In addition to Xu Zhimo's outstanding talent and connections, his love history is even more remarkable. Xu Zhimo's wife was Zhang Youyi, the later president of a commercial bank, and Lin, a talented woman, was his dream lover. Later, he married Lu Xiaoman.
During the Republic of China, feudalism persisted, and Xu Zhimo married Zhang Youyi under the arrangement of his family. This marriage is not what Xu Zhimo yearns for. During his marriage, he always expressed his dissatisfaction, often wanted a divorce, and even did many things that made Zhang Youyi sad and painful. In people's eyes, Xu Zhimo's actions show that he is a love rat.
Although the marriage between Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi was arranged by the family, Xu Zhimo knew Zhang Youyi before he got married. He knew from his parents that he was going to marry Zhang Youyi. He has a good relationship with Zhang Youyi's brother. He didn't raise any objection when he knew he was going to marry Zhang Youyi. Instead, he used cold violence against Zhang Youyi after marriage, making Zhang Youyi a victim of arranged marriage.
Zhang Youyi married the Xu family at the age of fifteen. At that time, she did all the things that a traditional wife would do? Waiting on in-laws and doing housework, but these daily affairs fall into Xu Zhimo's eyes? Fun? .
Zhang Youyi and Xu Zhimo gave birth to their first child at the age of eighteen, and Xu Zhimo's father named the child Xu Jikai. But this child didn't come into this world because of love, and Xu Zhimo didn't give him the fatherly love he deserved.
After Zhang Youyi gave birth to Xu Jikai, Xu Zhimo put forward the idea of studying abroad. Although Xu Jikai has no father's love, as the eldest grandson of the Xu family, he is very popular with the elders of the Xu family, and he is loved by thousands of people. After Xu Zhimo went abroad to study, Zhang Youyi soon followed, so Xu Jikai was taken care of and raised by his grandparents.
Zhang Youyi, who went abroad, thought she could stay with her husband, but she was heartbroken. While studying abroad, Xu Zhimo met Lin, a famous talented woman at that time, thinking that she was the dream lover she had been waiting for. But Lin knew that Xu Zhimo was married, so he politely refused him and went back to China with his father.
It is puzzling that although Xu Zhimo didn't like Zhang Youyi, she gave birth to a second child with her, and the child died unfortunately. After that, Xu Zhimo forcibly divorced Zhang Youyi, and then began a passionate love affair with Lu Xiaoman.
The relationship between Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman didn't get everyone's support, but they got married. In a rage, the Xu family cut off Xu Zhimo's financial resources. In order to meet the extravagant living expenses in Lu Xiaoman, Xu Zhimo had to be a lecturer in three schools at the same time.
To outsiders, Zhang Youyi is virtuous and a very good companion, while Lu Xiaoman is favored by Xu Zhimo despite all kinds of criticisms. It's a pity that Xu Zhimo was killed in a plane crash and didn't have time to enjoy his hard-won marriage.
Xu Jikai didn't know much about his father, what's more, Xu Zhimo never cared about him, and when Xu Zhimo crashed, he was only thirteen years old and didn't understand the right and wrong between adults. In his childhood without his father, Xu Jikai lived a full life. Sometimes he is with his grandparents, and sometimes he is with his mother. As an adult, he became a civil engineer and finally took over his mother's business? Businessman, who later settled in the United States, lived to the age of 102.
Asked if he hated his father, he answered no and was full of sympathy and understanding for his father. Xu Jikai thinks that Xu Zhimo's fate is full of suffering compared with his contemporaries. Xu Zhimo's pursuit of love actually reflected his yearning for democracy and freedom, and he died before he could realize his dream. On the other hand, other old friends of Xu Zhimo lived a comfortable, ideal and happy life in his later years.
In addition, Xu Jikai also said that his mother didn't hate Lu Xiaoman, Lu Xiaoman was actually a victim of love, and she sympathized with Lu Xiaoman's experience. Lu Xiaoman had no children in her later years, and Xu Jikai and her mother sometimes helped her.
Compared with Lu Xiaoman's poor old age, Zhang Youyi ushered in his own love spring at the age of 49, and his old age was happy. Although Xu Zhimo didn't care about his wife and son, Zhang Youyi and Xu Jikai were both very open-minded and didn't express resentment because of Xu Zhimo's misdeeds.