Only 1% of the people in the world can see the truth, and the remaining 99% have their views shaped.
These 1% of people are only divided into two roles, one is God and the other is the devil. The competition in the world is a competition between these two types of people.
99% of all living beings are just responsible for taking sides. Taking sides seems easy, but in fact it is very, very difficult. When we think about heaven and when we think about hell, we are always God at one moment and devil at another moment.
Just to distinguish who is God and who is the devil requires many people to spend their entire lives thinking.
You have done good things all your life, and suddenly you do a "bad thing" accidentally, then all the good things you have done in your life will be wiped out, and people will point their noses at you and call you hypocritical, and they will demonize you. culture and was spurned by the whole people.
But if you have done bad things all your life and suddenly do a "good thing" on a whim, then everyone will come to praise you and praise you to the sky, thinking that they have wronged you before. As the saying goes, a prodigal son can never change his fortune, this kind of person will be popular among the people.
For example, Liu Xiang is the only athlete who can beat black people on a straight track. He has participated in 48 world series, winning 36 times, 6 times runner-up, and 3 times third place. From 2004 to today No one has ever emerged to replace him. However, how many people's impression of Liu Xiang only stops at his two withdrawals...
This is the most terrifying logic in the world: bad guys can have countless opportunities to change their ways. Heroes are not allowed to fail even once!
The practice of a good person has to go through thousands of dangers and obstacles, and all difficulties are indispensable; while the practice of a bad person only needs to put down the butcher knife, and it only takes an instant.
The world's requirements for good people are really very strict. If others call you a good person, you must be perfect. Everyone will put all the moral shackles on you. One day If you fail to do it in the slightest, all your efforts in practice will be wasted, and you may even be regarded as a monster.
The world is very tolerant of bad people. Those who have done many bad things, no matter how serious their previous sins, will be highly praised by everyone if they are ready to change their ways one day.
Good people need to go through thousands of obstacles to achieve enlightenment, but bad people only need to change a thought to achieve enlightenment.
Good people in this world are born to accept more hardships.
Many people will smile at you and tell you that you are such a good person, but at the same time they will throw all the things at you that you should not bear, ask you, force you, and impose on you.
They demand you according to the standards of a "saint". Everything you do must be selfless. They will also demand more and more. If you don't do the right thing in the slightest, they will point their noses and scold you. you.
Every good person in the world is born carrying a cross.
Two types of people can see the truth of the world:
The first type: smart enough.
The second type: kind enough.
When a person is smart enough and can remain rational and calm in the face of the world, he can penetrate various information and see through various situations in the world, so as not to be manipulated.
When a person is kind enough, he will feel the pain of others and have natural sympathy for the weak, so that he can experience the real world.
The difference between the two is: intelligence is a talent, innate, and often something we cannot change. And only a few people in this world have this talent.
Kindness is a choice, acquired, a choice we can make at any time, even in a moment of thought.
Being kind is more difficult than being smart. After all, talent is innate and for many people comes easily, but the choice to be kind requires resisting various temptations.
The greatest pain for people is to see the people around them flourish.
There is a basic attribute in human nature: always worrying that others will live better than themselves. The vast majority of people suffer not because they are mediocre or poor, but because they feel extremely painful when they see others being more successful than themselves.
Therefore, the public has a basic characteristic. They always like to pull down all kinds of superior people and trample them under their feet, so as to obtain psychological satisfaction and emotional relief. This feeling even Happier than achieving anything.
Everyone has a self-esteem protection mechanism in their heart.
This is an innate consciousness. Whenever they come into contact with outstanding talents from the outside world that are beyond their expectations, they will feel panicked and confused. At this time, the self-protection mechanism will quickly activate, and their brains will collect all clues to prove it. Others' success is a matter of luck. If you had the same objective conditions, you would only be better than them.
Just like when we were in school, we were keen to discuss that people who are good at studying are nerds, and beautiful girls often have no brains; when we grow up, it becomes: colleagues are promoted because they can pat the leader. Shit, my classmate succeeded in starting a business because his family gave him huge financial support.
