Personally, I think it is natural for women to fight for the right to name their children. However, women must also understand that it is natural for men to fight for the right to name their children. It's okay to argue, but don't lose the harmony of the family, lose the relationship between the couple, ruin the marriage, and affect the healthy growth of the children. It is indeed a continuation of the patriarchal social culture for children to take their father's surname. Therefore, the law has long allowed children to take their mother's surname. However, due to the strong inertia of tradition, most children still take their father's surname. Therefore, when women want to fight for the right to name their children, the first thing they face is the strong inertia of tradition. This inertia makes most men think that it is natural and unquestionable for their children to take their father's surname. Therefore, parents have legally equal rights to name their children. If a woman wants to fight for the right to name her children, she must do a good job in her husband's ideological work. Hello, this doesn't matter much. I think son preference is the concept of inequality between men and women in society. It values ??men's rights and interests, while defining women as men's subordinates and restricting their opportunities to develop their personal talents and personal freedom. This concept is common in patriarchal societies and is often accompanied by the concepts of male superiority, female inferiority and gender division of labor.
1. If a man has a high degree of education but does not have a partner, everyone will think that this person has a bright future. There is no need to worry about the partner, and he will definitely find a good wife in the future. And if a girl doesn’t have a boyfriend because she has been studying, others will say, why does a girl study so much? Finding a good family is the most important thing. As the saying goes, "it is better to marry well than to do well". In fact, this is a kind of denial of women, thinking that girls are inferior to boys. Strongly reflects the phenomenon of favoring sons over daughters
2. When family planning was implemented in the past, there was a rule: if the first child is a boy, the second child cannot be born. If it's a girl, you can have another baby. In fact, the backside of this policy reflects the phenomenon of favoring boys over girls
3. Children basically take their father’s surname. Some men will be very concerned about their children not taking their father’s surname. They always feel that this is not the rule.
4. When you are pregnant, you always hope that you can conceive a boy, because if the first child is a boy, the mother will be less stressed. If the first child is not a boy, she will definitely have to have another child. When you are pregnant with your second child, you will also be under great psychological pressure. This is enough to show that the idea of ????preferring sons over daughters has long been engraved in the blood of the Chinese people.
So I think *** has nothing to do with shouldering family responsibilities and equality between men and women.
Good luck.