I know that my child is in the first grade of elementary school this year. He is very happy and joyful on the first day of school. However, when he comes home from school in the afternoon, he is in a bad mood and discusses with his mother whether he can skip school tomorrow. The child started to want to start school on the first day of school. The parents were worried and overwhelmed. After in-depth communication with the child, my friend found that the child did not like to study, but the child's name was laughed at by classmates, and he could only go to school with a better name. So my friend asked me how to choose a good name.
On the first day of school, I dropped out of school because of my name. I learned how to name my children, and my parents no longer cheated their children.
My friend is an old person and cherishes his children very much. As soon as the wife became pregnant, the two began to think about the name of the child. The couple bought books on ancient poems and naming methods, and studied them every night, hoping to give their child a good and meaningful name. After a family's research, the child was named Fujiko, which comes from the "Teng Yunmu, flower vines want to bloom" in Libai City. However, it is unimaginable that this netizen’s surname is a homophonic pronunciation of Er and Erteng and has a stomachache. It’s no wonder that when children arrive at school, their names will be laughed at by their classmates.
In fact, this small matter of naming is actually a very professional matter. You can't choose a name casually, and you can't just make up the words based on the parents' temporary pleasure. The name is the name of the child and is closely related to the image of the child. If there is a strange name, there may be trouble everywhere in life. Don't underestimate the role of your parents' names. Some children feel inferior because of their strange names. It's not uncommon to develop autism. So, what pitfalls should parents avoid when naming their children?
First, avoid ravines
Some parents are worried that their children have too many names. In order to highlight the uniqueness of the child's name, the name "UU" was specially chosen. Although it has a beautiful meaning, the meaning of a boy's success symbolizes the parents' ardent expectations and good wishes. Many parents are actually very new in naming their children, thinking that a word that no one knows can highlight their profound knowledge or unique personality. But it is complicated, difficult to write, and difficult to read, so the score is reduced a lot. Especially when children are racing against time in exams, other people's children have finished two multiple-choice questions, and their own children's names have not yet been written. Rare and unfamiliar characters or traditional Chinese characters with complex strokes are not only difficult for children to learn, but also will not be recognized by ordinary people when working in the future, which may cause misunderstandings or miss opportunities.
Second, avoid the following characters
If a child has the next character in his name, it will seriously affect the child's interaction. The other person is very awkward and is afraid that he will call the child by the wrong name. Children will also lose many opportunities, and such opportunities will affect their future. In addition, it also allows the next person to make more homophonic choices in the name, which can be embarrassing if the homophonic ones that may have bad meaning cannot be avoided. At the same time, parents should be careful not to give their children names with bad homophones or ambiguous names.
Before, there were many examples of funny pronunciation of names like "Hu Lijing" on the Internet. The literal meaning may not be ambiguous, but the pronunciation has greater ambiguity. They believe they were not teased or called names by their peers as children. Never separate the surname and first name when naming. Be sure to read more or your children will leave you with "hundred eyes". Parents should not be "clever" when naming their children. Children who are teased for a long time can easily develop resentment towards their parents. The child has shown resistance since childhood, and the parent-child relationship is not good. China has handed down thousands of ancient poems from ancient times to the present, so when parents name their children, they can extract words from some of the ancient poems. This has a good meaning and sounds good.
Chinese people are very concerned about names. In fact, a good name should pay attention to "Dragon God". The "dragon god" here is not the god of "ox ghosts and snake gods", but the "spiritual god" who gives thoughts between words, not the god of "fairies". If a person wants to be successful, it is basically difficult to achieve a career without a strong belief, so this choice of "God's use" is very important.