On the advantages and disadvantages of big names

when some children are still in their mothers' stomachs, impatient parents give their children good names. Of course, most children wait until they are born, and then they are named according to their gender. Girls generally have more flexible names, and most of them are flowers and plants. Boys are generally more car-scrapping names, and steel is stronger. Some people look at the children's eight characters and squeeze in words to make up for them. For example, if there is a lack of fire, the words with fire will start, and if there is a lack of gold, the words with gold will start. Some parents! I also gave children nicknames, such as dog eggs, Mao Gu, Niu Niu, and so on. There are some parents! Even more, I hope that all boys will become Jackie Chan and all girls will become phoenixes, so I have racked my brains to come up with many high-end, atmospheric and high-grade names. Some names are just like their names, and they are really lucky. Some of them! But it backfired and drove away from the name. Today I want to talk about the people around me, and the story about the name and its fate caused by the name.

There is a man named Chaofu in our town. He just started to work in a processing factory. Later, the processing factory merged with the grain depot. He has nothing to do, so he just went home and found another job. There was a department store in his house, and there was a machine for making popsicles and ice cream to sell. Later, the number of people making ice cream gradually increased. He sold the machine and sold cement on a commission basis. After 9 years, a lot of people in the countryside built houses and villas. He made a fortune by selling cement in the whole town on a commission basis, and then bought many houses everywhere in the town, county and city, becoming the richest one in the town. As the name implies, he is super rich.

Second, my cousin Cheng Yi, who is tall and ugly, has a head like Sanmao's hair, and works in aluminum alloy. At that time, when my cousin was in love with him, I told my cousin that I wouldn't look down on my brother-in-law if I asked for 1 thousand. At that time, my brother-in-law's family had two brothers, even three rooms in a room, and my parents were hunched over when they were old. But my uncle's family is rich, and when my cousin got married, Muqi had a full set of dowry, with tens of thousands of yuan in cash to marry him. They worked hard and saved money to make aluminum alloy in the town. Within two years, they bought the old tile house in the town and turned it into a three-story new building. It happened that the house was in the main street, and now they sold aluminum alloy and made aluminum alloy. The facade was not rented, and the business became more and more prosperous. Then they bought 4 square meters in Xinjie, renovated the four-story building, and opened the largest wholesale and retail supermarket in the town on the first floor, next door's brother-in-law. The second floor is rented to a dance training institution, and people live on the third and fourth floors. Cousin has two children, the eldest daughter is a graduate student, and the youngest son is an undergraduate student. The two children are also hardworking and sweet. My cousin's old facade was also rented to others to open a shop, and the monthly rent was also considerable. All the income was really quite a lot, and it was really crowded into one name.

Third, Uncle Wan Chaoting is the director of the hospital in the town. He has three daughters and two sons, the eldest daughter (who has not finished primary school, and has found a relationship) and the younger son have attended the health school, but none of the other primary schools have finished. The eldest daughter graduated from the Health School and became a doctor in the county. The youngest son also worked in the county hospital. The second daughter worked in the town health center. The eldest son drove in the town health center. She was a civil servant, and her daughter-in-law also entered the health center for a fee. The youngest daughter and I were classmates. She didn't want to be a nurse and finally married in the county. Uncle Wan became the dean himself, took his wife who didn't know medicine out of the division, and opened a clinic in the countryside, earning a lot of money a year. After Uncle Wan retired, he was in his eighties, and was invited by a private pharmacy in the county to sell medicine. Even his pension was more than 1, yuan a month. The court is also worthy of the name, and the family benefits from it.

Tell me again how bad the name is turned upside down.

The first one, Aunt Hu next door, gave birth to three sons of her own. The eldest daughter-in-law's first child was a son, so she was so happy that she named her grandson Tianxing. Tianxing's mother didn't have enough milk, and Aunt Zhang made crucian carp, pork belly and day lily soup for her daughter-in-law, but it didn't have much effect. Aunt Zhang had to buy milk powder and grind rice paste for her grandson to eat. She was not too tired at all, and as soon as she put down her work, she came to my house happily with her grandson. The feeling of holding her grandson made her face happy all day. When the child was more than nine months old, he had diarrhea a little bit, but if he couldn't be cured everywhere, he would be gone, crying his eyes out. When the child was born, there was only one fortune teller who sent the child officer (that is, birthdates who wrote about the child), and how many red envelopes Aunt Zhang gave, people left without humming. For example, when we gave birth to a child, the officials who sent the children to the hospital kept asking questions, and the bargaining was too little, so we hung on.

The second one is my own cousin. My aunt gave birth to a daughter and a son, and my cousin is the second. My aunt named him Dongliang, but he has been working outside for so many years. Apart from taking money back in the past two years, he used to work outside, either asking us to borrow money or asking my aunt to send him flowers. I haven't married yet at the age of 3, and I heard that he still has myeloma, and I am worried about a big family. So, the name is upside down. Shit.

The third one is the Moon I wrote in the previous article. One brother and two brothers in the Moon family are three brothers and one daughter. Parents dote on her. Not only does she have a good name, but she is rarely asked to do anything. Therefore, Moon is not good at doing farm work and doing other things. She is timid, opinionated and honest. When she marries her husband's family, she quarrels with her mother-in-law. When she marries again, she is sent back. The name Moon is not bright at all, and her old age is even more worrying.

So I said that this person's name has a certain relationship with people's fate. Eight words are hard enough to deserve a good life, and eight words are weak enough to deserve a bad life. It is better to think carefully about naming it. This is the fact that I have seen, which has certain limitations and only represents my opinion. My friends may have different views.