1. Specific steps for choosing a date for marriage
Choosing an auspicious date for marriage is not easy. In addition to the fact that the wedding year cannot conflict with the year of the man and woman, it also depends on the woman's lucky month. , a small profit month, hindering the mother-in-law, hindering the parents, hindering the husband's body, hindering the woman's body, in addition, there are many evil spirits, nobles, etc., such as the day when the child is destroyed, and the day when it hits the mother's womb. If you get married, you will either destroy the child or the wife after the marriage. If there are many diseases, there are three killing days, and if you get married on the day of tribute killing, the woman will have many disasters after marriage, etc. Finally, you have to choose an auspicious day according to the zodiac and auspicious days for marriage, so that the selected day can be regarded as a suitable and good day for marriage.
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2. How to choose an auspicious day for wedding
1. Choose a prosperous year and a prosperous month. Chinese people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date, and pay great attention to the theory of "Run Yue" and "Run Nian", that is, there will be a Run Nian every two or three years, that is, there are two "Beginning of Spring" in that year. A "moon moon". To choose an auspicious day for marriage, it is best to fall in a year with a moist moon.
2. Avoid 379. It is best to avoid the three auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with "Qingming", "Olan" and "Chonggong" respectively, which are all traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable to be held. happy event. The "Mid-Autumn Festival" month with the full moon, that is, the eighth month of the lunar calendar, is the most suitable month for weddings.
3. Avoid Sanniangsha. According to legend, Yue Lao did not hold the red string for Sanniang, so she could not get married. Based on the revenge mentality, Sanniangxi goes against Yue Lao and specializes in destroying the happy event of the couple. Therefore, it is not suitable to get married on the Sanniangsha day of each month, namely the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of the month.
4. The method of choosing a date for marriage. The principle of choosing a date for marriage is based on the birth date of the bride, with reference to the birth dates of the man and others. As the saying goes: "A son depends on the time of birth, and a woman depends on the year of marriage." Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to marital problems or even divorce; on the contrary, it will be auspicious.
5. Do not choose your parents’ birth dates. In traditional customs, parents' birthdays should not be the same as the auspicious dates for marriage. In fact, it just means that the day of parents' birthdays is not suitable for marriage, but it is absolutely suitable to get married within that month.
6. The real wedding day. If you decide to separate the registration and wedding dates, it's best to do both on separate dates. If you have to choose, you should choose to hold it on an auspicious day based on the traditional etiquette of welcoming the bride and serving wine, because Chinese tradition always regards this day as the real wedding day.
7. The method of calculating good times and auspicious days. Some people think that there should be a more strict method of calculating good days and auspicious times, that is, using the birth dates of the man and the woman to calculate the most auspicious wedding date. However, this method is quite cumbersome, and more people would rather choose the date based on the almanac or listen to the advice of people who studied the Book of Changes.
8. The actual work and study conditions of both parties must be considered. If one party is studying in their spare time, they should avoid the stressful review and exam dates; if one party is working day and night on a major technical research project of the unit, the other party should wait patiently for a period of time, and then choose an "auspicious day" when the good news comes. ".
9. Consider the actual conditions of both families. When choosing an "auspicious day", it is necessary to take into account that both the elderly and relatives and friends of both parties have time to participate and witness the joyful and harmonious scene.
10. The physical condition of both parties must be considered. If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange a marriage, but to seek medical treatment promptly and recover before discussing the matter. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of your new life and easily aggravate your physical condition. The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be shy about talking about it. When choosing an "auspicious day", the man should pay special attention to listen to the woman's opinions.
11. Unify wedding dates and holidays. It may be wise if the wedding date coincides with a holiday. The advantages of this are: it is commemorative; the newlyweds put on festive costumes to add interest; relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, the atmosphere is warm, and the relatives and friends can be entertained and celebrated at home, which is both economical and festive, but the newlyweds who get married during the holidays There are many, so be sure to book hotels and fleets in advance.
12. The definition of a good day. No matter what, the definition of a "good day" is always different for everyone. No matter what days you choose, try to choose those days that everyone is satisfied with.
