Believe.
No one has ever said that the horoscope must be accurate, but it can at least tell you a probability, not to mention turning an abstract birthday into an actual emotional text description, telling you what personality characteristics people in each horoscope are likely to show easily, so that you can know fairly well, know yourself and know yourself, and be clearer when dealing with people.
There is such a thing as a prophet. It is undoubtedly beneficial to measure your fortune and give yourself some tips. It is more meaningful to tell the personality characteristics of people around you and remind you how to communicate with them and how to get along with them. At least it helps to dispel your inexplicable fear of strangers.
As far as personal experience is concerned, the following constellations are easier to get along with:
1. Taurus: Everyone knows that Taurus has a stubborn temper and is notorious for not listening to advice, but Taurus is still very kind to friends and is also a relatively easy-to-deal master.
The advantages and disadvantages of Taurus are intuitive. Advantages include liveliness and optimism, wide hobbies, practicality and sincerity, and gluttony and fun. However, when doing things, it is quite organized, methodical, planned, and has the courage and courage to dare to challenge yourself to jump out of the comfort zone.
The shortcomings are also very direct, that is, they are inflexible, it is useless to persuade anyone to look for trouble, not to bump into the south wall, not to look back, not to see the coffin, not to shed tears, to be entangled and sloppy, to have a paranoid desire to control relatives and friends, and not to tolerate disagreeing with him, otherwise he will definitely nag you endlessly, forcing you to listen to him, mainly because he is annoyed, and most of what he said in this process is ugly, and they change places.
However, dealing with Taurus is relatively simple, because they don't have too many playboys and abacus. All the abacus basically hit the light. You're happy to listen to him, but you're unhappy not to listen to him. It can be said that it is a very straightforward and clear concept of making friends.
Taurus advocates pure and true feelings, whether it is love or friendship, you don't need to pretend to deal with it, just tell the truth. They value your truth more than your shortcomings. As long as this is satisfied, they will choose to tolerate you, and they are really good to their friends, the kind that is willing to spend time and energy to contribute to you.
Because I am more true to myself, I will be true to my friends. This is how Taurus makes me feel.
2. Libra: an ideal playmate, almost without edges and corners, informal, happy-go-lucky, approachable, no matter what happens outside, you can live your little life happily.
Libra's external characteristics are compared with passers-by. They never brush the sense of existence, just watch and eat melons. On weekdays, they seldom talk and stay out of it. They are not particularly keen on competing with others for fame and fortune. On the contrary, they may be more interested in variety shows and movies.
However, this does not mean that Libra is stupid. Libra has a high double quotient and is a high ranking constellation with high IQ and EQ. Even if they don't interfere in everything, they have already had an insight into the surrounding situation and human feelings. They are discerning people and see through everything.
In fact, Libra has a good foundation, but they are too lazy. They belong to the kind of masters who have blueprints but no plans, ambitions and no ambitions. They can talk a lot and forget it later. They are one of the constellations with the strongest breath of life. If their ideal is world peace, I believe-only in this way can they live their own lives.
Therefore, Libra is not very strict with themselves, which leads them not to find fault with others, and the pressure to be friends with them is relatively small, because they are really good-tempered, can afford to joke and communicate with each other. As playmates, they are really ideal and easy to get along with.
However, you should be careful when you get along with Libra. This constellation is a little weak in its bones and has an unfathomable cold in its heart. Sometimes they will get used to looking on coldly and even gloat. This is their fault and needs to be guarded against.
3. Sagittarius: To be honest, when I typed these three words, I was skeptical.
Sagittarius is easy to get along with. If you are angry with them, please skip this paragraph and go straight to the next Pisces.
Thank you for your cooperation.
Sagittarius, as we all know, a child who never grows up is always optimistic, always positive and always active, but always loves to lose the chain and love to make trouble.
This guy is a pure troublemaker, so pure that he doesn't even realize his accomplishments in this field.
So the biggest problem with Sagittarius is that you can't hold it, because they can't change themselves.
In other words, they are naturally unrestrained and romantic, and they are a combination of prodigal son and prodigal son. They yearn for freedom, unrestrained, impulsive and willful, dare to despise any authority, never play cards according to the routine, and have great courage. You won't be surprised by anything beautiful.
If you can accept this, congratulations, you have a ferromagnetic buddy who will do everything for you and protect the calf wholeheartedly.
Sagittarius's thinking is more direct. You are my brother. If someone bullies you, ask me first. Because there are fewer things they care about and fear, if they are unhappy, they will directly confront you as soon as their forehead is hot. Are they still afraid of you?
In other words, Sagittarius is the master who can really carry out the sentence "same sex but not opposite sex" to the end. It's really true for friends. They don't care about any authority, they are often superficial, but it also makes them less calculating and more sincere when dealing with their friends. Anyway, they are too lazy to waste their brains and do things by temper and instinct.
But then again, such affectionate shooters are generally in a higher position. If you meet a Sagittarius who likes to steal the limelight and take care of himself, wait and see for a while. He needs time to upgrade.
