Be a self-disciplined mother and accompany your children’s lifelong growth
1. Pay attention to image
Your image is the reflection of your life. Yang Run once said: Your name is a brand image and a business card. Hepburn is the goddess of elegance in everyone's mind. Her smile and every turn of her head are all insurmountable classics, deeply attracting people's attention. Her appearance will eventually grow old, but her image will remain in people's hearts forever. You don’t have to use cosmetics, but you must keep your appearance neat and tidy; you don’t have to dress gorgeously, but you must keep your appearance fresh and clean. Because the image of a woman represents her temperament and her state.
2. Emotional stability
In the TV series "Little Joy", Mother Ji is loved by everyone because of her emotional stability. Her son was driving illegally at school. After she was called to school, she was not in a hurry to talk to her son about right and wrong, but first asked about the reason.
When faced with conflicts, she can always calmly find out the problem and try her best to resolve everything. A woman with stable emotions is a lubricant in the family, easing family conflicts and a reassurance at work, and can usually take on big responsibilities. Just venting will not solve any problem. Women who stay calm, can handle interpersonal relationships more appropriately, manage their lives more smoothly, and manage their own emotions will surely make progress in life.
3. Keep the bottom line
Feng Jicai once said: "People's self-confidence is based on the bottom line." The bottom line is a person's minimum limit. If the bottom line is exceeded, one cannot have the heart. belonging.
As the ancients said: "There are things you should do and things you should not do." Staying true to the bottom line is actually protecting yourself. Only in this way can you enjoy stable happiness with peace of mind.
4. Keep your mouth shut
"When the water is deep, you don't speak, but when you are quiet, you don't speak." A truly outstanding woman must know how to be silent. Moreover, everyone is at different levels. You cannot ask others to agree with you and force a debate. This will only cause misunderstandings. Sometimes, speechlessness is better than anything else. Do not comment on things that are unclear to you; do not participate in things that have nothing to do with you. Control your words and deeds, and observe instead of talking when appropriate. Keeping one's mouth shut is the highest quality a woman can possess.
5. Strong empathy
The performances of Dong Qing and Ni Ping in a certain variety show attracted much attention from netizens. In fact, Dong Qing came to participate in this program because of Ni Ping's recommendation. When Dong Qing's career is booming, Teacher Ni Ping always applauds and cheers for her. Because I know her hard work and dedication, and understand her sweat and tears. There is a saying: "The strong help each other, and the weak step on each other."
The more excellent a woman is, the stronger her empathy will be. A woman with no future will always hate to see others living better than herself. . Excellent women are often able to think and feel from someone else's perspective because they understand that helping others also makes them successful.
6. Open-minded and calm
There was an old man, Guo Wanying, who was the fourth lady of Yongan Department Store in Shanghai. She lived a prosperous life in the first half of her life, but bumpy and bumpy in the second half of her life. Because of his father-in-law's background and his background, he was sent to a reform class. The heavy labor every day still remains calm. Someone asked, but she didn't mention anything because in her opinion, this was just an experience in life. In life, it is inevitable that there will be some unsatisfactory accidents, perhaps encountering a bad person, or perhaps encountering bad things. Complaining and worrying may be counterproductive.
Be more tolerant and calm. When you are calm and calm in your heart, your life will be stable and peaceful. A tolerant and open-minded woman can still live contentedly in the face of various situations in life.
7. Strong sense of responsibility
Zhang Guimei has been on the hot search many times
She is the principal of a girls’ high school, and she is for the girls in the mountains of Yunnan. The one who lights up the lamp of hope. In a mountainous area thousands of miles away from home, she stayed there for more than 40 years and used her small body to support the hopes and dreams of girls in the mountains. She regards all this as her responsibility.
She said: "As long as I still have breath, I will stand on the podium and give everything I have, even if I die without regrets." A woman's beauty is given by her appearance, and her charm comes from Strong sense of responsibility. Because of this, such a woman will shine with her own light wherever she is.
8. Unwilling to lag behind
Shen Jilan in the TV series "Meritors" leads the women in the village to actively work and innovate boldly in Xigou Village, deep in the Taihang Mountains, to run a village-run enterprise. After becoming prosperous, he led the villagers to develop specialty industries such as textiles and clothing and mushroom cultivation, enabling Xigou Village to successfully achieve a "track change." Let everyone live a better life. There is a saying: "Your life is hidden in your attitude towards doing things." A good life is what everyone yearns for, but you need to create it yourself.
Only women who are unwilling to lag behind can transform themselves from mediocrity to excellence. Of course, not being willing to lag behind is not an empty talk. You need to agree with and practice it from the bottom of your heart. Only women who change from the heart can surpass the good self of yesterday.
9. Have ideas and actions
Grandma Moses is a world-famous genre painter. She said: "It is never too late to start in life." She was once the daughter of a poor farmer, and she had been doing tedious and heavy work such as milking cows and canning. Until she was 77 years old, she decided to "start over" in life: picking up bread Pen began to paint. Because of her persistence in herself, her paintings attracted people's attention.
Later, she also held a personal exhibition, which influenced many women. If you have an idea, just go for it. Don’t always put “ideas” on your lips, keep them in your mind, and then be easily dismissed by others. Stick to your point of view, put it into practice, and strive to make it bloom brilliantly.
10. Continuous learning
Herman Heihan said: "No books in the world can bring you good luck, but they can make you quietly become yourself." When talking about Mr. Yang Jiang, many people will think that when her book "We Three" was published, she was already 96 years old. It is hard to imagine that an old man who is nearly ninety years old can still love learning so much.
Because of this, she can always handle things properly when she encounters them, and her life is transparent. Continuous learning is the most effective way to deal with anxiety.
Continuous learning is also the life energy that a woman can keep alive at all times. The sign that a woman begins to age is to stop learning.