3. What should you pay attention to when choosing a date for marriage registration?
Auspicious and warm reminder---your zodiac sign* *year category: We are waiting for you to register your marriage in September 2011 The auspicious days of the zodiac are: (You can choose to avoid the opposition of your two zodiac signs or after public holidays) September 6, 2011, Tuesday, August 9 (small) of the lunar calendar, oppose the horse (Wuwu) Qinglong fixed day, good day in 2011 September 7th, Wednesday, the 10th day of August (small) in the lunar calendar is opposed to the Sheep (Jiwei). It is a good day for Mingtang to hold the Sun. September 12, 2011, Monday, the 15th day of the August (small) month in the lunar calendar is opposed to the Rat (Jiazi). It is a good day to receive gold and precious wealth. September 28, 2011: Wednesday, September 2nd of the lunar calendar, is the dragon (Gengchen). I wish you happiness on New Year's Day.
4. How to calculate an auspicious day for wedding
The auspicious day for wedding in January 2010:
January 3, 2010 is the 11th day of the lunar calendar Sunday, the 19th day of the lunar month (big month) is in opposition to Sheep (Ding Wei) and evil in the east.
January 6, 2010: Wednesday, the 22nd day of the 11th lunar month (big day) is in opposition to Dog (Gengshu). Sha Nan
January 8, 2010, Friday, the 24th day of the eleventh month of the lunar calendar, clashes with the Rat (Renzi) Sha North
January 19, 2010, Tuesday, the 05th day of the 12th month of the lunar calendar, is in conflict with the Pig (Gui Hai) and evil east.
January 20, 2010, the 12th day of the lunar calendar ( (Da) Wednesday, 06th, clashes with Rat (Jiazi), evil direction to the north
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January 24, 2010, Sunday, the 10th day of the 12th month of the lunar calendar, rushes to the dragon (Wuchen) and evil north
January 25, 2010, the 11th day of the twelfth month of the lunar calendar (big day) is in opposition to the snake (Jiji) and the evil spirit
January 29, 2010, the lunar month of the twelfth month (big day) Friday, the 15th, clashes with the Rooster (Guiyou) to the west
January 31, 2010, Sunday, the 17th day of the 12th lunar month (big), clashes with the Pig (Yihai) to the east L < /p>
The auspicious day for wedding in February 2010:
February 1, 2010 is the 18th day of the 12th lunar month (big day) The Rat (Bingzi) is in the north.
February 3, 2010, Wednesday, the 20th day of the 12th month of the lunar calendar, is the Tiger (Wuyin) in the South.
February 4, 2010, Thursday, the 21st day of the 12th month of the lunar calendar, is in opposition to the Rabbit (Ji Mao) and evil in the east.
February 2010 On February 7, 2010, Sunday, the 24th day of the 12th lunar month (big day) clashes with Horse (Ren Wu) and Sha Nan
February 10, 2010 clashes with Wednesday, the 27th day of the 12th lunar month (big day) Rooster (Yiyou) is evil to the west
February 14, 2010, Sunday, January 1 (big day) of the lunar calendar, is opposed to Ox (Ji Chou) and is evil to the west
February 16, 2010, Tuesday, January 3 of the lunar calendar, is in opposition to the Rabbit (Xin Mao) and evil in the east.
February 22, 2010 Monday, the 9th day of the first month of the lunar calendar is opposite to the Rooster (Ding You) and the evil spirit is to the West
February 23, 2010, Tuesday, the 10th day of the first month of the Lunar Calendar (the Big Day) is opposite to the Dog (Wu) Shu) Sha Nan
February 26, 2010, Friday, January 13 of the lunar calendar, clashes with Ox (Xin Chou) Sha Xi L
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Avoid the opposition of your zodiac signs and choose an auspicious day for your wedding. Congratulations to you and wish you a happy marriage forever. Thank you.
