Small Window: A wise man does not fight against life and law.

You Ji in a Small Window is a popular reading in Chen Jiru in the Ming Dynasty, and it is also called "the three wonders of life" with Hong Yingming's Caigen Tan and Wang Yongbin's Night Talk around the stove.

This is a book that records famous sayings and sentences. All sentences have their origins, but they come together in one place and form a book. The book is divided into twelve volumes, such as "qiào", covering all aspects such as making a statement, building a heart, reading, seeking an official position and managing a family. , and mainly expressed the indifferent fame and fortune, quiet and far-reaching, extraordinary inner world and spiritual pursuit.

Let's take a look at the "wake up" in this classic book:

The goodness of hills is not a gentleman yet: if you accumulate goodness like hills, you are not necessarily a gentleman; This is only one aspect of a gentleman's performance. A gentleman should at least meet the requirements of "benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and faith". Some rich people make money and donate money to do good deeds, but when they make money, they may be unscrupulous and even pay bribes. Of course, they are not gentlemen.

If you covet a little benefit, you will become a villain: if you covet a little benefit, you will gradually become a villain.

Take a little today and a day tomorrow. The more you take, the more you become a habit, and the habit becomes natural.

Those corrupt officials who become prisoners are greedy for petty gains, and the more greedy they are, the more they can't stop.

Wise men do not fight against fate: wise men do not fight against fate; When you are disabled, don't complain, it's useless; The most important first step is to accept, and then on this basis, under this objective condition, see what else can be done.

Don't go against the law: if you do something wrong and hurt others, you will be punished by the law in the end.

Don't fight with reason: don't fight with truth; For example, we are all affected by gravity on the earth, and you don't recognize this principle; If you have to jump from a height, you will certainly get hurt, because you can't float, let alone fly like Superman.

Not against the trend: that is, not against the general trend; So it is also necessary to know some news knowledge.

Do not listen to foreign affairs, want to run training courses; Now the state only explicitly forbids students to make up lessons outside. You are still starting a business in this field and investing a lot of money, which is against the trend. If you don't lose, you lose.

Have a clear conscience at night: it is easy to find your conscience in the dead of night; So don't do bad things, do things that your conscience can't pass, and often toss and turn in the middle of the night and can't sleep.

True feelings are revealed between eating bean soup: true feelings are revealed in a simple diet; There is a program called Midnight Food Store, where people gather in a simple pub, eat simple food, chat with the boss, show their true feelings and heal their hearts.

When you get home, you are exhausted, and your family cooks a bowl of steaming noodles for you. It is better than those high-end dishes that accompany guests in luxury hotels; One is entertainment and the other is rest.

Therefore, it is better to let people give up on themselves: it is better to force others than to ask them; It is better to let them reflect on themselves, and finally come to a conclusion and make a choice.

It is better to attack others than to expose yourself: it is better to attack others than to expose yourself; Arrogant people, people who like to brag, often expose their shortcomings and eventually suffer big losses.

Eat without ploughing, dress without knitting: eat without ploughing, dress without knitting.

There is nothing to do, some start to get bored, start doing nothing, and start smoking, drinking and gambling; Of course, some people have found good hobbies, such as writing, reading and sports.

Talk nonsense: some people start to show off their eloquence, show off their eloquence and gossip.

An old friend knows that people who have nothing to do are good at making a living: from this, people who have nothing to do are prone to make trouble. So, sometimes being busy is a good thing; Being busy won't make you think, and it won't get you into trouble.

The root of the problem is love: procrastination and hesitation. The root of the problem is love. To put it bluntly, I just can't bear it. If you can't bear it, you have to "give up" and refuse to "give up". In the end, you can only "give up".

The beauty of following the party lies in the word "resistance": the beauty of adjusting with the change of the situation lies in the word "resistance"; Difficult things, simply dragging; Hold back loneliness, anger, and other forms, and your problem will be solved naturally, and you will be puzzled.

"Awakening" refers to keeping a clear head and a simple heart in turbulent times, not being confused by worldly fame and wealth, and not being tempted by worldly interests.

Being awake means that you don't agree with yourself and the world. You would rather see the truth than hide or avoid it.

More importantly, stand at a certain height to see the overall situation and observe yourself like a bystander; Clear your mind and move forward calmly.