I think you gave her your salary card as a gift, and maybe she fell in love with you right away.
What does it mean for women when men hand over their salary cards? It's love, it's commitment, and it's a full sense of responsibility for the family. This is a universal method and is equally effective no matter what religion you believe in. This is called "We have a deep love for each other, and Kaka knows my heart."
Women should be responsible for the majority of money management in Chinese families. Of course, I am talking about ordinary people, not the rich.
Why are women in charge of money? Two reasons.
First, most women believe in the view that men cannot carry money in their wallets, because men become bad when they have money. Based on this logic, if you drain it, the damage will probably not be much. From now on, when you go out to the wild, it will be interesting to see how you can still look cool when you are so strapped for money. Generally speaking, people are heroes, money is courage, a man without courage can run to the end of the world, and his wife will still sleep peacefully at home.
Second, most women are indeed better at managing money than men. There is a reason why most of the people in the finance office are women. Women are attentive, men are careless. This small moment has already determined the general trend of the world. This is not the most important thing. It is normal for men to run out every day and meet a few fair-weather friends who borrow money. What do you mean by borrowing? If you insist on borrowing money, will your friend still want to do it? I was forced to have no way out before, but now I feel better. I spread my hands and said, "I'm sorry, I don't have any money. The money is with my wife."
I don’t think many people have the courage to borrow money from your wife. Even if you have the courage, you can’t borrow it. Wives all have a famous saying: "It doesn't matter if you don't have money, it means your life."
Let’s talk about this Islamic girl from the Hui ethnic group. Which ethnic group is she from? What religion do you believe in? To tell the truth, she is also a girl, and she is also Chinese. She always has to pay when she goes out to buy things. She is also addicted to the pleasure of counting money, so of course she also likes salary cards.
To please her, don’t use those useless sweet words, who are you trying to coax? Don't give me those flowers and plants. Can they be used as food? Just hand over your salary card honestly and everything will be easy to talk about!
Of course, after the card is handed over, sweet words should be spoken, and sweet words should be spoken; flowers should be spent, and flowers should be spent. These are not bad, but the order cannot be reversed!