5. Choose a date to get married
Male: June 13, 1984 (Wednesday) Lunar Calendar: May 14th, Jiazi Year Stem and Branch: Gengwu Month, Wuyin Day, Jiazi Year Zodiac: Rat Girl: July 16, 1984 (Monday) Lunar Calendar: June 18th, Year Jiazi Stem and Branch: Xinwei Month, Year Jiazi Zodiac Sign: Rat Tip*: When choosing an auspicious day, please try to avoid the opposition and sun of your zodiac sign Evil direction.
2010 wedding zodiac calendar: February 26, 2010, January 13 of the lunar calendar, Friday, 13th, conflict with Ox (Xin Chou) and evil with West [auspicious day and auspicious time] Details Analysis〗 March 3, 2010 Wednesday, the 18th day of the first lunar month (big day) clashes with Horse (Bingwu) and evil spirits.〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and times〗 March 6, 2010 Wednesday, the 21st day of the first lunar month (big day) clashes with the chicken (Ji) Unity) Shaxi [Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times] March 9, 2010, Tuesday, the 24th day of the first month of the lunar calendar, clashes with the rat (Renzi) Shabei [Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times] March 10, 2010 January, the lunar calendar (Major) Wednesday the 25th is in opposition to Ox (Guichou) and is in the west. [Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times] 〗 March 22, 2010, Lunar calendar month 02 (small) Monday, 7th day clashes with Ox (Yichou) and Shaxi direction. [Detailed analysis of auspicious days and times] March 25, 2010 Lunar calendar month 02 (small), Thursday, 10th day clashes with dragon ( Wuchen) evil in the north〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times〗 March 27, 2010 Lunar calendar month 02 (small) Saturday, 12th of the lunar calendar opposes Ma (Gengwu) evil south〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times〗 March 30, 2010 lunar calendar month 02 (Small) Tuesday, the 15th, clashes with the Rooster (Guiyou) and destroys the West. [Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times] 〗 April 4, 2010, Sunday, the 20th day of the lunar month (small) is opposed to the Tiger (Wu Yin) and Sha Nan〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and times〗 April 10, 2010, Saturday, the 26th day of the lunar month (small) is opposed to the Monkey (A Shen) evil north〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times〗 April 12, 2010 Lunar calendar February 28 (small) Monday is opposite to Dog (Bingshu) evil south〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times〗 April 17, 2010 lunar calendar 03 The 04th day of the lunar month (big month), Saturday, is in opposition to the rabbit (Xin Mao), evil to the east [detailed analysis of auspicious day and time]. April 22, 2010, the lunar calendar month 03 (big month), Thursday, 09th is in opposition to the monkey (Bingshen), bad luck to the north [detailed analysis of auspicious day and time] Analysis〗 April 23, 2010, Friday, the 10th day of March (big) in the lunar calendar clashes with the Rooster (Ding You) and evil in the west〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and times〗 April 26, 2010, Monday, the 13th day of the March (big) month in the lunar calendar clashes with the Rat ( Gengzi) Sha Bei〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times〗 May 4, 2010 Lunar Calendar month 03 (big) Tuesday 21st opposes Monkey (Wu Shen) Sha Bei〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times〗 May 8, 2010 Lunar Calendar 03 Saturday, the 25th day of the month (big), clashes with the rat (Renzi) in the north. [Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times] Detailed analysis〗 May 11, 2010 Tuesday, the 28th of the lunar month (big) is opposed to the rabbit (Yimao) and evil east〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and times〗 May 12, 2010 Wednesday, the 29th of the lunar month (big) is opposed to the dragon (Bingchen) Sha North〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times〗 May 14, 2010 Lunar Calendar April 01st Friday (Small) Opposite Horse (Wuwu) Sha Nan〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times〗 May 16, 2010 Lunar Calendar Sunday, April 03 (small) is in opposition to the Monkey (Geng Shen) in the north [detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times]. May 18, 2010 in the lunar calendar, Tuesday 05 in April (small) is in opposition to the Dog (Renshu) in the south [details of auspicious days and auspicious times] Analysis〗 May 20, 2010, Thursday, the 7th day of the 4th month of the lunar calendar (small) opposes the rat (Jia Zi) and evil north〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and times〗 May 23, 2010, Sunday, the 10th day of the lunar month (small) opposes the rabbit (Ding) Mao) Shadong [detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times] May 26, 2010, lunar calendar month 04 (small) Wednesday, 13th of the lunar calendar (Gengwu) Shanan [detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times] May 29, 2010 lunar calendar month 04 ( Small) On Saturday, the 16th, it clashes with the Rooster (Guiyou) and destroys the west. [Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times] June 4, 2010 is the 22nd day of April (small) in the lunar calendar
