The relationship between name and personality
There is a proverb that "intelligence can cohabit". It means that if people can clearly understand each other's personality, they will be able to communicate with each other. I don’t think it’s difficult to get along with gay people. On the contrary, people who go their own way and are difficult to figure out will not feel harmonious even with their closest relatives. To understand a person's character, long-term interactions and interactions are inevitable. But if we don’t have the conditions to get along with each other for a long time, how should we judge a person’s character? As a specific symbol, a person’s name is called by others. It is not only a simple name for an individual’s life, but it can also more or less reflect the essence of you. something. In daily life, we often find that many people’s personalities are reflected in their names. Most people with bold names give people a more straightforward feeling, and some names Elegant people will also make people feel very elegant.
As we said before, when parents name their children, they often place their own expectations on it. Regardless of whether this meaning and sustenance is conscious or unconscious, it will definitely have a certain impact on the future growth of the owner of the name. This influence can be divided into two aspects: on the one hand, the namer affects the owner of the name through behaviors related to the psychological sustenance of the name; on the other hand, it relies on the owner of the name's understanding of his name and the surrounding people's understanding of the name. understanding of the meaning, and produce behaviors corresponding to the connotation reflected in the name. There is no doubt that if the meaning of the name is positive, it can bring pleasant associations to people and even become a motivation for people to be proactive; on the contrary, if the meaning of the name is negative, it may bring unpleasantness to people. associations, and sometimes become the butt of others’ ridicule. Because the spiritual connotation of the words as the carrier of the name has a conditioned reflex effect on people, and has the effect of dripping water through stone. Names that are used frequently in a person's life have an impact on the person's spiritual consciousness when he signs or is called or when he meditates on his name.
A person's name directly or indirectly implies the psychology of himself and others, until in the end the person really lives up to his name. Therefore, it is not an exaggeration to say that a person’s name is the password of life.
In this sense, judging a person's character by his name is a method that is not very accurate, but is still feasible.
A good name has the finishing touch and is beneficial to life.
Human consciousness is the internal cause of character, the internal driving force that affects life actions, and also affects life actions. What abilities a person has, what entrustments he can accept, what responsibilities he takes, and what he does depends largely on his character. The carpenter determines the use of the wood according to its quality, and a lazy character may ruin a person's life.
It seems that name and personality are inseparable old partners that affect life at the same time. There is a problem of cooperation between the name and the person's personality. The name and the person's character match and complement each other. The character is the main one and the name is the supplement. It can also be said that the connotation of the name is conducive to the growth and development of the character, which is of great benefit to our lives. For example, if a person is cowardly by nature and passive in everything, it would be best to have a name with the word "strong" in it. This name can always remind him that he must overcome his weakness and work hard; while a person with a fierce and competitive personality should Given a name such as "Wenhua", if the namer himself has a strong personality, wouldn't it be of no benefit to the person to choose a strong name based on the principle of being too strong and easily broken? To a certain extent, the name may affect a person's personality. Mind. People are like their names, and their names come from human nature and should be a reflection of life. If a politician is named "Yi'an", even though he has great abilities, he will probably not be able to create any great achievements if he is influenced by the "easy" thought every day.
It seems that a good name must be suitable to be beneficial to people, so naming is also called "naming", which means that the name should come from fate. Fate is the innate personality, which, together with luck, determines the quality of life. , the environment of the name is human nature, a good name is suitable for human nature, has the finishing touch, and the name helps the person; a random name, a name that is not suitable for human nature, just like an unpopular word or a word that is not relevant, has no impact on people. Big is a useless name, and some names have bad effects.
Wang Binggang, a native of the Qing Dynasty, was a martial arts scholar during the reign of Emperor Qianlong. He served with great merit in the conquest of Guizhou and Chu in the early Jiaqing period, and was appointed to the rank of commander-in-chief of Youjiang Town.
Wang Yong, a native of Wuchuan in the Northern Zhou Dynasty, was a brave general. He was a brave general at that time and had many meritorious deeds. He was promoted to the rank of general. His single name was Yong, and he was indeed brave in battle.
A strong will is extremely important in character. Without a strong will, you cannot persevere and it is difficult to achieve a great cause. Therefore, some hopes are just dreams after all. Parents always want their children to be strong-willed and ambitious, so their names reflect this sentiment. Such as:
Zhang Shouzhi, that is, consistently persisting in one's ambitions, which also requires firm will.
Guan Shengzhi, general, Shengzhi, that is, ambitious.
Fu Quejian, Quejian, indeed strong. Adding the word "Que" to the name of Fu Jian (general of the Jin Dynasty) is a very clever allusion.
Li Zhigang means strong will.
Be consistent at all times, and "ruyi" means consistent and persevering.
Chen Yi is very perseverant, calm and perseverant.
Sheng Yiheng, born in the Ming Dynasty, named Miannan, was a member of the Wanli Juren. He worked hard to encourage learning, and perseverance meant perseverance. This person motivated himself by his name, and he demonstrated this spirit in his studies.
Easy to be strong, that is, strong-willed.
Be brave, ambitious, and forge ahead bravely.
Liu Heng, a modern writer, writes with great pains and unwavering determination.
Pang Jian was a native of Jingyang in the Tang Dynasty. When Anlu Mountain rebelled, Jian used his long history to defend Yingzhou. The thieves lured him to surrender.
Liang Yi, a debater from Zhao during the Warring States Period, made Qin capable of dealing with the situation.
Wang Heng, a native of Songjiang in the Ming Dynasty, has visible calligraphy and is good at copying ancient paintings.
If you observe a person carefully, you can find that the same person can sometimes behave noble and sometimes quite humble; he can be brave and timid; he can be smart and stupid; On one occasion, he will be indecisive again. Many people don't know what their personality is. Therefore, when a person reflects on his own behavior and examines his own thoughts, he will often find that there are many self-contradictory phenomena.
As the saying goes: "The situation is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change." Personality should be a stable psychological characteristic. However, everyone has multiple personalities, and this stability is relative. Character is a tame horse to a wise man, but a wild horse to a fool. After investigation, it was found that most people believe that their personalities are constantly changing. After having a good name, we will respond positively to the name. A good character can completely dominate, so that you can better control your own destiny.