For example, when cooking, she always asks my husband what he is eating, but never me.
Actually, at the beginning, I believed that my mother-in-law could treat me like a mother. But when she asked my husband what he wanted to eat every time she cooked, I understood that my mother-in-law was not my mother, she was You will never be able to care about me like your mother does.
Then there are the dirty clothes I changed. No matter how long I put them, no one washes them for me. But my husband’s clothes, no matter where he puts them, my mother-in-law will find them and wash them for him. It has to be clean.
Furthermore, my washed clothes are hung there. Even if they are hung for a month, no one will collect them for me. Even if they are collected, they will be thrown on my bed in large piles. Then my husband’s clothes only need to be collected. As soon as he finished it, my mother-in-law immediately collected it from him and folded it neatly and put it in his closet.
Lastly, when my husband was working outside, my mother-in-law never cleaned my room. No matter how dirty or messy my room was, no one took care of it. But after my husband came back, my mother-in-law Quickly change the quilt, then mop and sweep the floor, and tidy up our room.
So there is really no comparison. Thinking too much will only hurt myself, so I have no choice but to think about nothing.