Friday is opposed to the Rabbit (Jimao) and evil to the east [detailed analysis of auspicious days and times] June 5, 2010, Saturday, April 23 of the lunar calendar (small) is opposed to the dragon (Gengchen) to the north [detailed analysis of auspicious days and times] June 2010 The 8th day of April (small) in the lunar calendar, Tuesday, the 26th, is in opposition to the Sheep (Guiwei) and is in the east. [Detailed analysis of auspicious days and times] Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times〗 June 15, 2010 Tuesday, the 04th day of the lunar month of May (big day) is opposite to Tiger (Gengyin) and evil spirits〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times〗 June 16, 2010 The 05th day of the lunar calendar month of May (big day) Wednesday is opposed to the Rabbit (Xin Mao) and evil to the east [detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times] June 17, 2010 Thursday, May 06 of the lunar calendar is opposite to the dragon (Renchen) evil to the north [detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times] June 2010 Sunday, the 9th day of the 20th day of the 5th month of the lunar calendar, is in conflict with the Sheep (Yiwei) and is in the east. [Detailed analysis of auspicious days and times] Detailed analysis of auspicious times〗 June 24, 2010 Thursday, the 13th day of the lunar month (big day), clashes with the Pig (Jihai) and bad luck in the east〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and times〗 June 26, 2010 Saturday, the 15th day of the lunar month (big day) Ox (Xin Chou) and evil to the west [detailed analysis of auspicious days and times] June 29, 2010 Tuesday, May 18 of the lunar calendar, clashes with dragon (Jiachen) to the north [detailed analysis of auspicious days and times] July 9, 2010 Friday, the 28th day of May in the lunar calendar, is in conflict with the Tiger (Jiayin) and is in the south. [Detailed analysis of auspicious days and times] Detailed analysis of auspicious times〗 July 11, 2010 Sunday, the 30th day of May in the lunar calendar (big), clashes with the dragon (Bingchen) and evil spirits in the north〖Detailed analysis of auspicious days and auspicious times〗 July 15, 2010 Thursday, the 4th day of the 6th lunar month (small) The monkey (Geng Shen) is in the north [detailed analysis of the auspicious day and time] July 16, 2010 Friday, June 05 (small) in the lunar calendar is the chicken (Xinyou) in the west [detailed analysis of the auspicious day and time] July 18, 2010 Sunday, June 7 (small) of the lunar calendar, is in conflict with the Pig (Guihai) and is in the east. [Detailed analysis of auspicious days and times] July 20, 2010.
6. How to choose a date for marriage
Generally, you need to choose an auspicious day for engagement, marriage, marriage, marriage, date, business opening, market opening and moving.
When choosing a day, you must choose a good day. The marriage ceremony is the most important event worth celebrating in the life of both husband and wife. It is necessary to consider whether the chosen date coincides with the birthdays of both parties and their parents.
If you decide to separate the registration and wedding dates, it is best to choose separate dates for both days. If you have to choose, you should choose to hold it on an auspicious day based on the traditional etiquette of welcoming the bride and serving wine, because Chinese tradition always regards this day as the real wedding day.
The method of calculating the auspicious time is to calculate the most auspicious wedding date using the birth dates of the man and the woman. This "auspicious day" must be suitable for the five elements. Happy events cannot conflict with the zodiac signs of men and women. The general principle is: days are more important than months, and months are more important than years: First, select the wedding season based on the envisioned wedding form and local climate characteristics.
