With the continuous development of WeChat function, WeChat has gradually become an indispensable part of our work and life.
Look at our circle of friends, but people who use WeChat generally have their own unique WeChat avatar and name. Indeed, when we have a special WeChat avatar and name, it may leave a deep impression on people.
Therefore, it is particularly important to choose a distinctive and distinctive WeChat avatar and name.
Some people may change their WeChat avatars or names frequently because of their work and study needs or their life experience for a certain period of time. There are still some people who don't like or even change their WeChat names or avatars.
Many people who have never met before may want to meet someone because they see a WeChat name or avatar that they are interested in. There are also many people who want to lick their favorite people through WeChat.
02. When you meet people who never change their names or avatars, I suggest you don't tease them easily.
Why is this? First of all, let's learn about these people who never change their WeChat names or avatars from the following aspects. Maybe we can find the answer from it.
(1) People with independent thoughts and stable emotions.
The vast majority of people who never change their WeChat names or avatars may belong to people with independent thoughts and relatively stable emotions.
For such people, they have a stable work and life. They have their own unique opinions and ideas, and their hearts are quiet and full.
I really enjoy the peace and security brought by my present work, study and life. They are often calm, firm and full of heart.
Such people are generally difficult to be disturbed by external factors and can control their emotions well.
They seldom show their joys and sorrows in their study, work or emotional life in their circle of friends. It is difficult for people who are not familiar with them to really get in touch with them.
It's not that they don't care about their WeChat first name or avatar. On the contrary, most of their WeChat names or avatars are carefully selected by themselves. Once selected, it is not easy to replace.
I was lucky to meet some such friends. What impressed me was a teacher of my child. Come to think of it, unconsciously, we have known each other for almost five years.
In these years, the child's teacher and class teacher only changed their avatars once. I learned a lot from her about being a good person and a life full of positive energy.
It is also because after becoming friends with her on WeChat, I learned some high-quality official WeChat accounts that everyone likes very much from her circle of friends, such as Youshu and You Shu Fan.
Now, even though our children have graduated from junior high school for almost two years, we have always kept in touch, and occasionally inadvertently remember to say hello to each other.
Such people are generally more rational and have a stable life. They are a little demanding of themselves and others, and generally pay more attention to the quality of their circle of friends, preferring to lack things. Don't invite too many people into your circle of friends.
When you meet such a person, Shu Jun advises you not to flirt easily. The key is that she is not something you can flirt with.
(02) People with stories
There is another kind of people who don't change their WeChat names or avatars for a long time, which is different from the kind of people mentioned above.
It's not because they demand too much quality for their circle of friends, but because they care about some special people or things, and they will keep their original WeChat names or avatars for a certain period of time.
They don't change the WeChat name or avatar, probably because an unforgettable person is afraid that if he changes the WeChat name or avatar, that person will not find himself.
It may also be because something special has happened and there are some feelings worth remembering or remembering.
I have such friends around me. That's one of my former post-90s female colleagues.
Before having sex with me, she had brought some unpleasant experiences to herself because of her first job just graduated, and was influenced by negative emotions for a period of time.
So for a while, she left some lingering shadows in her heart and suffered from severe depression.
When I first met her, I felt that she was not only in good physical condition, but also in good mental and emotional aspects, and she did not have the common youthful vitality of girls born after 90.
Besides being overweight because of depression and long-term overeating, he also showed no enthusiasm for life and didn't care much about his image.
After getting to know her, I gradually understood her.
What bothers her most is that her boyfriend, who has known her for more than a year, broke up with her when she couldn't stand the great pressure brought by her first job and was ready to resign and find another job.
After being sad, she changed her WeChat avatar to a poor anime girl. Seeing it makes people feel a kind of unspeakable sadness.
Although some of our colleagues usually care about and encourage her moderately. But she lived in that unhappy memory most of the time.
In the one or two years I have known her, she still often sends friends, or spits out all kinds of dissatisfaction, or expresses her emotions at that time. But I kept the poor girl's WeChat avatar unchanged.
Fortunately, one day years ago, I happened to find that her circle of friends showed that she had found a boyfriend she liked. Plan to get married after the new year.
