The name is important to each of us, and how does he distinguish the important information of his identity among many people? Moreover, on the one hand, for the elders, the expectations of the younger generation are included in the name. For example, such names as Jie, An, Fei, etc. reflect the expectations of the elders for the blessings of the younger generation; On the other hand, names also have a strong sense of the times. For example, in the 195s, there were many founding and national days. The post-8s prosperity; Zi Xuan and Zixuan after 199s. All this reflects the traces of a certain era.
I'm born in the 199s, and my parents were born in the 197s. In my parents' era, I only paid attention to the seniority when choosing my name. It's always decided which word to use for each generation. Usually, it's just the surname plus the seniority plus one word, which is three words. Among my peers, this name is the combination of most. When I was a child, I was particularly fascinated by martial arts dramas. At that time, I felt that compound surnames such as "Shangguan" and "Murong" were very feasible, and the four-word names were also very pleasant to listen to. Many times, I regretted why my parents who were not compound surnames did not give themselves a four-word name.
It's probably a common problem of people in our time. As we become parents ourselves, we gradually stop paying attention to the order of generations for children's names, and choose whatever names are good. However, for some parents' names, there are indeed many tricks. For example, the current fashion Bingdundun, everyone's love for Bingdundun goes without saying, and the degree of difficulty in buying can be reflected. Then, there is such a couple, although in reality they didn't grab Bingdundun, but they gave birth to one of their own, whose name is Bingdundun directly, which really makes people feel too casual. Maybe they want to express that their children are as popular as Bingdundun.
China's ancient poems are all very beautiful and charming, and many people's names will be taken according to the poems with artistic conception. For example, names such as "Zi Ji" and "Xing Ci" will make people feel very elegant and artistic at first glance. However, there is a parent whose name is "morning and night", but it is still good to read these four words, but it is a bit reluctant to be a name. Probably parents want their children to be with them all the time.
The above two names are reasonable, at least some of them have a good source. However, there are some names that really feel the perfunctory and playfulness of parents. For example, this parent, Zhu Zhuxia Superman? I don't know what such a name will bring to children in their study and life, whether it will be cancelled by classmates or not, whether it will be too eye-catching, and whether parents have thought about their children's feelings when naming them.
Not all idioms can be used as names, even if they are homophonic, which makes people feel incredible. For example, this parent named his child Zuo You Feng Yuan. Perhaps the parents' original intention was to hope that his child would be good at dancing with long sleeves, but they ignored that the word was not entirely a compliment to some extent.
There are even some parents who are named after what they like and what they think is good. For example, the name "the glory of the king", I really can't figure out what kind of parents would use such four words as their children's names.
There are also some names. Have parents ever thought about the scene when their children were named by the teacher in front of the whole class in the classroom and then everyone burst into laughter? It's not the maverick that is the conspicuous existence, and it's the satisfaction that can be found. In children's world, their ideas are very simple and rarely take into account the feelings of others. When we were young, we were nicknamed by others, and nicknames were largely caused by our own names.
under normal circumstances, names will be with us all our lives, so it's better to be cautious when parents choose names. Otherwise, it will make their children's names a reason for others to joke at school or after work, which is a kind of harm to the teased object, regardless of age. I believe many people have a deep understanding. Names are the sustenance of parents for their children, which makes us wish them good wishes. It is really wrong to be too trifling.
in the final analysis, a name is really just a pronoun, which just means that we as an individual can quickly distinguish ourselves from others. However, even so, when we give children names, we should be cautious rather than casual or playful. For children, the name is our parents' sustenance and hope. Even if we don't like our name so much, then it is given to us by our parents. We can change it when we grow up, or we don't have to pay too much attention to such things, as long as it's not too special for a long time, everyone will get used to it. For other children, it is a basic respect for people not to laugh at others with their names and give them nicknames. No matter how strange their names make you feel, you should not discuss and make fun of them.