The matter of naming a child is definitely a matter of wishful thinking on the part of the parents. It may be some kind of commemoration between the parents. For example, the name of the daughter of Wen Zhang and Ma Yili is Emma (love horses). Perhaps it was at the whim of their parents that a couple in Shanghai named their twin daughters "Shang Xia" and "Zuo You". Names like this always make us feel confused. Not to mention the children involved. Why do parents always give their children eccentric names?
Having the same name is as uncomfortable as having the same shirt. Nowadays, society pays more and more attention to individuality and is more and more tolerant of everyone. As long as you feel comfortable, others have the right to comment, but they do not have the ability or right to intervene or change. If you really can't accept it, you have to find a way yourself.
Among them, whether it is the same name or the same shirt, it is unacceptable. Because today we no longer regard uniformity as the standard, but have deep disgust from the bottom of our hearts. The more unique it is, the more people will like it.
Similarly, the same goes for the names of your own children. This name will follow the child for a lifetime, so don't be hasty. No matter what others say, parents must choose the most unique name according to their own ideas.
The child’s name represents the parent’s ability level. As the saying goes, a name is like a person. When we meet a stranger, we must first introduce ourselves. Although there is only one name, it is enough to keep the other person elusive for a long time. We will also naturally develop some stereotypes, thinking that girls named Wanying have a gentle personality, while boys named Jianjun have a strong personality, etc.
This has a real impact on your further interactions. Maybe the other person will take a keen interest in you because they like your name, but refuse to talk to you just because your name is awkward to pronounce! Parents, please don’t give your boys ABB-style names. Calling them cute when you are a child will cause endless embarrassment when you grow up
Among all the eccentric names, the one that is even more unacceptable than the homophones is probably Give your boy an ABB name! No matter how masculine the repeated words at the end are and how much they resemble a boy's name, if repeated, it will inevitably feel coquettish and girlish.
Although no one stipulates that ABB-style names are exclusive to girls, but in our thinking, we will feel that such names are exclusive to girls. For example, Tan Liang sounds like a boy's name, but if it becomes Tan Liangliang, will there be some strange feeling?
Even if others don’t say anything, the boy himself will feel very embarrassed. When you grow up, whether it's a teacher calling someone's name or a leader calling someone, will your first impression be that this name is a girl's name? Parents of boys should prevent their sons from becoming effeminate, starting with their names
On the Internet today, there are endless effeminate men. Male anchors or male celebrities will do things that make people feel uncomfortable in the public eye. behavior and said some words that made people’s scalp numb. Being coquettish or pretentious is simply off-putting. I don’t think any parent of a boy would want their child to become like this!
This impact is also the most easily ignored by parents. Parents must not give their children such names just because they think it is fun or novel. Otherwise, they will deceive their children for the rest of their lives!