refused to even meet him. The inability to find a girlfriend due to gender-insensitive naming is obviously the result of improper naming. Girls are given male names or boys are given female names. In recent years, it has become more and more common for people to judge their gender based on their names. It has become increasingly difficult, especially for girls to name boys. Since the 1960s and 1970s, many girls have been given masculine names such as Liping, Tiejun, and Musen. , some people even make a fuss about the word "male" and use the word "male" or its homophonic name to make it look more masculine. In this regard, some people once made fun of girls with the word "male" in their names. It is said that a girl's name with the word "nan" is a sign that a woman is better than a man. However, in the early years, when women first wanted to compete with men, they only carefully named "Ya Nan", "Second Man". ", "Weak men", just want men to make room for themselves, even if they are worse than men, they will be satisfied. After he gained a place, he also named him "Yi Nan", "Yu Nan", and "Bi Nan", openly challenging men to compete with men. When he became like men, he also named "Sheng Nan", "Sheng Nan", "Rongnan" and "Guannan" try to trample men under their feet.