“Your in-laws changed your name” may be because they think your name affects family harmony; or it conflicts with your husband’s name.
My colleague encountered this kind of embarrassment:
My colleague got married very late, probably in his 40s, and the elders in the family were about 70 years old, so in There is indeed a generation gap in communicating together. However, colleagues are working hard to get along with them.
Once her mother-in-law called her to her side and said: "Xiaomi, your name conflicts with Xiaogang's name. We asked someone to do the calculations and changed it to a suitable one for you." Name. Do you think it’s okay?” This made my colleague very speechless, because she didn’t expect that the old man in the family would have such an idea, so she rejected it immediately.
Yes, your situation may be similar to that of my colleagues. It is more because the elderly have concerns, so they have such thoughts. You can discuss with the elderly to use nicknames and try not to get into a fight. After all, the name was given by your parents, and you should also consider their feelings.