Why is it important to name a child "a man who is not named after heaven and a girl who is not named after fairy"? It's not that superstition is well-founded

Text/Ning Mama’s Parenting Experience

When young parents name their children, they are very casual and give their children all kinds of strange names. But many old people are very particular about names, and many young people don't know that "men don't bring heaven, and women don't bring immortals."

Many people have a lot of expectations for their children, and they hope to give them Choose a name that is full of expectations for your child. This is how Ms. Huang's family named their children with the words "Heaven" and "Xian" in their names. So he named the child "Shengtian". The husband thought it was a good name for the child, but the child's grandmother was very opposed to such a name.

But Ms. Wang and his wife had already used a lot of brain cells when naming their child. Both couples felt they didn't want to change their names anymore. But as the child grows up, he discovers the shortcomings of such a name. In fact, no matter how high their parents' expectations are, their children are still ordinary people. When parents give their children such names, the children around them will laugh at their children, which will have a very bad psychological impact on the children.

Parents always like their own blessings when naming their children. What's more important is that the child's name is the child's face and can also leave a good impression on others.

Children are also the continuation of their parents, so parents always have high expectations for their children. Parents may wish to hide such high hopes in their children's names. For children, it is also the love their parents have for them, which is very precious.

The origin of names is to serve human beings. In social interactions, people need to use names to distinguish their identities. Children need to use names many times as they grow up. If parents name their children with complicated names, they will cause the children to suffer a lot of trouble in later life. This aspect should also be taken into consideration when naming your child.

The most important thing about a name is that it is for others to see and address. Most names are used to prove one's identity, so the name is a very important social symbol for children. Social interaction is very important for children. Therefore, when parents name their children, they must make sure that they add luster to their faces. So

The name is a label for the child, just like the name is the image of the person in front of an acquaintance. But many parents will follow the trend and choose a good name. This has caused a phenomenon to appear in society now. There will be many children with the same name in a child's class, and even children with different names have the same sound.

This is an extremely embarrassing thing for children. Sometimes when they are still in class, the teacher will be very confused when calling their names during class.

Today’s topic:

How did you name your child? ?