Some people believe that hard work can change fate. Princes and princes will be together. What kind of people would you rather have? They believe that fate is in their own hands, where there is a will, there is a way, and as long as they work hard, they can decide their own destiny.
fatalists believe that fate is determined by heaven, and what you will meet and do is doomed from the moment you are born.
Some people think that the environment determines a person's fate. They think that personality is shaped in the acquired environment, and the environment determines personality, so the way of this person's life is basically settled, and his life is basically a foregone conclusion.
obviously, a person's fate is very complicated, not determined by a single factor, but by many factors. As for fate, there is a saying in Legend of Heroes of Children that one life has two fortunes, three geomantic omen, four accumulated virtues and five studies.
one life: it is predestined and cannot be changed.
Some people are born rich, others are born poor; Some people are born beautiful, others are born ugly; Some people are talented, while others are born stupid. Some people are born strong, others are stillborn. These are not for you to decide, a person's life has been decided from the day he was born.
second luck: the fortune can be changed.
innate fate, acquired luck. Congenital fate cannot be changed, and the fortune of the day after tomorrow is extremely important. The so-called fortune includes both national luck and personal luck. National Games Even if we are in the country and era, this is our external environment, which is not determined by ourselves, but we can influence our destiny according to the development of the times.
three geomantic omen: the environment we live in the day after tomorrow can be changed.
it may be the environment where you live, the place where you work and the city where you live. One side is good at water and soil, and one side is good at nurturing talents. The environment in which an individual lives affects his health and development throughout his life. The change of geomantic omen can be great, the tree moves the dead, and the influence of the environment can affect a person's fortune development. When Mencius was a child, he lived at the foot of Ma 'anshan, 25 miles north of Zouxian County, Shandong Province. The village was called Fancun, and there was a cemetery not far from the village. The funeral crowd often passed by Mencius' door, so Mencius imitated the mourners. Meng Mu saw it and thought that "this is not why he lives in my son", so he moved his family to the temple camp in the north of the city. However, the streets here are quite busy. In the east, there lived a butcher who killed pigs. Mencius learned from the butcher and played all day. Meng Mu felt that it was not suitable to cultivate children here, so he moved to the "Academy of Xuegong", which is next to Zisi Academy outside the south gate of the county. From then on, Mencius was attracted by the sound of reading, and Meng Mu was very happy, so he sent Mencius to the Academy to study. He studied hard and eventually became a great scholar.
four virtues: the so-called virtue accumulation means doing good.
there is an old saying: don't do it with small kindness, and don't do it with small evil. Seemingly small evil deeds, if not stopped, will become great evil in the long run, stealing needles when you are young and stealing gold when you grow up. This is the truth. There is a saying in Zhouyi: A well-accumulated family must have Qing Yu, and a well-accumulated family must have more disasters. If a lot of good deeds are accumulated, people's fate will change greatly.
five reading: broadly speaking, it refers to one's efforts.
There is no doubt that reading can change your luck. Reading well means going to a better school and finding a better job. Since ancient times, many children from poor families have changed their fate by reading.
six: the first name is the first name.
a good name will promote a person's marriage, career and health, while an improper name will hinder a person's fate. The Tang Dynasty poet Li He's father was named Jin, and "Jin" and "Jin" are homonyms, so Li He can't promote Jinshi all his life, just to avoid his father's taboo! This is the obstacle of name to fortune.
Seven Faces: A person's appearance is determined by his natural appearance, and his acquired appearance can be changed by himself.
Appearance is very important to a person's fate. Good looks are always more pleasing, while ugly looks are more vulnerable to discrimination, whether in mate selection or interview. In The Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Feng Chu and Pang Tong were prepared to play for Soochow, so they went to meet Sun Quan. Sun Quan was somewhat unhappy when he saw Pang Tong's ugly face, but he was even more unhappy when he saw him arrogant and unruly. Finally, Sun Zhongmou, a talented person, turned away Pang Tong, a wizard on a par with Zhuge Liang. Despite Lu Su's bitter words, it didn't help. This is the importance of a person's appearance.
Eight Gods: I think it is a person's belief.
faith is the meaning of a person living in this world. Once we lose this belief, we will be at a loss and have nowhere to go.
nine friends: parents, mentors and friends, as long as they can help themselves, they are nobles.
In this world, it is inevitable that one can't do it alone. No matter how talented one is, I'm afraid he won't achieve anything if he doesn't meet his own bole. If he has the help of noble people, he can rise to the top. Jiang Ziya was proficient in martial arts, but he never had luck, so he couldn't give full play to his talents. Until he was white-haired, he was still a farmer. What makes him feel most depressed is that his wife, who has been with him for many years, finally feels that she can't live with him, leaving him alone. It was not until the king of Wen found out and confessed that he was the prime minister. Noble people are not easy to meet, which depends on your own eyes and who is your own noble person.
ten health preservation: a healthy body and mind.
physical and mental health is the premise that affects personal ability. Many rich people make money with their bodies, and then die of illness when they are young. As Zhao Benshan said, when eyes are closed, money is there and people are gone, so what's the use of asking for money? Although Zhuge Liang surpassed Sima Yi in strategy and wisdom, he could not endure Sima Yi in physical strength. When confronted with Sima Yi's Wuzhangyuan, Zhuge Liang was seriously ill, and his mind was unable to do so. Sima Yi also aimed at this point, deliberately adopted delaying tactics, and could not hold on to it. He simply consumed Zhuge Liang in Wuzhangyuan. No matter how capable Zhuge Liang is, he doesn't even have the strength to live. Why should he be better than others?