Little K is one of my classmates. In fact, she is not very dark, her skin is just yellowish, which is the skin color of yellow people. But when she got to college, her roommates began to laugh at her skin color and named her Coffee beans, coffee beans, black girls, little K couldn’t accept it at first.
But after a while, she began to find that her roommate was particularly concerned about her skin color and made fun of her skin color every day. In fact, her roommate was not particularly white, just lighter than her skin color. She is whiter. Xiao K actually felt uncomfortable being talked about like this by her roommate every day, but whenever she wanted to talk back, her roommate would say, "I am speaking to you as one of my own, and I won't say much to ordinary people."
He used this method to appear to have a good relationship with her, so he said that to her, which made it difficult for Xiao K to reply. Until one day, she and her roommate went out to buy something to eat. She didn’t use makeup cream at night. Wiping her face, her roommate looked at her many times on the road and finally choked out: "You know what? You are really ugly now, too dark. I really think dark people are particularly ugly. You are not young anymore, you should be." Try to make yourself whiter."
Little K told me that she was really angry at that moment because her roommates kept teasing her about her skin color every day. I felt very tired of it. Every time I looked at her, I would say, "You are so evil." She replied with the same reason, "Because you are my friend, I am like this." You said it, otherwise I wouldn’t say it to anyone I know.”
Well, you are a friend, and whatever you say is right.
When Little K told me about this, I felt that my roommate really went too far. Skin color cannot be a reason for a person to be ridiculed. My roommate made an excuse after a joke. In fact, they are all sharp blades that hurt little K.
Is skin color really that important? You were born with a yellowish-dark complexion. If you don’t have the capital and are still a student the day after tomorrow, how could you possibly put your thoughts into this? Her roommates are all children of wealthy families, and they usually have a lot of brand-name items, but they cannot impose their own skin care and whitening standards on little K.
I think every girl is cute, why should I keep poking at others’ hearts with the difference in skin color? Everyone is not perfect. If your appearance is perfect, you can't ask others to meet your standards, right?
For example, the roommate who always calls her dark has fair skin but yellow teeth, which makes her smile unattractive. Another example is the other roommate who laughs at her and looks ugly. She is so good-looking, and Xiao K is one of those girls whose skin color is a bit dark, but the combination of her facial features is very attractive. Her double eyelids and big eyes are particularly lively.
So, don’t laugh at others because of their skin color. It’s not that Xiao K doesn’t know their flaws, it’s just that she doesn’t say them. Normally, even if she sees them, she won’t deliberately say them. When I come out, I won’t stare at my roommate many times just because she often takes off her makeup. Sometimes don't point out the flaws you find in others, because sometimes it really hurts people, and the phrase "you are my friend" should not always be used as an excuse to hurt people.