4. Pisces: a controversial constellation, the most peculiar thing is his multi-faceted personality and his hands.
Normal Pisces are gentle, lack of independent opinions, rambling, entangled in romance, with strange imagination and some unrealistic gentleness, giving people a sense of harmlessness.
However, the essence of Pisces and Scorpio and Cancer are a water sign. It is born with a bold and sharp gene, that is, it has a strong insight and a cold and brave side, which is completely different from his gentle and delicate nature.
So this contrast has become a disturbing feature of him, that is, you don't know when they will blacken for you, and there is a feeling of eating tigers like pigs.
But generally speaking, Pisces is relatively easy to deal with, because in general, they don't appear too individual, neither as smart and lofty as Gemini, nor as picky and indifferent as Virgo, and their warm-hearted personality determines that they are relatively approachable, so they are not so tired when they come and go.
I believe in constellations.
Fire sign people are easy to get along with, because they are more enthusiastic; On the surface, the air constellation gives people the feeling that they are easy to get along with, but in fact, his heart is very cold; The earth sign looks indifferent at first sight, but it will be warmer if you get along with it for a long time; Water signs are introverted, but a little emotional.
Believe in constellations.
My favorite constellation is Libra, and Libra is very easy to get along with.
Libra is famous for its good temper. They will put other people's ideas first and consider everything for others, even if they suffer some losses. Libra values friendship. Libra will go through fire and water as long as they are friends they care about. Libra is simple-minded and happy-go-lucky. When they disagree with their friends, they will also consider the problem from the perspective of others, and there will be no big differences.
Come to Aries.
Aries is straightforward, straightforward and will not hold grudges. They are also very loyal constellations. Friends will help when they are in trouble and give people a sense of security. They are very reliable friends.
Taurus January fortune, Taurus friends hurry to sit down!
Overall fortune:
Emotional fortune:
Mars enters Taurus' house of life, which indicates that it will be a stage for your partner to bring your feelings closer, and Venus will also enter the relocation house this week. Taurus and his other half will have the opportunity to travel and have fun together in the next month, and may also mention their plans for future life. They will also have the opportunity to meet in different places or foreign countries. It's just that Mars, after all, is in a position of losing its power, which will make you more impulsive and easy to be dissatisfied with the problems that have been hidden for a long time. Recently, you have a tendency to turn over old scores. You also need to pay attention to financial problems to avoid conflicts caused by economic pressure.
Single dog: Single Taurus is lucky in love. Whether traveling, studying or having fun, it is easy to meet a person who feels good.
Have a companion: adjust your emotional pressure and learn to express your true feelings to the people around you.
Work and study:
The relocation of the Sun and Mercury in Taurus is suitable for serious consideration of development plans related to other places and foreign countries. You will not be satisfied with the status quo, and you will be eager for a better environment to display your ambitions. You will also try to pay attention to the recent opportunities, but it is still the stage to adjust your personal status and enhance your competitiveness in the workplace. Only by studying and accumulating experience can we have a better development space. When Mars enters Taurus, it will stimulate your ambition and make you more willing to take the initiative to fight for opportunities. However, Mars is also in a position of losing power, so you should consider the consequences before you act. Venus enters the relocation palace of Taurus, and in the process of hard work, as long as you are willing to express your value, it will attract people who are willing to help you.
Attention of migrant workers: Only by adjusting their own state can we better meet new opportunities.
Note to job seekers: Unemployed Taurus is generally looking for a job, and it is suitable to improve its competitiveness before encountering a more suitable job opportunity.
Attention: Taurus students are lucky in study and travel, and it is easy to get good grades in the near future.
Red alert day: 0 17 10 month.
Sunny days of lucky stars: 065438+1October 10.
Noble constellation: Sagittarius
Shipping direction/location: North.
New attempt this week
Pay attention to the changes brought by the environment and learn to control your negative emotions.
Aquarius constellation
Aquarius people live a very real life. They never know how to hide their emotions and preferences, and they can clearly distinguish between likes and dislikes. In the process of getting along with others, they always follow their own hearts, never ignore any enthusiasm, and certainly will not please any indifference. If you can really walk into them, you will definitely feel their sincerity and goodwill.
Aries constellation
Aries people are very simple and direct at heart. At ordinary times, they always give people a sunny and cheerful feeling, which makes people feel that they have never been troubled. And in the process of getting along with others, they are sincere and never hide anything. Although they sometimes speak directly and even hurt people around them, their hearts are full of goodwill and they have no intention of hurting people.
Sagittarius
Sagittarius people are very optimistic and open-minded They are also very informal and casual in the process of getting along with others. They are always happy and like a relaxed way to get along. Therefore, people around you can easily feel their sincerity. Of course, they also have principles. Only when they also feel each other's sincerity will they pay their sincerity without reservation.
Beliefs in constellation culture do have many psychological principles at work.
(1) Know yourself and show your needs. Eriksson believes that in adolescence (12~20 years old), the important problem faced by teenagers is to establish their own three views (outlook on life, values and world view) and circle of friends, clarify their own advantages and disadvantages, find their future development goals and careers of interest, and unify their various characteristics. If you can't develop your own identity, you will face the crisis of role confusion and "who am I?"