Many people have to think in the most vile way about everything in society in order to feel at ease. It seems that only in this way can we prove that our vulgarity is not isolated, and find reasons for our "unsuccessful" and "living at the bottom".
People would rather prove the mediocrity of others than to Face your own extraordinaryness.
Why do those very reasonable methods often have no effect or even be counterproductive after you apply them?
Because there is no such thing as letting go in this world? A method that is universally applicable is applicable to everyone.
No matter how smart people are, they can only give you a revelation. All the principles given by the outside world must be combined with your own characteristics and resources. Develop your own methodology.
Whether it is entrepreneurship, investment, social interaction, love, marriage, etc., the best method is that there is no fixed method; the real rule is that there are no rules to follow.
< p>If you just use other people’s experiences and summaries, you will basically fail.This is why it is better to seek help from others than to seek help from others. Everyone’s approach to success is different. < /p>
The one who can really help you is yourself.
Behind the life you envy, there are often hardships that you cannot endure.
Life is a balance. One tray is called "wealth in front of others", and the other tray is called "suffering in others"
The two are always balanced: if you want to be noble in front of others, you must suffer in others.
A person can only get what others can't endure by enduring what others can't. Only humble people can see the truth of the world.
A true hero must have experienced two things in his life. The first stage is adversity, and the second stage is despair.
Maturity lies in adversity, and awakening lies in despair. Only those who have overcome these two hurdles are the real heroes in the world.
If you have not experienced such a dark time in your life and a day of silent struggle alone, you will never know what dawn is and the true meaning of life.
High-end people. The conversation between them never talks about business, only about life. From life, you can get a glimpse of a person's perspective/circle/ability/resources.
The designer who talks about design is an ordinary designer at best. Members, a planning expert who talks about planning is at best a second-rate expert, and an entrepreneur who talks about entrepreneurship is at best a second-rate entrepreneur.
Because people who really master a certain skill will no longer be recognized. Bound by skills, they can go straight to the essence and make the profession easy to understand.
Just like a truly enlightened monk, if he enlightens you, he will definitely not explain difficult scriptures to you. , but give the simplest examples around you, such as pouring water and drinking water, which will make you realize something while talking and laughing.
When we evaluate a person, these evaluations have nothing to do with others, only with others. It’s about ourselves.
Because when we comment on someone, we are judging others on the surface, but in fact, we are revealing our own inner feelings in others. All you see is yourself. Others are just projectors, and what we project is our own heart.
On the surface, we are evaluating others. In fact, every word we evaluate is a true reflection of our hearts. We just use others to map our own hearts.
A person with a despicable heart will see everything as despicable; a person with a sunny heart will see everything as sunshine.
Others are actually a mirror, and we can see ourselves in the mirror.
Two short stories:
(1) In Prussia, in order to cope with famine, the king wanted farmers to plant potatoes with higher yields, but the effect of the new decree was not good.
Later, the king came up with a new idea and announced that potatoes were a royal vegetable and only nobles could grow them. As a result, farmers immediately followed suit, and Prussia successfully promoted potato cultivation.
(2) In Turkey, the king did not want women to wear veils, but he encountered strong opposition. Later the king declared that prostitutes must wear veils. Later, the habit of wearing the veil slowly disappeared in Türkiye.
Values ??are more mobilizing than laws, coercion is worse than guidance, and suppression is worse than guidance.
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In the era of the rise of individuals, the scale for measuring a person’s value has changed:
In the past, the value of a person was measured by the cost of polishing it. It did not require you to have many ideas, it only required that you could be easily managed and used. People were just parts of a big machine.
Nowadays, the value of a person is measured by how outstanding his personality and expertise are. You need to have your own ideas. You must be able to transcend the constraints of the framework and be good at various innovations.
The value of people, just like the value of investment products, is subject to mean reversion. That mean is your impulse, your love, and your ideal!
The future is an era of increasing freedom. When there are fewer and fewer frameworks that restrict us, everyone will get closer and closer to what we most want to be.
What determines the destination of each of us must be the self that is a combination of our abilities and desires. Even if you are engaged in a high-paying, high-pressure job, if you are not born to be in that position, you will leave one day, and you will be eliminated one day.
