In fact, naming a child is not complicated. As long as it contains the love and expectations of the parents, the pronunciation is harmonious, and the meaning of the word is beautiful, it is a good name. Based on the experience in the examples, parents are advised to do four things well, four things to avoid and one thing to learn from when naming their children.
The four good things: nice to listen to, nice to look at, easy to remember, and good intentions
1. Pleasant to listen to: Poems and songs have standardized tones and rhymes, which circulate in a flat and oblique rhythm. The two characters in the poem constitute one section. When naming your child, pay attention to the ups and downs of the bytes and the rhythm of the sound. "Ping, Ping, Ping, Ping, Ping, Ping, Ping." If you choose a name that matches the pronunciation, it will sound good. , I feel like reading poetry. For example: Lu Xiangyi (廄平平), a girl with a pleasant fragrance; Fu Yuechan (廄组平), a girl who looks like Diao Chan and is as gentle as moonlight, such a poetic name!
2． Good-looking: Modern people are becoming more and more artistic when signing their names. A good-looking signature can also leave a distinct impression on others. The structures of Chinese characters include upper and lower structures, left and right structures, fully enclosed and semi-enclosed characters, and single characters. When naming your child, you should match characters with different structures and different strokes together so that they can be written beautifully. The last strokes of the characters are easy to design artistically. The characters such as "tong", "Zhang", "Yan" and "Si" are very graceful and graceful when transformed with the strokes, strokes and dots.
3. Easy to remember: You can use words with profound meanings to name your children. The homophones of famous people’s names are also easy to remember. You can also use commemorative words that represent time, place, and era. Give a name. Hou Yi, Hou Yi, has the same pronunciation as the man who dared to shoot the sun; Zhang Qian Qian, you can tell at a glance that this little girl was born in the millennium.
4. Good intentions: A name with good meaning represents the parents’ expectations for their children and is also the best blessing. Bao Jiayin, a girl with good news, what a wonderful blessing! Shan Xin, the harmonious sound and meaning of kindness.
Four avoidances: Avoid common words, ambiguities, uncommon words, and words with too complex strokes
1. Avoid commonly used words: words such as "Wei", "Ming", "Jie", "Li", "Juan", "Jing", "Xia" and "Ting", which are often used to name children. According to an online survey, there are 695,088 Li Weis in the country. There are so many Li Weis of both men and women, so don’t give your children names like this one that responds to a hundred responses. A very interesting thing: It is said that in a class, among the 40 students, there were actually 7 people with "Xia" in their names. During the group discussion, these 7 people with "Xia" in their names happened to be divided into one group. This When the group came up with a name, they simply called it "Kasumi Girl Group".
2． Avoid ambiguity: When naming girls, avoid using ambiguous homophones. Hao Mengyao, a good dream is far away, a girl who has nightmares every day, a little uncomfortable; Lu Yanan, the road is getting harder and harder; Deng Zikuan, the stool is wide. After children go to school, these names are likely to be called nicknames by naughty children.
3. Avoid uncommon words: For uncommon words, you must first understand the meaning of the word, because some words are not common, or the meaning is no longer good if the radicals next to them are changed, so it is best to consult a dictionary to determine the meaning of the word before choosing a name. In addition, many people do not recognize rare characters, which makes them awkward to read. For example, "Liu Dajie" is a character that most people do not recognize. It would be embarrassing if someone pronounces it as "Liu Danjie".
4. Avoid characters with too complex strokes: Characters with too complex strokes are difficult for children to master when they first start learning to write, and are also difficult to recognize when others call your child's name, which can easily lead to misunderstandings. Yi (yi), who knows this big fire?
One reference: learn from ancient books
Traditional China is about asking the husband to name the child based on the horoscopes, and using the birth horoscopes to understand the baby's destiny, such as whether the yin and yang are coordinated, the five elements are even, etc. Then use the name to harmonize and improve the baby's fortune. Parents can buy a related book to learn some knowledge about naming, mathematics, birth dates, and the mutual restraint of the five elements. The principles of "The Book of Changes" run through the three talents of heaven, earth, and man, and embody the empirical results of Chinese culture's exploration of the laws of nature, life, and society during the long process of civilization development. It has become a tradition to give children an auspicious name based on the Book of Changes. We can respect this mysterious traditional culture and give our child an auspicious name that will accompany her throughout her life.