Last year I brought a new class, and a girl showed me extraordinary love.
If there is a teacher-student relationship, it will never reach her level.
Add me to WeChat, all spring and autumn tours stick to me, and run to the office one after another, not asking questions, just to chat with me. Candies and greeting cards often appear on my desk, but I put them away for her.
I also deliberately avoided her, but she didn't seem to understand me. ?
Why am I so sure? Because once I asked her to write a topic on the blackboard, all the students below were booing. She is naturally talkative and can never keep a secret.
It was not until the final exam was finished this year that she confessed to me. Unexpected but reasonable.
I talked to her for a long time. The general idea is to let her study hard, get into a good university, find a job she loves, and then I will get along well with her and start as a completely equal. ?
I put all her things in a box on my desk and gave them to her. She has been crying, and all I can do as a teacher is to comfort her. ?
She tends to be isolated. I heard a boy scold her at the door of the classroom for seducing the teacher and being a bitch.
I found all the children who bullied her and had a good talk with them. Let them treat her well and don't mention it again.
The budding of adolescence is normal and should not be treated differently. They should also know what I mean. They are all big children, you know what I mean. ?
Our school has two campuses. A teacher in another campus is pregnant and needs a substitute. Colleagues don't want to go because the campus is far away. ?
Finally, I chose a substitute class. Colleagues are puzzled. ?
Only I know why. The secondary reason is that there are many opportunities for promotion in that campus, mainly because girls will be embarrassed if I stay here, and I am also afraid that one day I can't help being with her.
I can't live up to her youth. ?
She should study hard. ?
As an ordinary high school teacher, I want to say a word to the students:
Do you like the teacher, or do you like him to write on the blackboard, tutor topics alone, and be gentle and handsome when attending activities? ?
If it is the latter, please think twice.
The relationship between teachers and students is inherently unequal. He was radiant on the podium, but he had to face the unbearable situation of middle-aged people when he walked off the podium. He will have a hangover, smoke, cry helplessly, swear, and even vent on people around him for no reason. ?
Most teachers have families.
Please think about it. His wife has been with him for so many years. She is weak and has to undertake heavy housework, comfort noisy children and deal with complicated work every day. She can't live without him.
A middle-aged man, a middle-aged man who collapses on the sofa after work every day, a middle-aged man who washes dishes occasionally, and a middle-aged man who can help children with their homework are like lighthouses in the wind and rain. And now, there is a big girl who wants to put her harbor. There is nothing she can do.
Since your teacher can abandon his wife, he can wait until you become a yellow-faced woman before looking for another woman. Tell me, is she as beautiful as you? ?
There are also single teachers.
As I said to that girl before, when you break away from the teacher-student relationship, you two are equal, and then you decide whether to entrust your life to him or not.
Out of school, we can see his shortcomings more intuitively, whether it is the flaws that are not covered up or the yoga that is not covered up. ?
Son, study hard and he will be very happy. ?