Why do Aries girls always speak ill of the boys they like? They are kind to friends and acquaintances. what do you think? Why?

Sister is Aries ~ ~ ~ You want to test your position in his heart. . . . Because you want to be unique in his heart, you lose your temper and speak ill of him just because you love him and you want him to tolerate you. . . My sister is like this, and her friends are very popular. I suggest you have a good talk with him and tell your thoughts or doubts. I believe you will be excellent. O(∩_∩)O~