The most striking thing is that she changed the WeChat avatar, which is a photo of her and her current boyfriend. She looks beautiful and happy in the portrait.
For people like this, there are books that advise you not to flirt easily. Because people with such stories are generally nostalgic, emotional and often fragile.
It is not that they are unwilling to learn new things. Just because of various reasons, I will be more cautious.
If you meet such people, please don't tease them easily. If you think they are good and want to know them, please be honest with them and cherish them.
(03) People who live freely and are too lazy to change.
There is another kind of person who is different from the above two kinds of people. But only because life is more casual. They tend to pay more attention to major issues, while small issues are casual.
Such people tend to focus on the current state of life. Perhaps because they are too busy, they seldom play mobile phones and don't spend too much time caring about their circle of friends. They tend to care more about the people and things around them.
Very warm and friendly to relatives and friends in real life. Call or send a message directly if you have something to do, so as to contact quickly and solve the problem in time.
There are some such people in my circle of friends. Especially an old friend of mine, who has been together for many years.
From the beginning to the present, she has been using lovely photos of her children as children. We haven't changed the name and avatar of WeChat for many years.
Everyone who knows her knows that she is really busy at ordinary times. But she treats people very well. Warm and generous to friends, very popular.
Such people may think that the name or avatar of WeChat is actually not that important.
They are often more willing to spend more time really caring about the people and things around them. They don't care whether someone else's WeChat avatar is important or their name is important.
For people who often change their WeChat names or avatars in the circle of friends, they don't care much, but occasionally they may feel that they can't find anyone.
Therefore, for such people, some scholars advise you not to tease them either, because most of them are realistic and difficult to tease. Maybe you spend a lot of time flirting, but in the end you get nothing.
(04) Indifferent and busy elite models
Maybe there are people in your circle of friends who are rational and seem a little cold.
Generally, articles on WeChat official accounts are rarely forwarded, nor do they publish their own living conditions, or spit out their emotions at a certain time. One word: busy.
This kind of person is really busy. They focus on their own careers. Keep charging yourself in your spare time.
If they have more time, they will choose to spend time with their families. Besides, don't forget to read or exercise.
Such people are willing to accept good new ideas and try new things. They pay attention to efficiency and don't like to waste their time on things they think are not worth it.
They have a clear goal in life and do things in a planned way. They are concerned about how their ideals gradually become a reality. They are very strict with themselves.
The quality requirements for the circle of friends are also very high. They won't and don't have much time to study things like WeChat avatars and names.
Such people, you can really feel their existence. You can also learn a lot from them.
However, some scholars believe that such people actually belong to "can be viewed from a distance without being ridiculous." Just say a few words, I'm afraid it's difficult to follow up. If you are equally good, you can have a try. However, I suggest that you have an equally strong heart.
If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come.
To sum up, we can probably know that people who never change the name or avatar of WeChat may have their own reasons.
But in general, if we are lucky enough to meet such people in the circle of friends. Worth cherishing and treating.
If you have someone you like, you can be honest with each other and get along well. I'm not looking at the WeChat name or avatar, but I'm particularly curious and want to have a look. And really good people don't care too much about their WeChat names or avatars.
Because they often live in real life and cling to the present.
They are willing to spend their time on people and things they think are worth it. There is not much time to reply to those unimportant messages.
Some people think that it is a waste of time to tease others with a WeChat name or avatar just for various purposes, and it is not of great benefit to others. If you have time, try to remind yourself of all aspects of literacy and ability.
There is a good saying: if you are in full bloom, butterflies will come. Make yourself better. When you get better and better, many things will go smoothly.
It can be seen that it is not easy to seduce a person who never changes the name or avatar of WeChat. Because, in fact, those really excellent people are really not what you want.
Speaking of this, I can't help but think of a sentence I heard from a WeChat veteran: WeChat WeChat, you can't believe it, and you can't believe it all. Just a little letter.
I hope you don't spend too much experience and time on WeChat. Don't care too much about the WeChat avatar and name. After all, most of us are ordinary people, and living an ordinary and hard life is the most important thing.