In daily life, getting married is a very prudent thing. The wedding day usually chooses the ecliptic festival, but there are other stresses. So why avoid 24 solar terms when getting married? How many months should I avoid getting married?
Get married to avoid 24 solar terms
The 24 solar terms originated from Chang 'an, Guanzhong, and were the product of ancient farming civilization in China. As early as the Spring and Autumn Period, the ancients measured the four solar terms of vernal equinox, summer solstice, autumnal equinox and winter solstice according to the astronomical phenomena and objects, and then gradually improved and enriched them. By the Qin and Han Dynasties, 24 solar terms were established to guide the production of folk crops.
People believe that the wedding day should be avoided from four days to the day before, that is, beginning of spring, long summer, beginning of autumn, beginning of winter and the day before the vernal equinox, autumnal equinox, summer solstice and winter solstice in the 24 solar terms are not available, and the cosmic gas field is in a state of chaos. In traditional customs, it is considered as four-day and four-day departure, so it is unlucky to get married at this time.
in addition, there are many taboos about choosing a wedding date, such as the need to avoid March, July and September of the lunar calendar, which respectively coincide? Qingming? 、? Euglena? And? Shigeo? Are they all traditional? Ghost Festival? It is not appropriate to have a happy event. ? Married for half a year in June? June is equal to half a year. What is the wedding in June? Couple for half a year? The omen. At the same time, traditional numerology says that the birthday of both parents should be avoided on the wedding day. If the wedding date is the same as the parents' birthday, it will conflict with each other, which is not conducive to their happiness.
Conclusion: The auspicious day for marriage is what people often say, namely, the auspicious day of the ecliptic and auspicious day, which is to choose a good day that is beneficial to the new couple in all aspects to complete the wedding. This is the psychological need rooted in the hearts of ordinary people for thousands of years. Of course, many people no longer pay attention to this taboo like the older generation, but? Would rather believe it? There is also a mentality.
what month should you avoid when you get married?
April
It's easy to understand that you don't get married in April. Now people don't talk about numbers. 4? It is unlucky to think that 4 is homophonic with death. Nowadays, 4 is rarely used. In ancient times, there were five months to avoid getting married, and it was not appropriate to get married. The reason was very wonderful. In fact, the ancients also thought so. 4 is homophonic with death, and it would be extremely unlucky to get married in April. Who wants bad things to happen after marriage? Therefore, in order to avoid taboo, the ancients rarely got married in April.
May
Ancient people were very afraid of May, because May was an evil month, and May 5th was an evil day, so everyone was afraid to avoid it. Therefore, babies born in May or May 5th are often named "Eliminating Evil" and "Eliminating Evil". "Lu Chunqiu? "midsummer" records, may,? Yin and yang struggle, the difference between life and death? So, the gentleman wants it? Fasting, silence, thin taste, calm your mind. ? It means that people should fast, not engage in sexual activities, and eat less and drink less. In addition, May is also regarded as the day when the five poisons are rampant in the world, and all centipedes, snakes and mice jump out to do mischief. In ancient times, when people got married, they had to avoid it for five months, so it was not appropriate to get married. The reason was very wonderful and ghostly. Pestilence, poisonous gas and other evil things are dancing in disorder, so it is not suitable for marriage.
June
As for the reason why the ancients forbidden to get married in June, it is even more wonderful. There is an ancient saying called? Married for half a year in June? , what does this mean? That is to say, June is half of December, and by June, the year is over half. If you choose to get married in June, it means that both husband and wife can only be sweet until the end of the year. In ancient times, people had to avoid getting married for five months, and it was not appropriate to get married. The reason was very wonderful. By the end of the year, everything would go wrong, either divorced or unlucky.
July
Compared with May and June, July is even worse. May is just a bad month, while July is a ghost month. May 5th is an evil day in an evil month, while July 15th is a ghost day in a ghost month, and this day is the Ghost Festival in China traditional culture. Every July, the big kids in the hell and the temple of hell will come to the dead to make trouble. In order not to offend these ghosts and gods, people dare not get married in July, so bear with it.
But July is not all about ghosts, and there is another romantic thing, that is, Valentine's Day on July 7th, Tanabata. According to legend, on Tanabata, the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl will meet at the Magpie Bridge, only once a year. In ancient times, there were five months to avoid getting married, and it was not appropriate to get married. Therefore, the ancients would not get married on Qixi Festival, because if they got married, it would be possible for husband and wife to separate. Who wants to see it only once a year?
August
July has passed? Don't worry, there is still August. August is also not suitable for marriage, and the reason is even more wonderful and meaningless. As we all know, August 15th is the Mid-Autumn Festival, so this day is actually a day for people to offer sacrifices to the landowners. Whoever wants to get married in August and get his wife back is not a wife, but a land woman, the wife of the land Lord. Is it bad to marry a landlady? Very bad. The reason turned out to be that the land master turned out to be a hen-pecked wife and was afraid of his wife. So when a man marries a wife in August, he will be afraid of his wife in the future. In ancient times, there were five months to avoid marriage, and it was not suitable for marriage. The reasons were very strange.
Four, five, six, seven and eight months were not suitable for marriage. In addition, there were some stresses, that is, we should try our best to choose other double days suitable for marriage months, not on a single day. The reason is easy to understand, double date, yes man, two people's wedding, it is natural to be in pairs. Ancient people had to avoid getting married for five months, and it was not appropriate to get married. The reason was very strange. If you put it on a single day, it would mean being alone and unlucky.
What years and months should we avoid when choosing a wedding date?
Blind year
Does it mean the whole year? Beginning of spring? Days, usually? Shuangchun? Is the next year? Blind year? . But? Blind year? There are also auspicious days, so basically, if the specific date is set, then Dr. Zheng thinks that it is not necessary to get married in the blind year.
Festivals
Avoid January, so as not to collide with the Chinese New Year.
ghost festival
it is best to avoid choosing auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide respectively? Qingming? 、? Euglena? And? Shigeo? Are they all traditional? Ghost Festival? It is not appropriate to have a happy event.
SanNianSha
According to legend, YueLao doesn't hold the red line for SanNian, which prevents her from getting married. Based on revenge, Sanniang rebelled against Yuelao and sabotaged the wedding ceremony of the couple. Therefore, it is not suitable to get married on the third day, seventh day, thirteenth day, eighteenth day, 22nd day and 27th day of each month.
People have the custom of taboo in their daily life. Say what is auspicious, and avoid saying what is unlucky, so why? Okay, ugly spirit? The saying. In taboo customs, do you particularly avoid saying or using them? Thirteen? As a result, the thirteenth day of the lunar calendar is not used for any happy wedding.