A name is an important identifier of a person. In order to give their children a good name, parents take great pains, looking through dictionaries and ancient books of poetry, and asking relatives and friends from all walks of life. Friends with high cultural literacy. A good name can make others think about it silently for a long time, which will naturally deepen their impression.
But now some young people choose their children's names a bit casually, and even for the sake of fun and grandstanding. For example, in the past two years, some parents named their children "King of Glory", and also added a lot of strokes of rare characters to their children's names. This approach is really a bit "deceiving".
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The name of a boy born after 1995 only has one stroke, but most people don’t recognize it. Netizen: Parents are really talented
A boy born after 1995 became famous because his name was accidentally exposed while looking for a job. The strokes of his name are not difficult, but most people can't pronounce his name accurately, so they simply call him "Qin Dian". Because his reputation is exactly "Qin". This "丶" is not the "dot" in the punctuation mark, but is pronounced "zhu".
To be honest, although this name does not have such profound cultural meaning, it is better than many other sensational names. First of all, this kind of name that is too simple and unique can impress others. Secondly, this name has very few strokes, which makes it easier to learn and remember when you are a child, and it is also more acceptable.
In addition to the above-mentioned post-95 boys, a primary school student also became popular because his name has very few strokes. This little boy’s name is “Bu Yi”. This name, including the first name and last name, only takes 3 strokes. It is too easy for children to write their names.
Such names with simple strokes are impressive. Compared with names with uncommon characters, teachers or bosses are subconsciously more likely to remember unpopular but concise names. When the child's father was asked why he gave his child such a simple name, the father reluctantly said: Because his name is Bu Hongyao.
Nowadays, parents are so casual in naming their children.
Maybe this generation of parents were instilled in them by film and television works when they were young: "The male protagonists of idol dramas are always four-year-old." "One-character names" thinking, this generation of children has many unnecessary four-letter names. If it's just a simple four-letter name, it's not harmful, but some parents don't care about the culture of the name, but instead feel like it's sensationalizing.
For example, when parents give these names to their children, the embarrassing "Xie Zulong'en", the less culturally meaningful "Six Little Soul Boy", the somewhat nondescript "Chengmen Lixue", etc. Maybe it was just for fun, and I didn’t think about how embarrassing it would be for children twenty or thirty years later when their names were called on important occasions.
Some parents who are not very good at naming, but want their children’s names to look “cultured”, like to use uncommon words to “coin culture” for their children. . For example, the father of the above-mentioned child Bu Yi, Bu Hongyao, was so troubled by the uncommon characters in his name that he gave his child an extremely simple name.
Uncommon characters have nothing to do with whether you have culture or not. Some ancient names with very charming names actually do not contain uncommon characters. For example: Liu Rushi, Zhang Juzheng, Yu Xuanji, Wen Tingjun, Ying Fusu, Zhong Ziqi, etc. The characteristic of these names lies in the clever use of words or allusions, rather than relying on uncommon words.
Some parents do not pursue uncommon words and are too lazy to use four-character names, but the names they come up with are still shocking to everyone. For example, the much-talked-about girl named "Wu Zetian" two years ago was criticized for having to live in the stereotype of a "queen" for the rest of her life.
For another example, a few years ago there was a naughty child whose real name was actually "Monkey King", which also made people laugh out loud.
When parents blindly pursue names that are “not surprising but will never end”, it is the children who will be looked at with strange eyes throughout their lives.
The worst thing to avoid when choosing a name is to follow the trend. The trend often does not have connotation. After more than ten years, this trend will be ridiculed as "outdated". . For example, there have been many children named "Aotian", "Nangongxuan" and "Zixuan" in the past two years. This kind of name is okay to pronounce now, but it will be more awkward and embarrassing in a few decades.
Therefore, the naming cannot be clichéd. You cannot just let your child be called this because everyone else is calling it this. The name was from decades ago, so we can't follow the trend.
I don’t know if you have noticed that the reason why many ancient people’s names make people feel graceful is that their names have excellent adjectives and have a sense of movement and stillness. For example, "Ying Fusu", "Fu" is an action in people's mind, and "Su" is very emotional. When the two are combined, the charm comes out.
Therefore, parents can refer to this method when naming. By skillfully using static and dynamic combinations of words or clever use of allusions, you can come up with a name that people think is very good.
In elementary school and junior high school, it is very common to give others nicknames because of their names. Therefore, parents should try their best to avoid giving their children a sensational name and prevent their children from being troubled by the name.
Today’s topic: What’s the most amazing name for you?