In the future society, the pace will become faster and faster, the cycles of various changes will continue to shorten, and there will be more and more unpredictable things. Our spirits will be tense and uneasy for a long time.
The biggest challenge in the future of mankind is not artificial intelligence at all, nor the economic crisis, nor cancer, but the spiritual problem of mankind itself.
Including: depression, anxiety, mania, extremeness, sensitivity, etc. Many people are like time bombs. You may detonate someone inadvertently.
Therefore, the safety of society seems to be very high, but in fact there are more potential risk factors. We must treat everyone well.
This world is both a contradiction and a balance:
The richer the material, the more degenerate people’s IQ will be;
< p>The more developed the science and technology, the emptier the human spirit will be;
The richer the nutrition, the weaker the human physiological functions will be.
The more developed social tools are, the more distant people will be.
The more developed entertainment tools are, the more lost people will be;
The more knowledge is readily available, the more people’s independent thinking ability will be. The worse;
Less than 1% of people in the world truly understand love.
99% of people have the wrong understanding of love: they always think that being kind to someone unconditionally is love. This is a very low-level concept that exists widely around us.
This era has long since changed. People have become more and more independent. This is no longer an era where anyone can die for others, or who needs someone to die for themselves.
In the future, we will all be independent individuals. Once people become independent, they no longer need to sacrifice/pay for each other, but need to complement each other.
We must first maintain our own independence, including personal and economic independence, before we can be qualified to complement another person.
In any relationship, because as long as there is sacrifice, it means injustice. As long as there is injustice in this world, it will be compensated for in another place or in another form. This is the source of many tragedies.
No one in this world can be responsible for your happiness. Never try to get happiness from another person, we must have the ability to become complete and happy ourselves.
No matter who you are with, no matter what career you choose, what you will encounter in the end is yourself, a more complete/perfect self. This is true for love, and so is career.
99% of people in the world live in illusions.
The heroes they worship are all legendary heroes, not real heroes; the methods they worship are all legendary methods, not truly effective methods;
They have never been They have never really longed for the truth. What they pursue is neither value nor good products, but various emotional comforts.
Everyone will always turn a deaf ear to the "reality" that makes them feel ordinary. On the contrary, those legends that can make the public have beautiful fantasies can make the public crazy and fascinated.
So as long as you tell a good story and soothe their hearts, you can achieve great success. Therefore, the fate of these people is to be harvested.
Only 1% of people in the world can live in the truth, because seeing the truth is not only a matter of ability, but also requires great courage, because the truth is too cruel and cannot be faced by ordinary people.
The truth is always only in the hands of a few people. The vast majority of people do not know and do not need to know the truth. Because some people are smart and some are stupid, and smart and capable people must lead the stupid and lazy people, so that society can move forward as a whole.
Those stupid people don’t need to know so many truths. They can just work together and work hard. If these people know too much and think too much, they will dissipate the collective strength of society.
Why are people becoming more and more confused as technology becomes more and more developed today?
In ancient times, people received information through a very single channel, which was basically word of mouth or reading and studying. Therefore, the ancients could easily calm themselves down and listen to the sounds of nature, advocating the "harmony between man and nature". "One" situation.
Today, while we have a wide range of channels for obtaining information, we are also surrounded by various electromagnetic waves, including mobile phones, TVs, radios, WIFI, airplanes, and high-speed rails. Every technological product Electromagnetic waves have their own frequency, which is equivalent to creating various magnetic fields around us, so we can no longer feel the inner and natural voices.
Therefore, the most powerful people today are actually those who can block the interference of these magnetic fields at any time. They can still penetrate the appearance to see the essence, see the truth at a glance, and can also interact with these "energy fields" Live in harmony.
People grow three times in their lives:
The first time is when they discover that they are not the center of the world;
The second time is when they discover that they are not the center of the world; You cannot change the world by yourself;
The third time is to still love the world after recognizing the reality;
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If you want to go far, go in a group;
Cognition changes destiny, and circles determine destiny