When the first grade started, the little girl felt like she was going to collapse when she did her first homework. The reason was not because she couldn’t do it, but because she couldn’t write her own name. It was too difficult!
The girl sat at the desk, moved her homework book and pen aside, and said to her mother with tears in her eyes: "Why did you choose a name that is so difficult to write? ?" As he spoke, he buried his head and cried again.
Then she asked her mother, why didn’t she call herself Xiaohua? The mother didn't know whether to laugh or cry, so she posted the video online. Unexpectedly, it attracted the attention of netizens, and many netizens felt sorry for the little girl.
My mother admitted to netizens that she did not consider this aspect when choosing the name, and she had never been taught to write before.
Parents want to give their children a nice-sounding and meaningful name, but some words tend to have a more complex structure and more strokes. This makes children who are just learning to write their names intimidated and unable to write.
After all, in order to follow the growth pattern of children, today's kindergartens no longer teach children to read and write, so in many cases, children's names are written by their parents. When children enter elementary school, they start handing in homework and have to write their names in person.
A name is something that accompanies a child throughout his life. A good name can also leave a good impression on others. In this regard, many parents have spent many days and nights thinking hard about choosing a good name for their children, which is not easy.
1. The rate of duplicate names is high
The duplication rate of children’s names is a very common phenomenon. If there are several children with the same names going to school in the same place, It is easy to cause some misunderstandings. For example, when a teacher reads out one child's score, another child thinks it is his own, and he does not know whether he is happy or sad. Or when something embarrassing happens to a celebrity in some public occasions, it will also bring some embarrassment to yourself.
In 2018, the local public security bureau announced the "Top Names". Among boys' names, "Zi Yang" was the name given by the most people, with an average of 1,000 boys. There is one named Ziyang. Among girls' names, the most common name is "Zi Qing", with an average of 1 in 500 girls named Zi Qing. There are not so many people with the word "梓" in their names.
2. Some surnames have too many people
Some surnames have a large number of people in the entire group, and the name repetition rate is high, making it more difficult to choose a name. For example, with big surnames such as "Wang", "Zhang", "Li", "Liu", etc., it is quite difficult to choose a good and unique name.
3. It is difficult for family members to agree on the same opinion
Naming a child is a big deal, so many family members will discuss it together, fearing that different people may not necessarily have the same opinion on the name. Same. This will easily lead to disagreements and ultimately make it difficult to unify. Some couples even have disagreements over whether the child should have the male or female surname.
Due to various factors, choosing a name has become a big problem for many parents. In addition, many parents will pay attention to whether the name has a good meaning and whether it sounds good when pronounced. If you are too casual or careless, you may get a bad name.
1. Distinguish between men and women
Men and women are different, and so are their names. Girls' names generally tend to be elegant and virtuous, while boys' names should be bold and rough. This allows everyone to directly identify men and women based on their names, instead of confusing men's and women's names, which may cause misunderstandings and embarrassment.
2. Try to avoid uncommon words
Some parents will use uncommon words as names in pursuit of meaning or distinction, but they will also give Children bring a lot of trouble. Even the teacher doesn’t recognize some of the rare words and can’t even pronounce the child’s name.
Some rare words cannot be entered on the computer, which will be particularly troublesome if you need to register a household register or other documents. Therefore, choosing a word that most people know can avoid embarrassing others and causing trouble for yourself.
3. Ambiguous homophones
When naming, you must also pay attention to avoid ambiguous homophones, which will remind people of all kinds of strange things. It is a place where others make fun of it, and some of the homophonic meanings when pronounced are not good, and it is like a curse to the children, which is also terrible.
For example, "Du Ziteng", "Pang Guangda" and "Fan Wan", these names are so ambiguous that they make people laugh and at the same time deeply hurt the children's self-esteem. Therefore, when choosing a name, ask multiple people to read it several times to avoid ambiguous homophony.
4. Don’t choose a name that is too big
We all hope that our children will be successful when they grow up, so parents will put aside their expectations for their children. in the name. For example, having a child named "Li Qinghua" will not only bring pressure to the child, but also cause the child to encounter various embarrassments if he grows up and attends an ordinary school, and the child may also complain about it.
1. Look up the dictionary
When naming their children, most parents will look up some words with good meanings in the Xinhua Dictionary. The dictionary has comprehensive words and detailed explanations, but searching them will take more time and energy, but it is also an interesting experience.
2. Collection of ancient poems
The words or phrases in ancient poems will have more charm. Giving a child a name related to an ancient poem makes it appear meaningful and poetic, and it is not so easy to repeat the name.
3. Ask relatives, friends or experts
Relying on only one or two people to come up with a name is a limited thinking. You can let relatives and friends think about it together and brainstorm. If that doesn't work, you can also find an expert or team who specializes in naming others, which will save you a lot of worry and make you more satisfied. But many parents still prefer to fetch their children by themselves, after all, the children are born by themselves.
Naming is a science. If the name is not good, the child may blame his parents when he grows up. Even if you are told that you can change your name if you are not satisfied, once you have applied for an ID card, it will be particularly troublesome to change it. So when naming your child, try to be cautious.