For example, if you want to hold an outdoor wedding, you should choose a season with sunny weather, less rain, and suitable hot and cold weather. At the same time, you also need to consider how easy it is for relatives and friends to attend the wedding.
If many of the relatives and friends you want to invite do not work locally, you should choose to go during long holidays such as National Day and May Day. Secondly, the work and study situation of the couple should also be considered, and try to avoid planning the wedding before the exam or during the project research stage, which will cause distraction.
Finally, the opinions of the elders cannot be ignored! Based on the above factors, after selecting a rough range, you can select a date based on the birthdays of the two people. One last reminder, the woman should try to miss her menstrual period when choosing a date.
Some people say that 10 years is the year of the widow or that it is not suitable to get married in the zodiac year. That is not credible.
The following are auspicious wedding dates in 2009 for couples' reference.
I wish you a happy marriage and all the best. The auspicious date for marriage in 2009 is October 2, 2009. Friday, the fourteenth day of the eighth lunar month is in conflict with the dog. October 4, 2009. Sunday, the sixteenth day of the eighth month in the lunar calendar is in the conflict with the rat. October 6, 2009. Tuesday, the eighteenth day of the eighth lunar month is in the conflict with the tiger. October 8, the twenty-seventh Thursday of August in the lunar calendar is in conflict with Dragon. October 15, 2009, Thursday, the twenty-seventh day of August in the lunar calendar, is in conflict with Pig. October 16, 2009. Friday, the twenty-eighth day of August in the lunar calendar is in conflict with Rat. October 18, 2009 is Sunday, the first day of September in the lunar calendar. October 19, 2009, Monday, the second day of the ninth lunar month, clashes with the Rabbit. October 25, 2009, Sunday, the eighth day of the ninth lunar month, clashes with the Rooster. October 28, 2009, Wednesday, the eleventh day of the ninth lunar month, clashes with the Rat. The auspicious day for wedding in 2009 is November 2009. November 1, 2009: Sunday, the 15th day of the ninth lunar month is in conflict with the Dragon. November 9, 2009. November 9, 2009. Monday, the 23rd day of the September lunar calendar is in the conflict with the Rat. November 13, 2009. Friday, the 22nd day of the ninth lunar month is in the conflict with the Dragon. November 15, 2009 is the ninth day of the lunar calendar. Sunday, the 29th day of the lunar calendar, is opposed to the Horse. November 19, 2009. Thursday, the third day of the tenth lunar month is opposed to the Dog. November 27, 2009. Friday, the eleventh day of the tenth month of the lunar calendar is opposed to the Horse. November 30, 2009. Monday, the fourteenth day of the tenth lunar month is opposed to the Rooster. The auspicious date for wedding is December 03, 2009. Thursday, the 17th day of the lunar month is in conflict with the rat. December 10, 2009. Thursday, the 24th day of the 10th month in the lunar calendar is in the conflict with the sheep. December 14, 2009. Monday, the 28th day of the lunar calendar is in the conflict with the pig. December 1, 2009 Tuesday, the seventh day of the eleventh month of the lunar calendar, is in conflict with Sheep. December 26, 2009 is the eleventh day of the eleventh month in the lunar calendar, and it is in conflict with the Pig. January, 2010 is an auspicious day. Sunday, January 3, 2010 is the month of Bingzi in the year of Ji Chou. The zodiac sign of Guichou day is opposite to Sheep. Tuesday, January 5, 2010 is November 21, Ji Chou year, Bing Zi month, Yi Mao day. The zodiac sign is opposite to Rooster. Wednesday, January 6, 2010 is November 22, Ji Chou year, Bing Zi month. The zodiac sign of Chen and Sun is in conflict with Dog. Friday, January 8, 2010 is the zodiac sign of Dog on November 24th, year of Ji Chou and the lunar month of Wu Wu. The zodiac sign of Day and Day is in conflict with rat. The zodiac sign of Sunday, January 17, 2010 is the third day of twelfth lunar month in Ding Chou month of Ding Mao day. Tuesday, January 19, 2010, the fifth day of the twelfth lunar month, the year of Ding Chou, the month of Ji Si, the zodiac sign of the Pig, Wednesday, January 20, 2010, the sixth day of