1. How to write a wedding seating chart
1. Parents and relatives
The main table of a wedding banquet is usually composed of the newlyweds and their spouses. The parents sit together, and the bride sits on the right side of the groom. To the right of the bride are her father, mother, and elders of her parents. To the left of the groom are his mother, father, and elders of his parents. The parents of the couple should sit facing each other with the couple as the center.
2. Bridesmaids and groomsmen
Bridesmaids and groomsmen also play more important roles. Generally, the bridesmaids and groomsmen will be arranged in the main room. Sitting on a table or a seat near the main table not only reflects the respect of the newcomers, but also allows them to be close to the newcomers and assist them throughout the process.
3. Leaders and colleagues
This type of guests should be arranged in the middle of the wedding banquet. At the same time, those who are familiar and familiar with each other should be placed at the same table. If everyone We are not very familiar with each other, so it would be best to have someone familiar with you to calm the atmosphere and provide help and care in a timely manner. This will make you appear more respectful and polite.
4. Classmates and friends
The classmates and friends of newlyweds are usually placed at the last few tables in the banquet area because they are more Active, so that the arrangement can avoid disturbing the dining of other guests. Try to indicate the location on your wedding invitation as well!
5. Children's seats
Generally, children will appear in weddings, but children are naughty and lively by nature, so in Special attention should also be paid to seat arrangements. It is generally recommended that children be placed in a centralized area with their parents, but the seats should be as close to the exit as possible to facilitate entry and exit without disturbing other guests' dining.
6. Staff
Generally, on the day of the wedding, the newlyweds will arrange a wedding banquet for the on-site service staff. To thank them for their hard work. However, the seats are usually arranged at the end of the banquet to facilitate the staff to enter and exit at any time.
2. How to write the wedding place card
1. First, choose the color of the place card according to your preference. The choice of place card color should take into account the mode of the wedding. For example, in Chinese weddings, because Chinese weddings are all red, it would be inappropriate if you set the seat card to green or yellow. At this time, choose red to represent happiness and gold to represent wealth. However, the color of Western wedding prints is very different from Chinese style. Cards are generally chosen to be white or pink, because in Western weddings, the bride's wedding dress is usually either white or pink.
2. Only the seat number should be written on the wedding banquet seat card. However, this method requires you to find a guide, who can lead the guests to their seats. Moreover, this guide must be careful and it is best to be trustworthy. But the important thing is that you have to know in your mind who is suitable to be a leader and what characteristics he should have. After thinking clearly, you can choose one.
3. The wedding banquet place card reserves the main table position for close relatives, such as the man’s family and the woman’s family. Have a table with the girl's parents and close relatives. Since most relatives attend as a family unit, you can just write down the whole family.
4. There is no need to write your name on the wedding banquet place card. Because if I write my name, wouldn’t it be embarrassing if that person doesn’t come?
5. Write the name of the leader directly on the wedding banquet seat card. The leader is one of the more important guests. Wouldn't it be gratifying if he could see his name as soon as he entered?
6. Fill in the wedding banquet seat card according to the number, or just write the company name. For example, the front row is the "VIP seat": seats for important guests, elders of both parties, and leaders of the unit; your colleagues can directly put the seat card of "**unit" on the table, and people from the same unit will naturally sit there. Together.
3. How to arrange the guest seats at the wedding banquet
The newlyweds, their parents, elders and witnesses sit at the main table on the left side in front of the stage. The newlyweds’ VIPs are arranged on the right side in front of the stage. Side main table.
This is: the newlyweds sit in the center of the main table facing everyone, the groom sits on the left side of the bride, and on the left side of the groom are his mother, father, and elders of his parents; on the right side of the bride are her father, mother, and elders of her parents; The newlyweds sit across from each other in the center, while the witnesses, best man and bridesmaid sit next to the elders. The guests invited by the newlyweds need to be arranged according to specific circumstances.
Of course, there are cases where the parents of the couple are not at the same table. The wedding custom in some places in our country is that the parents of the couple should sit separately. The groom’s parents sit at the in-laws’ table, and the bride’s parents sit at the same table. At the natal table, it is recommended that the groom’s family members sit at the guest seats on the left or right; the bride’s family members sit at the guest seats on the right or left; the parents above the couple sit in the center of the main table on one side, facing all the guests. The guests of the newlyweds are arranged closest to the stage and the main table to show the respect of the newlyweds to the distinguished guests.
Colleagues and business partners
These newcomers should be greeted first after their elders, and those who are familiar with each other should be arranged in the same room as much as possible. If you are not familiar with the guests, you need to place a familiar friend at each table to take care of them in time. This will be more polite. Please arrange them in the middle of the entire banquet area.
Send friends from childhood, best friends and classmates
They don’t care too much about their seats and look at their friends based on their age. Schoolmates and classmates should tend to be young people, and they are definitely the group that can liven up the atmosphere most at the wedding. You might as well arrange them at the last few tables in the banquet area, which not only allows them to enjoy themselves, but also avoids drinking and affecting the entire wedding process. This section also includes the staff who help.
