"Phoenix" is male and "Phoenix" is female, so there is a famous song "Phoenix Begging for Phoenix" in ancient times. Modern, Gu Long, wrote the legend of Lu Xiaofeng.
But there are too many laymen, which are generally used to confuse "Phoenix". Therefore, modern men rarely use "Phoenix" as their name.
First, it is easy to be laughed at by ignorant people, which is too girly.
Second, every explanation is troublesome and easy to misunderstand. You are laughing at each other's ignorance.
Therefore, generally do not use it.