the twelfth lunar month, the year of the Ding Chou month, the Geng Wu day, the zodiac sign of the Rat, January 22, 2010 Friday, eighth day of the twelfth lunar month, Ding Chou month, Renshen day, the zodiac sign is Tiger, Sunday, January 24, 2010, Sunday, the tenth day of the twelfth lunar month, Ji Chou year, Ding Chou month, Jiaxu day, the zodiac sign is Dragon, Monday, January 25, 2010, Monday, the eleventh day of the twelfth lunar month The zodiac sign of Ji Chou year is Ding Chou month Yi Hai day and the zodiac sign is Snake. Friday, January 29, 2010. The zodiac sign of Ji Chou year is Ding Chou month Ji Mao day. The zodiac sign is Rooster on Friday, January 29, 2010. The zodiac sign of Xinsi is Pig, February 2010. The auspicious day of the zodiac is Monday, February 1, 2010. The 18th day of the twelfth lunar month is the year of Ding Chou. The zodiac sign of Moon A and Shen is opposite Tiger on Thursday, February 4, 2010. The 21st day of the twelfth lunar month is the year of Ding Chou and month Yiyou. Wednesday, February 10, the twenty-seventh day of the twelfth lunar month, the year of Ji Chou, the Xin Mao day of the Ding Chou month, the zodiac sign is Rooster.
7. How to calculate the auspicious date for marriage
Double Spring: refers to the two beginnings of spring at the beginning and end of the year.
Since spring has the symbolic meaning of the beginning of the year and the blooming of branches and leaves, it is considered to be particularly suitable for marriage. For example, 2014, 2017, and 2020 are Double Spring Years.
Leap month: It means that there is a leap month in the lunar calendar in that year, that is, there are thirteen months in total. Since leap means nourishment and harvest, it symbolizes the nourishment of love, love and harmony between husband and wife.
For example, 2012 is leap April, 2014 is leap September, 2017 is leap June, and 2020 is leap April. Double spring and leap month: Both spring and leap month are suitable years for marriage. There are both double spring and leap month in a year, so naturally it is even more joyful! Such as Renchen (2012) and Jiawu (2014).
Actual Wedding Day: If you decide to separate the registration and wedding dates, it is best to choose separate dates for both days. If you have to choose, you should choose to hold it on an auspicious day based on the traditional etiquette of welcoming the bride and serving wine, because Chinese tradition always regards this day as the real wedding day.
The method of calculating good times and auspicious times: Some people think that there should be a more strict method of calculating good times and auspicious times, that is, using the birth dates and times of both men and women to calculate the most auspicious marriage. time. However, this method is quite cumbersome, and more people would rather look at the almanac to choose the date.
Avoid parents’ birthdays: In traditional customs, parents’ birthdays should not be the same as the auspicious date of marriage. In fact, it just means that the day of parents’ birthday is not suitable for marriage, and you should get married within that month. It is possible. Things to pay attention to when choosing an auspicious wedding day: avoid months or days that conflict with the zodiac signs: the so-called conflict, that is, the conflict between the Rat and the Wu Horse, the Chou Ox and the Wei Sheep, the Yin Tiger and the Shen Monkey, and the Mao Rabbit and the Unitary Rooster. , Chen Dragon and Xu Dog are in conflict, Si Snake and Hai Pig are in conflict, *** six groups are in conflict, that is, those born in the Year of the Rat should avoid the Wu Horse month or sun, and so on.
Three-seventh day: It is best to avoid the auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chongqing respectively. Both are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for weddings. The month of the Mid-Autumn Festival with the full moon, that is, the eighth month of the lunar calendar, is the most suitable month for weddings.
Avoid Sanniang evil: According to legend, Yue Lao did not hold the red string for Sanniang, so that she could not get married. Based on the revenge mentality, Sanniangxi goes against Yue Lao and specializes in destroying the happy event of the couple. Therefore, it is not suitable to get married on the Sanniangsha day of each month, namely the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of the month.
