1. Taboo the names of ancestors and sages
Han people generally avoid the names of ancestors. One is that the Han nationality traditionally stresses seniority. Taking ancestors' names as names not only disturbs the sorting of generations; And it will be regarded as the disrespect of ancestors. The second is due to the particularity of the Han nationality. The Chinese surname is first inherited from the stepfather's surname, and then given a personal name, while some ethnic minorities or foreigners have their own names, their father's names or their mother's and father's names. For example, the French name is usually three paragraphs, that is, the real name, the mother's surname and the father's surname. If the Chinese name inherits the father's surname and adds the ancestor's name, there will be no difference between the two, so you can't tell whether Li Si is a grandfather or a son at all. Under the feudal system, people should not only "respect ancestors and respect ancestors", but also regard them as the supreme. Even calling the monarch by his first name is a big violation. During Yongzheng and Qianlong periods in the Qing Dynasty, people could be punished with death and the nine clans were affected by this article alone. So this taboo is called "national taboo". But as far as modern people are concerned, only the name theory is concerned, and generally the names of great men and celebrities are not used. However, because some people revere a great man or celebrity, they deliberately take his name. For example, Li Dalin and Zhang Dazhao are named after Li Dazhao and Stalin. Of course, people who are surnamed Zhao and Guan should not be named as "Zilong" and "Yunchang", otherwise it will be indistinguishable from today.
2, taboo cold words
Names are used for communication, otherwise, names will lose their value of existence. Today's era is the era of computers, and the vast majority of Chinese characters stored in computers are limited to commonly used words. If some uncommon words are used in naming, which most people don't know, it must affect the communication between people. Using uncommon words in naming can only increase the difficulty and trouble of others' work in vain. The motivation for people to choose uncommon words when making names is actually very simple, just to be unconventional. But the commonly used words that people generally know are only three or four thousand words, and the naming is mainly for others to call, not to show off learning. Someone once said, for example, that when you apply for a job in a certain department, if the supervisor doesn't recognize your name after reading your resume, then the impression on you must be very vague. If he mispronounced your name when calling you and you corrected it, this scene may embarrass the leader. The leader will feel embarrassed or even angry because he has lost face, and you may feel contempt because the leader doesn't even know your name. In the process of getting along with superiors and subordinates in the future, some discord or disharmony may occur. Naming should avoid stereotypes and similarities, but it can't rely on the use of uncommon words. The use of uncommon words affects the image and hinders communication, which is not worth the loss. The number of Chinese characters in our country is very large, including 42, words and 174 words in Kangxi Dictionary alone. In addition, there are often very subtle differences among traditional and simplified characters, ancient and modern characters, and regular and popular characters. In the old days, people named it and liked to look through Kangxi Dictionary, which was not worth taking. We should use reference books, and the most ideal one is Modern Chinese Dictionary. It also includes words under each word, which is of great reference value for naming. Attention should also be paid to the use of this reference book, and the uncommon words in it should be avoided when using it.
3. Avoid the monotonous repetition of names and fonts
Some people name names and like to make a fuss about the physical structure of Chinese characters. For example, the names Shi, Lei, Lin, Sen, Nie and Er are examples. The aesthetic effect of this naming is quite good, but it is a pity that our surnames can be used so little. And even if Shi, Lin and Nie have three surnames, it is impossible for everyone to use this method. Some people, such as Li Ji and Zhang Chi, like to use the same radicals in their names, and promote this as a naming technique, which is actually not worth promoting. If the radicals of the three names are exactly the same, it will make people feel monotonous. Especially when you sign your name in calligraphy, you will feel more strongly that radicals with the same names, such as Jiang Langtao and He Xinren, are not > >
Give children names according to their parents' names. Chen Maojin
Mao: Quanguang
Jin: Yali
If you know the children's names, can you find out the parents' names? The police station should be able to find out the date of birth of the child.
Help me to name the baby 1 points after the parents' names. Pan Jiahe
Can't the children's names have the words in their parents' names? This actually doesn't matter.
There is a taboo in our country-children can't have their parents' names in their names, which will restrain each other and is not conducive to development.
but personally, it doesn't matter. There is generally no such stress abroad. George W. Bush has the same name as his father. So all is forgiven's is better. Love is enough.
Why do foreigners always use their elders or parents' names when naming their children to show their respect for them, Harry? The same is true of Porter's naming children
Why did the children give themselves a "word" after their parents named them in ancient times? Most ancient people had other characters besides their real names, which became common in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period. Book of Rites? Quli Shang said: "Men are twenty, crowned with words, ... women are allowed to marry, and they are full of words." When an aristocratic man is twenty years old (adult), he can take the crown instrument and take the words. When a woman gets married (adult), she can send her hair and insert it (hairpin) and take the words. Therefore, it was later called a woman's promise to marry as a "word", such as: waiting for a word, a word person, and so on. It seems that this rule of taking Chinese characters was initially confined to the upper-class circles, but later it gradually broke the boundary, and ordinary people also took more Chinese characters and became accustomed to it.