3 tips for arranging wedding banquet seats
1. The relationship between guests: People who like each other are more likely to be together Harmony;
2. The relationship between yourself and the guests: pay attention to the position and the distance between you and yourself, and generally arrange them near the main table;
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3. When arranging seats, you can ask the catering department to provide a table map, and number or name each table. This way, the seat arrangement will take care of all aspects. Combine this table map with the table Prepare several copies of the printed guest list to make it easier for guests to sit down and at the same time show the host's meticulousness and thoughtfulness.
4. How to arrange wedding seats
The best situation is to prepare spare chairs before the wedding banquet, and at least two to three more can be arranged at the wedding banquet site
Table. In addition, if there is a wedding banquet with seat cards, some of the seat cards will have the names of the guests printed in advance, and some empty seat cards will also be stored. Once guests who have not prepared seat cards arrive, they can temporarily write on the empty cards. Enter the guest's name. If the number of people is too large, you can consider temporarily renting a lounge and letting the rest of the guests go to the lounge first, and then invite them over after the wedding banquet is arranged.
Something new people should know. The classic round table seating arrangement is such that the bride and groom must be at the front of the table, facing all the guests.
3. It is very important who the parents of the couple sit with, especially when you choose a more Western-style sitting method such as a square table. Square tables are suitable
Suitable for small and intimate weddings where relatives and friends of the couple may gather together. In this case, friends who are familiar with each other can be included
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Carry can be very important.
In fact, the simplest way is to set up two main wedding tables, so that the couple will have more friends and arrange two main wedding tables
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Tables are better. One main wedding table is for the parents and elders of the couple, and the other main wedding table can be arranged for some close friends who have a close relationship with the couple.
This way guests can be well coordinated.
5. It is best for the newlyweds to arrange those who are also attending the wedding together at the same table, so that there will definitely be topical connections between them.
What should be avoided is that a person attending the wedding will be arranged with a group of familiar people, which will easily lead to a non-circular exclusion effect.
6. The seating arrangement should be divided into three groups: the bride, the groom’s parents, and the bride’s parents. Each group will get to know their friends or relatives
to avoid situations where they don't know each other. Arranging some unknown single young people together is also a good opportunity to make friends in a romantic wedding banquet environment.
In fact, it is easy for everyone to think of this principle. If a person is invited to attend the wedding of the couple in a different place, it can be arranged
Arrange at the main wedding table. If you are a college classmate, you can arrange it at the classmate table. The guests can talk to each other about "new people in student days
At the same table, guests can communicate with each other on the topic of "newcomers in student days", so that
guests will not feel lonely.
8. When the parents of the couple are divorced; in fact, in this case, it is best to seek their opinions before the wedding. If the parents have divorced
Now that you have formed a new family, should you consider arranging seats according to the order of the existing family? Not only can it be arranged properly
It can also add to the feeling of happiness. It is best to let the parents sit at different tables. The couple can take care of both parties when toasting during the wedding banquet. This can avoid embarrassment. If only divorced parents take care of both parties when toasting, this can avoid embarrassment
. If only one of the divorced parents is getting married, you can arrange for the other parent to sit with the new couple, or arrange for the other parent to sit with the elders. If there is a topic, avoid Too lonely.
5. How to arrange the tables for a wedding
The importance of wedding banquet seats in Chinese weddings:
Tips1. The wedding banquet should be based on the dignity of the guests. The elders and the younger arrange seats, which is called "treating guests" or "clearing guests". The principle of arranging seats is that the superior is superior and the inferior is inferior, and the right is superior and the left is inferior. Guests are arranged from high to low according to their age, identity and status.
Tips2. The chairman should be placed in the center of the main room. Ask the "eldest relative" to sit on the seat on the right side of the room, and the groom's father or uncle should sit on the seat on the left side to accompany him. The elders and the younger take their seats accordingly.
Tips3. In addition to the main seat in the main room, the second most distinguished seat is placed in the bridal chamber. The mother of the bride is invited to sit in the first place, accompanied by the mother or aunt of the groom. The seats of other seats are generally arranged in the order of superiority and inferiority.
Tips4. After the seats are arranged, the best man announces the opening of the banquet by firing cannons. The groom should first go to the chief sorcerer to pour wine and toast, say a few words of gratitude and then make a toast. The first dish is served in the kitchen, pushing the wedding banquet to the climax.
Tips5. The food and drinks at each table should be the same, except that the seats where the "eldest bride" and "eldest bride" are usually must have a steamed pork knuckle. Moreover, the groom should always wait at the table, pour wine, give hot towels, etc. to the "girvana" to show respect.
Tips6. Before the wedding banquet is over, the matchmaker has already slipped away, which is called "escape". If he doesn't leave, the "matchmaker" will wipe his face into the bottom of the pot. After the wedding banquet, the "brother" first goes to the retreat room to rest for a while, eat some snacks, and be accompanied by the groom's elders to say some polite words. After the servants have removed the table and swept the floor, it is time for the bride to stand up and say goodbye. When getting married, the groom's family will "distribute" clothing materials, shoes and socks, and red envelopes are particularly important. "Sending off the bride" is another lively scene. All decent people in the groom's family are sent to the door, and cannons are fired to show respect.
As the protagonist in a Chinese wedding, the wedding banquet is very important, and the arrangement of wedding banquet seats is also very particular. I hope my answer can be helpful to couples planning a Chinese wedding. However, it can also be modified appropriately according to the actual situation!