Is the blind year optional? The Year of the Blind refers to the day when there is no beginning of spring in the whole year. Usually the year after the Double Spring Festival is the Year of the Blind. However, there are also auspicious days in blind years, so it is basically okay to get married in blind years.
1. Consider the actual conditions of both families. When choosing an auspicious day, you need to take into account that both the elderly and relatives and friends have time to attend.
2. The actual work and study conditions of both parties must be considered. If one party is studying in their spare time, they should avoid stressful review exam dates.
3. The physical condition of both parties should be taken into consideration. The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be shy about talking about it. 4. Unify wedding dates and holidays so that couples have more time to arrange weddings. However, there are more couples getting married during holidays, so hotel reservations and fleets need to be booked in advance.
5. Cost considerations: June, August, September, and October are the peak periods for weddings, so weddings held during these periods are likely to be more expensive. high.
8. How to choose an auspicious wedding day for wedding customs
Discuss the day on which the wedding will be held, inform the parents of both parties in advance, and allow the elderly, relatives and friends to attend the wedding, *** Enjoy the festive and harmonious scene.
Five. It is best for the man to listen to the woman's opinions as much as possible.
Sanniangsha falls on the third day of each lunar month. Otherwise, it will not only affect the harmony of the new life, but also aggravate the condition, but there is no need to worry about it. You still need to combine your own numerology to choose the auspicious day and time for your wedding, which cannot be generalized.
It is a good choice to coincide the wedding date with holidays. The advantage of this is that relatives and friends will have time to attend the wedding. The wedding coincides with a holiday, the atmosphere is warm, and the groom's opinions should also be taken seriously.
It is necessary to avoid both parties' respective studies and busy work periods, which are both traditional "ghost festivals" and not suitable for weddings. Because Sanniang is so happy and opposed to Yue Lao, she specializes in destroying newlyweds, so she needs to be avoided! According to the traditional mathematical perspective (numerology), the auspicious dates for marriage are chosen on the eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh.
Avoiding the birthdays of both parties and their parents also lays a stable foundation for future married life. 1. The bride and groom will also share the joy of the holiday with their relatives and friends on the wedding day. After all, it is related to the future family and happiness. It can only be used as a unilateral reference as a lifelong event: avoid getting married in special months and avoid the third and third days of the lunar calendar. July and September: The most auspicious days for marriage are single days to ensure that the wedding goes ahead, because these months coincide with "Qingming", "Yu Lan" and "Chong Gong" respectively.
It is best to choose the wedding day in the woman's wedding month, which is harmonious. Third, it is the beginning of a happy marriage, mother-in-law.
Two: Make the choice based on the bride’s date of birth. As the saying goes, it is best to choose an auspicious day to see whether it is compatible or not. For example, if a direct relative or an elderly person dies in the family that year, it is not suitable to hold a banquet that year, let alone register, otherwise it will violate the taboo of "birth and death".
In fact, choosing a day is to choose auspiciousness, and the purpose of choosing auspiciousness is to "seek good fortune and avoid misfortune": to understand your own horoscope, usually we think that the zodiac signs are not compatible, that is, the zodiac signs are not compatible, and the traditional compatibility Zodiac sign is only one of the eight characters, so the incompatibility of the zodiac signs only represents one of them. Personal zodiac signs do not play a decisive role in marriage, so you must avoid birth taboos and death taboos, that is, the "Year of the Widow", which is not very comprehensive. You still need to combine your own numerology conditions to finally choose an auspicious wedding day that suits you. Analyze and understand the horoscopes of both parties. If you can't help each other to the end, choose an auspicious day. Because in traditional thinking, a bride who gets married in June is called a "half-moon wife" because she has no past and no future. Although there is a saying about the spring year in folk traditions, choose an auspicious day. At an auspicious time, if both men and women unite with the auspicious days when the gods are prosperous, they will have a happy marriage and prosperous children and grandchildren.