So, what is the relationship between a word and a name? "Yan's family training? "Feng Cao" said: "The ancient people, the name is correct, and the word is used to express virtue." In a broad sense, the word may be an interpretation of the meaning of a name, or it may be a display of the connotation of a name. For example, Zhuge Liang's word Kong Ming, Guan Yu's word Yun Chang, Bao Zhao's word Ming Yuan, Tao Qian's word Yuan Ming, Bai Juyi's word Lotte, etc., all have different meanings and complement each other. Su Shi, the word Zizhan, if we know that the ancient meaning of the word "Shi" refers to the crossbar in front of the car for people to lean on, and the word "Zi" is claimed by the master, then it is logical to call it "Zhan" by the railing. His other ideograph "He Zhong" is rarely used, and "Zhong" means two, and Su Shi ranks second. Adding the word "He" contains auspicious meaning. If you understand the original meaning of these words and look at the ideograph, the meaning will be clear. Yuan Hao-wen, a writer in Jin Dynasty, was full of words, and people were "good at asking" and learned "full of words", which was really wonderful. Li Yu, a dramatist in the Qing Dynasty, used the word "Li Weng", which can be described as a vulgar word to see elegance. Others simply split their names into characters, which are easy to remember. For example, in the Qing Dynasty, the poet Shu Wei was a founder and the character You Dong was a colleague. And some people like to take a lot of words, again and again, and never tire of it. The champion of many words among the literati is probably Mao Qiling (a `) in Xiaoshan, Hangzhou in the early Qing Dynasty. He is born with two words, and the words are big, neat, in, Chu Qing, yat sen villa, old sunny, autumn sunny, late spring, Chunzhuang, Monk Mi, Monk Kai and so on. It's really arbitrary.
It is also necessary for scholars to take another name besides their names and characters, which is often more mysterious and even untraceable than the acquisition of characters, but most of them still have rules to follow. Many people like to take the names of the places where they once lived or stayed as numbers. For example, Tao Yuanming's Biography of Mr. Wuliu says, "There are five willows near the house, because they think they are numbered." At the age of five, Li Bai moved to Qinglian Township, Zhangming County, Mianzhou (now Jiangyou County, Sichuan Province) with his father, and later named himself "Qinglian layman"; After Su Shi was demoted to Huangzhou (now Huanggang County, Hubei Province), he "built a room in Dongpo with Tian Fuye's old man from the stream and mountain, and named himself Dongpo Jushi." Su Shi took Dongpo as the name and admired Bai Juyi, because Bai Juyi had planted flowers in Dongpo House in Zhongzhou (now Zhongxian County, Sichuan Province) to amuse himself, and his poems tasted several words and "Dongpo", which was effective after Su Mu's admiration, so he thought it was the name. Su Shi's nickname is the most popular in literary and folk circles, and his other nicknames are as many as more than 3, some of which are called by ranking and native place, such as: Dasu (different from his brother Su Zhe), Mr. Emei and Meishan Gong; Some people are famous for their official positions, such as Su Shijun, Su Xianliang and West Lake Chief. There are also people who call themselves or be called because of their personality and poetic style, as well as those who aim to raise their minds, such as Po Xian, the fallen immortal and the crazy assistant. From his many names, it can also be seen that the ancients took the number widely and unrestricted, and many numbers became accustomed to it. Many literati also got the title because of anecdotes or good sentences. For example, in the late Tang Dynasty, when Wen Tingyun was young, he took part in the examination, saying, "The official rhyme was used as a fu, and all eight rhymes became eight", and the title was "Wen Octagon", which was close to a nickname or banter. Zhang Xian, a poet in the Song Dynasty, was known as "Zhang Sanying" because of his three beautiful sentences about "shadow". At the end of Yuan Dynasty, Yuan Kai was famous for chanting Bai Yan's poems, and people called him "Yuan Baiyan". At the beginning of the Qing Dynasty, Wang Shi-g wrote "Shuyu Ci" with the sentence "Lang is like a tung flower, concubine is like a tung flower phoenix", which was called "Wang Tonghua" for a while. These are all examples of famous poets. It is also a common practice for scholars to name their official residence and study. Yuan Mei, a poet in the Qing Dynasty, settled in Xiaocang Mountain, Jiangning (now Nanjing), because he was named "the old man with the garden"; The library of Qian Ceng, a bibliophile in Qing Dynasty, was named "Also Garden", and his nickname was "Also Weng".
Can't a child's name have the same words or sounds as the parents' names? In fact, the so-called taboo should be an old saying, and now many traditional concepts are not very concerned. The key is to see what you think at home. If you care about this statement, don't use it. If you don't care, what's the harm in using it? And personally, I think it's a long-lasting and eternal meaning that represents the crystallization of your love with your wife, and your whole family has recognized that the name is good and quite good.
How should parents name their children should be based on the innate eight-character numerology and name science, in line with the relationship between the shape, sound and meaning of the name and the parents' numerology. The factors that should be fully considered in naming a name are: 1. It conforms to personal numerology, that is to say, choose your favorite gods through numerology, and then combine them according to your favorite words; 2. It conforms to the principle of Yi, and its implication is to achieve the balance of Yin and Yang; 3, in line with mathematics, specifically speaking, it is to achieve a good fortune in the mathematics of heaven, earth, personality, general case and foreign case, and not to appear fierce in the name; 4, in line with the three-talent configuration, which is commonly known as the time, place and people, the intention is to combine these three good fortune into the name, so that the name generated can play a role in increasing luck; 5, it conforms to the five-grid profile, and only plays a reference role in the whole naming process, not the main factor; 6. Conforming to the pronunciation, shape and meaning of words refers to the words used in the name, which should not be uncommon and difficult to recognize, but should be conducive to writing and identification, and should not have homophonic sounds, which will cause bad reverie. Another name should have a good meaning, because the name has a suggestive role, and a positive name can always give people a feeling of vigor and vitality; 7, in line with personal style and personality, the name should be taken according to my personality information, try to make up for the disadvantages in personality, highlight my own advantages, and avoid the same name as the same sex in the family, especially the elders;