Name is the most basic symbol of a person, and the first impression is often formed based on the person's name. Names will accompany people throughout their lives, and they also contain the expectations and love of parents and elders. Therefore, from the time a baby is conceived, parents will start racking their brains to name their children, and often the whole family will join in the battle. , consult dictionaries, read ancient books, choose names on the Internet, and some families even go to naming centers and ask professionals to name their children according to their various circumstances. Our country really attaches great importance to children's names.
I believe that many parents have encountered this kind of thing when naming their children: If the name you give your child contains some titles of emperor, or other things that sound more grand, Usually an old person will tell you that this is not good because the name is too big and the child cannot hold it down.
Recently, Xiaoyao, a friend of Shumiao’s mother, gave birth to a son. When she went to visit, the issue of the child’s name came up. Xiaoyao said that she originally wanted to give the child a “tall” name. Just like the names of those literati and celebrities, they hope that their children will be successful in the future. But Xiaoyao was forbidden by her mother-in-law, who said that the name of the child should not be too big. After hearing this, Sapling's mother found it quite funny. There is such a thing in naming her child. After consulting the relevant information, I discovered that this emphasis turns out to have scientific basis.
You shouldn’t name your child too big. First of all, it relies on the cultural traditions of our Chinese nation. Our country is a country that advocates moderation culture. If the name is too big, it will appear less modest. "A full name will cause harm, but a modest name will benefit." Only modesty can help people better. An overly ambitious name will inevitably attract jealousy and concern from caring people, and may have a negative impact on the child's future study and life.
Secondly, in the past few decades, due to limitations of living conditions and environment, the survival rate of children was not high. In order to allow their children to live a healthy life, the elderly chose to give their children "cheap names" ", there are many names like "Goudan" and "Silly Dan". It can also be said to be a tradition to give children "cheap" names.