If both parents have passed away and the date of marriage avoids the woman’s menstrual period. But at the same time, other people (especially the male: "The son depends on the year of birth, the girl depends on the year of marriage."
If this principle is reversed or ignored, the seventh and tenth day of the lunar month Third, it will cause problems in the marriage after marriage. In addition, the sixth month of the lunar calendar is not suitable for marriages. This kind of happy event should pay more attention to choosing a date. The above is the most basic knowledge about choosing a wedding date, just like the old almanac.
In addition, there is one more thing to consider. Depending on the circumstances of both parties and their families, it is best to hold the wedding when both parties are in good health, and at the same time, they can be infected with the festive and lively atmosphere of the wedding and wish the wedding well.
However, Since most couples get married during the holidays, it is still necessary to book wedding banquets and hotel fleets in advance. Traditional customs believe that the actual wedding day should be based on the date of the reception and wedding banquet.
If the marriage registration and wedding ceremony date are separated, everyone hopes to have a good marriage, and a good marriage must have a good start, so the wedding date (wedding date), which is one of the "six rites", is also People pay more attention to it
9. How to calculate the wedding day and how to choose an auspicious wedding day
Marriage is a major event in life, and choosing a good day is indispensable, so how to choose a wedding day. If you want to know the answer, please check it out on Shensuan.com
1. When choosing a wedding date, choose a good year and a good month.
Chinese people pay great attention to "Run Yue" and "Run Nian" when choosing wedding dates. That is to say, there will be a "Run Nian" every two or three years, that is, there are two "Beginning of Spring" and one "Run Yue" in that year. ". To choose an auspicious day for marriage, it is best to choose a year with a moist moon.
2. The method of choosing a day for marriage.
The principle of choosing a date for marriage is based on the birth date of the bride, with reference to the birth dates of the groom and others. Chinese proverb says: "A son depends on the time of birth, and a woman depends on the year of marriage."
3. When choosing a wedding date, you must avoid the evil spirit of Sanniang
According to legend, Yue Lao did not hold the red string for Sanniang, so she could not get married. . Based on the revenge mentality, Sanniangxi goes against Yue Lao and specializes in destroying the happy event of the couple. Therefore, it is not suitable to get married on the Sanniangsha days of the month, which are the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of the month.
4. When choosing a date for your wedding, you should avoid anything that happens.
It is best to avoid the three auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with "Qingming", "Ulan" and "Chongqing" respectively. "Gong" is a traditional "Ghost Festival" and is not suitable for weddings. The "Mid-Autumn Festival" month with the full moon, that is, the eighth month of the lunar calendar, is the most suitable month for weddings.
10. How to choose a date for marriage
Male: June 23, 1987 (lunar calendar) Female: August 7, 1984 (lunar calendar)
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October is an auspicious month for you two to get married - excellent, with no unfavorable oppositions!
The auspicious dates for your marriage in October 2009 are:
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Friday, October 2, 2009, the 14th day of the eighth lunar month, Jiaxu (confronting the dog)
October 4, 2009 Sunday, October 6, 2009, Tuesday, October 6, 2009 is the 18th day of the eighth lunar month, Bingzi (confronting the rat)
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Thursday, October 8, 2009, the 20th day of the eighth lunar month (Chonglong)
Thursday, October 15, 2009, the eighth day of the lunar calendar The twenty-seventh day of the lunar month, Ding Hai (contrasted with the pig)
Friday, October 16, 2009, the twenty-eighth day of the eighth lunar month, Wuzi (contrasted with the rat)
Sunday, October 18, 2009, the first day of the ninth lunar month is Gengyin (confronting the tiger)
Monday, October 19, 2009, the second day of the ninth lunar month is Xinmao (confronting the tiger) Rabbit)
Sunday, October 25, 2009, the eighth day of the ninth lunar month, Dingyou (Rick)
October 2009 Wednesday, the 28th, the 11th day of the ninth month of the lunar calendar, Gengzi (rat)
I wish you happiness!