We in China often say that "a person is as famous as his name", which is the best praise for a person's character, talent and achievements.
Therefore, parents used to be very cautious in naming their children.
Sometimes we need to read almanac, genealogy and ancient books, just to give our children a loud and meaningful name.
There used to be an allusion that "men take Chu ci and women take the book of songs", which fully shows that the older generation of parents attach importance to the naming of their children.
But since the new generation of young people became parents, they have paid little attention to naming their children.
Even in pursuit of individuality, more and more wonderful names are given to children.
Not only them, but also the parents of the post-90s generation have been active in all levels of society and become a group that cannot be ignored.
Previously, a primary school enrollment book was circulated on the Internet.
There are only 16 names in total, which actually contains 8 uncommon words and 2 homophonic stalks.
"Liu Xiaoling Tong" and "Cheng Menxue Pear" are even more ridiculous.
It is conceivable that in the future, children's schooling career will be accompanied by various teasing and banter of some students.
If not stopped in time, this kind of banter will gradually evolve into ridicule, mischief and even school violence.
I still remember when I was a child, I had an introverted classmate nicknamed "Frog".
Just because his name contains the words "Tian" and "Ji".
This nickname accompanied him for six years in junior high school, so that many people almost forgot his original name.
This has caused him great psychological trauma and made his introverted personality more inferior.
Dramatic nicknames, coupled with inferiority and cowardice, make him the first choice for bad students to bully.
This experience didn't end until he graduated from junior high school and went to a vocational school, and completely parted ways with that group of people.
So don't think that choosing a name is just a trivial matter.
Your irresponsibility is likely to affect your child's life.
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I remind: when naming children, it is best to let the older generation be present and let them check.
Especially when you encounter a surname that is difficult to take a name, you should be more cautious and don't make a decision easily.
I saw a wonderful surname on the Internet before, called "Fuck". Read the first sound.
I thought it was a rare surname, but I didn't expect that there were hundreds of thousands of people surnamed Cao in the country.
This surname is not easy to choose, and putting any word after it feels like swearing.
Ms. Xu encountered this trouble when she named her child.
Just because her husband's surname is "fuck", she thought hard and didn't think of a suitable name.
A birth certificate will be issued as soon as the child is born. Don't wait too long to name it.
But she doesn't want to inadvertently add too much burden to her children after she hastily names them.
After many discussions, the child's grandfather finally made a decision.
"Just call it" trouble "! As soon as a child is born, he worries about choosing a name. I think worry is the most appropriate. "
Trouble originally refers to hard work and effort, and in ancient times it also refers to persistence and firmness.
It is not only convenient to write, but also good in meaning, avoiding the misunderstanding that "it reads like swearing".
Grandpa's final decision was recognized by all relatives present!
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Besides the surname "Cao", there are many other surnames that are difficult to name.
For example, some homophonic surnames, such as Zhu, Shi and Gou, are pronounced the same as pig, excrement and dog.
When choosing a name, you should pay special attention to the words that follow.
For example, names such as pig's large intestine, dog's stuff and excrement Xiang Zhen should be avoided.
Apart from surnames, Dachang, Dongxi and Xiangzhen all seem to be relatively normal names.
But with these "special" surnames, it is inevitable that there will be embarrassing homophonic problems.
This has a great influence on the child's future growth.
In addition to avoiding homophonic names, children should avoid having the same name as some historical figures, contemporary celebrities and well-known IP.
This directly moved name not only loses its original creativity, but also makes others unable to compare, and may eventually make children a laughing stock of others.
I still remember that some time ago, a rural old man named Alipay became popular on the Internet.
Because this "exotic flower" name, like Alipay, the most commonly used APP in China, has spread all over the country since it was discovered.
At first, I thought this uncle temporarily changed his name to the public security bureau to get rid of heat.
But in fact, the name Alipay was used by my uncle since he was a child. It is a complete coincidence that it has the same name as Ma Yun's Alipay.
Hunan TV's "Everyday Up" column invited him to record the program, but his uncle refused on the grounds of liar.
Later, it was confirmed by the local public security bureau that he was not a liar before agreeing to be interviewed on the show.
The biggest headache for my uncle is that after his name became popular, netizens from all over the country came to watch and take pictures, which broke his quiet life in the past.
Therefore, you must think carefully before naming your child, and don't blindly follow the trend, otherwise it will have a great impact on your child's daily life in the future.
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So how do you name your child?
1, if the surname is special and difficult to choose, you can follow your mother's surname.
It is indeed a traditional custom for children to take their father's surname from ancient times to the present.
However, with the progress of society, many people no longer regard this custom as an iron law.
From the friends around us, it is no longer uncommon for children to take their mother's surname.
Especially in the case of a special father's surname, after two discussions, many enlightened parents agreed that their children should take their mother's surname.
2. Avoid using uncommon words.
The first principle of choosing a name is not to be too unconventional, otherwise it may affect children's future study, life and employment.
To be on the safe side, avoid uncommon words first.
Many parents take names after their children are born, and the first thing that comes to mind is to find words from Xinhua dictionary.
So we often see some uncommon words with beautiful meanings that ordinary people don't know.
So you can't help but want to use it in your name.
But more and more examples prove that taking uncommon words will bring great trouble to children.
Therefore, you must be careful when naming your child!
The name is to accompany a person's life. Children are too young to decide their own names.
As their parents, when we choose a name, we must be serious again, and then decide the name of the child after carefully consulting the information and consulting others.