In fact, for novice parents, the first problem they encounter after their children are born is not how to take care of their babies scientifically, but how to find a satisfactory name, so they often ask the elderly at home for help. On the Internet, a grandfather rummaged through the dictionary and gave his granddaughter an "elegant" name.
Mr. Zhu and his wife have been married for three or four years, but his wife's stomach is still motionless. Both husband and wife are very anxious, and so are the old people, who always give birth in the young couple's ears.
However, the couple were also very helpless. After going to the hospital for examination, they found that both of them had no physical problems, probably because their fate with their children had not arrived. God pays off those who help him. After a few months, his wife successfully conceived a baby, and the whole family was happy. Under the careful care of the family, it was soon the day of delivery, and Bao Ma gave birth to a lovely girl safely. Dad Bao is so happy, and so is the old man. He is very happy for the birth of his little granddaughter.
But after the baby was born, the young couple have been worried about the name. They thought of several names, but they were not satisfied. In the end, there was nothing they could do but grandpa himself. Grandpa worked as an accountant when he was young and had a certain culture. After turning over the dictionary, the old man decided to use the word "Ziyi".
When the old man was complacent and wanted to take credit, his daughter-in-law thought it was quite good at first glance, but she thought of her husband's surname "Zhu", so she repeated it several times and found that the good name had become "a pig", so she laughed and said to her father-in-law, "Please read it backwards." Grandpa just reacted, and it seems that the name still needs to be read several times.
Names are not only appellations, but also have many negative effects on children's life.
① being laughed at by others
Just like the little girl we introduced above, there is nothing wrong with just looking at the two words in her name, but she is homophonic when she is linked with her surname. If the mother doesn't find the problem in time, the child will probably be teased by others because of his name when he grows up, which will affect the child's personality and psychological state.
②. Children's personality becomes inferior
Everyone likes people with high face value and nice names. A nice and meaningful name will also increase children's self-confidence invisibly. When others call out their names, children will certainly be very proud. However, if the name is not good enough, or even homophonic, it will seriously hit children's self-confidence. They are unwilling to introduce themselves to others, and their personality will become extremely inferior.
It can be seen that names are very important to children, so parents must pay more attention to the following questions when naming their children.
1: prevent homophonic
homophonic names will do great harm to children's psychology, make children laugh at by others, and be detrimental to their physical and mental development. Therefore, parents should first avoid homophones when naming their children. After choosing a good name, they must read the surname and the first name several times to see if there will be unpleasant meanings. In addition, you can also ask other people's opinions more. As the saying goes, the onlookers see clearly, and sometimes problems that parents can't find can be seen by others at a glance.
two: put an end to uncommon words
There are many young parents now, and young parents have distinct personalities, and the same is true in naming. It is said that children have a high rate of duplicate names now, and many people have the same names, so young parents will specially take out uncommon names, which looks really special at first glance. But it is precisely because it is so special that if it is used as a name for a child, it will be difficult for others to read the child's name at all. Even if you can read it, you will forget it when you see it, and it is not easy to remember it. In addition, words with too many strokes will also affect children's enthusiasm for learning.
A bad name will affect children's personality, make them feel inferior and sensitive, and over time, it will make them resist the name. It can be said that it will seriously affect children's life. Therefore, in the matter of naming, parents must think twice, don't treat it casually, and don't find another way to give children wonderful, complicated and ugly names.