Weng Fan, 28, married Yang Zhenning, 82, which became a hot topic for many people. As far as appearance, temperament and talent are concerned, Weng Fan has some capital, but it is not enough to make her famous all over the world and gain fame and fortune. But she succeeded in making a sensation all over the world because Weng Fan chose the right person to challenge ethics and break through standards. In public, people's psychological bottom line about marriage and love can be broken to freezing point.
The public opinion caused by the big age gap is called incest complex between teachers and students, but the old couple have withstood the test and firmly believe that they can live together until they are old.
Why is this?
1. Lack of fatherly love
Some girls lack fatherly love in childhood, which leads to spiritual hunger and thirst; After some girls are born, the first male family member they contact is their father. They think that only the father is the most perfect man, and when they grow up, they will look for it according to their father's standards. They will find that boys of the same age don't have what they want, but they will find it in their wives. Old people will subconsciously take good care of their young wives. Why not give love to a man who is also loved by his father?
2. Let men find their second spring?
Because young people are blessed and carefree every day, old men basically know how to hurt their wives. Generally speaking, they have a sense of responsibility. A capable man is afraid of being old, and his wife spends less time with him. Naturally, I will find the feeling of "innocent girl" and "spring vines around the tree" again. I don't think any man can resist it. On the contrary, their love is more mature and deeper. Moreover, an old man with few wives can prolong his life, which is actually the demand of evolution and the most successful evolutionary model adopted by mankind.
3. Know how to live?
Modern society is under great pressure. Generally speaking, only when an old man has a certain economic ability can a woman be willing to marry him.
When there are fewer and fewer wives for an old man, the chances of a man cheating will be greatly reduced. On the day of the strike every night, they know that they will ignore their beloved wives at home, not to mention the few wives at home that are not reassuring. Going home early will make the marriage relationship safer and easier to maintain. As long as it is the combination of true love, the old man and those wives will be happy for a long time.
4. Know how to be modest, take care of people and have a sense of responsibility.
In men's eyes, several wives are children, and they are spoiled and willful if they have nothing to do. They need the old people's spoil and more love. Old people eat too much salt and know how to take better care of women. Some women like to make trouble without reason. Old ladies, haven't you seen any gestures? Calm down for a while, not to mention her little daughter. On the contrary, the more a woman misbehaves, the more she will be dead set on her husband if a man is humble. I have suffered a little injustice, and I am willing to pay for it. It is worth it! Men older than themselves have received traditional education for a long time, and they have greater responsibilities to their families, wives and children. Although the years have passed quietly, they are not without traces.
Choosing to marry a man older than himself, although deviating from the traditional marriage in age, is not important. Happiness is the experience of two people's hearts, not measured by age difference. As long as we love each other and feel warm and satisfied, I think that's enough.