Many names are obviously very nice, but when paired with different surnames, they look different. For example, if "Ziteng" is paired with the surname Zhou, the name "Zhou Ziteng" sounds nice, but if paired with the surname Du, it becomes "Du Ziteng (stomach ache)", which has a different meaning.
A gentleman named Xiong was deeply affected by this. He named his daughter "Chu Mo". He didn't think there was anything wrong with the name alone, and it seemed Also suitable for girls.
Naturally, Mr. Xiong himself felt that the name given to his child was very elegant, and he even felt that he was particularly educated. However, Mr. Xiong ignored one thing, which was his surname.
The girl's name combined is called "Xiong Chumo", and we have all watched a cartoon called "Bear Infested", so the name of this child has homophony with the name of the cartoon, so Mr. Xiong's daughter is After entering school, he was laughed at by his classmates.
After the child came home, he began to complain that his father gave him a bad name. The wife thought it was nothing at first, but when she heard her daughter's explanation, she suddenly realized it. Then she got angry and scolded her husband, saying, "If you don't look at your last name, you are really misleading me!"
Mr. Xiong admitted that Wen Ya still refuses to give up. He then posted the child's name on the Internet, hoping that netizens would judge it. As a result, netizens unanimously agreed: "This name has homophonic sounds and is really inappropriate." Some netizens said: "This father is so irresponsible." Some netizens also supported this father: "Homophony is really everywhere, so many names have been ruined by homophony!"
A bad name will cause harm to the child. If the child's name is too weird, it may cause the child to have low self-esteem, because after entering the school, the child will be laughed at by classmates, and some even give the child unpleasant nicknames. Over time, the child may become more and more low-self-esteem and timid. Small.
Many parents don’t recognize their children’s names well, and even use traditional Chinese characters. This will cause children to have difficulties in writing and also affect their children’s interpersonal communication. Imagine if they don’t even know their children’s names. How can you make a close friend?
Things that parents should pay attention to when naming their children:
(1) Pay attention to homophonics
Just like Mr. Xiong we just said, he is naming his daughter When choosing a name, we don’t pay attention to the homophones, because many Chinese characters have the same pronunciation. However, if we name homophonic characters, we may make embarrassing jokes. Of course, it will also have an impact on the child’s life. .
(2) Pay attention to strokes
Many parents think that the rate of children having the same name is too high now, so they give their children some names with many strokes or even traditional Chinese characters. Although such names can be avoided The name may be repeated, but the child will have difficulty in writing. Especially during the exam, if the child only uses his or her own name, it will waste a lot of time, and the child may also make mistakes in writing, so when naming, pay attention to the number of strokes and never use traditional Chinese characters.
(3) Pay attention to the meaning of the name
Some parents think that naming their children does not need to be so serious. The more tacky the name is, the better it is for the child to support him. In fact, this is a problem. A kind of feudal superstition. With the progress of society, people pay more and more attention to their children's names, so it is best to name their children with a certain commemorative meaning and a profound meaning, so that when the children grow up, they will like their own names and can also name them for themselves. proud of the name.
People often hear a sentence to call a person by his name, so the name is very important to a person. It will accompany us throughout our life and be used as often as an ID card. Therefore, parents must pay attention when naming their children, especially the above-mentioned problems, and avoid them. They must also give their children a good name based on their surname. Only in this way can they truly love their children.
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