Constellation culture can just let teenagers "know" their own personality, advantages and disadvantages, suitable occupation and ideal lover standard, and can meet the needs of teenagers in the confused period to know themselves. Take Aries as an example, the constellation culture will tell them: "You are passionate, impulsive and naive (personality); Energetic, adventurous, cheerful and optimistic, but also selfish, impulsive and impatient (advantages and disadvantages); Suitable for being an athlete, entrepreneur and soldier (occupation); Your goddess is cheerful, optimistic and charming (the standard of ideal lover). Such clear suggestions can just meet the cognitive needs of teenagers.
Moreover, many people have the illusion of "marrying Bai to the peak of their lives". According to the positive evaluation of "unconditional acceptance of words" and "positive role model fallacy effect", he is cheerful, optimistic and energetic, suitable for being an entrepreneur, and easy to be believed and accepted by young people who are ambitious and need positive energy; Negative comments such as selfishness and impulsiveness will also be selectively ignored. In this way, it is not surprising that the confident constellation culture is believed by many people.
(2) the need for interpersonal communication. When they meet some new friends or want to meet an unfamiliar person, many people will label them with constellation personality analysis: Aries is "passionate, impulsive and naive"; Virgo is meticulous and pursues perfection. This stereotype helps us to understand others quickly and save cognitive resources.
(3) the need of faith. Constellation culture is actually a way to solve "confusion, not knowing what to do" and "no direction, not knowing what to do", and it is a spiritual sustenance that gives people a sense of guidance and certainty. When love is facing a crisis and you don't know how to deal with it, you can check this month's XX love fortune and get a guide. If you are not sure what direction you should choose to work, you can also check the matching career of this constellation to help you make a decision. In this way, under great pressure, we will not feel desperate and helpless because we have no direction to solve the problem.
These fortunes and solutions are actually universal and applicable to many situations ("You have a big emotional fluctuation this month, and you have a dispute with your lover, so you need to manage your emotions and communicate well"). There will definitely be friction between couples, and they all need emotional management and good communication. According to Barnum effect, we will believe that these generalizations and general descriptions are accurately revealing our own characteristics.
When couples successfully resolve conflicts according to these instructions, they will regard the constellation as a "hero", believe in the constellation culture more, and discuss the constellation culture more. Over time, even though many people put forward various opinions against the constellation culture and think that the constellation is deceptive, according to the confirmatory prejudice, these deep-seated constellation culture lovers will still believe their experiences and ignore the opposition.
(4) Constellation culture originates from astrology and is easily mistaken for science. Astrology uses the position and movement changes of celestial bodies to explain things. Constellation culture developed from astrology has a certain historical origin, which may be regarded as "authority" by many people and then convinced.
Constellation is a small philosophy, that is, how to look at yourself and others wisely and how to look at the world wisely when you are big. Remarks: The English expression of Philosophy is philosophy, which consists of two roots: pheilein (love, pursuit) and +sophia (wisdom) and comes from Greek.
Constellation, for me, is the carrier of ideas, just as art is the ship of emotion, and poetry is the embodiment of love. How to look at yourself is a very difficult thing. Without our awareness, we will be in a group, and our views will naturally be full of comparison, sometimes radical and sometimes slack. There will be various positions colliding back and forth in the circle formed by the group, and the individual's attention will be kidnapped by the group's attention. There are no specific things and orders to ask someone how to do it. At this time, the characteristics shown by individuals are often the implied meaning in the constellation, which needs to be excavated by themselves, not for the constellation, but for an opinion.
We should know ourselves, but we must never be divorced from the group. A person's thoughts and choices when he is alone will be completely different from those in public. Therefore, many people will think carefully and regret after returning from the group to the individual. They think that there are many more accurate words that can't be expressed, and the reaction of people in the group will be suppressed, while the reaction of some people will be accelerated. Constellations often mention the performance in complex situations.
People are more willing to look for * * * to help themselves when they are confused or frustrated. The positive part of the constellation plays this role. Seeking the help of constellations just shows the change of their mentality. What you think is right and what you think is wrong is your understanding of love and wisdom.
I studied astrology at first, and then I switched to astrology (first I studied modern astrology, that is, psychological astrology, and then I studied classical astrology, similar to Wei Zi). Why? Because girls like to watch this, what constellation do you usually say is the sun constellation and which constellation the sun is in? The constellation of the sun generally represents the most important personality characteristics of this person and generally points to psychological astrology. I mainly look at three constellations, the constellation of the sun, the constellation of the moon (one's inner consciousness) and the constellation of the rising point (the first impression), which are far away, so I believe in constellations very much. As for which constellation you say people are easy to get along with, I personally think it's Libra-September 23-24, 65438+10/October 22-23 (because the girl I like and my cousin can't speak a dirty word, so I'm smart and good at listening, and I'm a good guy. Of course, this is a bit subjective, because this is my favorite type, others may feel bored, inactive, pretentious and so on ... so if others get along well, they should also combine their own personality preferences and so on.