He is an autocratic tyrant who loves to be lively, but you are so quiet. The essence is different. Even if he shows weakness, you should leave him without hesitation.
Two indices of the same kind: 2.
Eternity index: 1
Aries and Cancer
Cancer people will become nervous, irritable and irritable around Aries. Because the moon palace has a subtle influence on the metabolism of cancer people in all aspects of physiology and emotion. Aries can make people who belong to the moon exhausted because of their infinite enthusiasm for Mars. Similarly, Aries people often find that Cancer people always like to express dissent or not cooperate at all. Aries people can't help asking themselves: What do the cancers want to make me? Abandon all my confidence, become inferior and try to please him wholeheartedly?
This is really unnecessary.
Only a few people can understand how much Aries wants to be accepted when it is brainless. Many of these very few people are cancer patients. Cancer people are extremely sensitive to injury. Although they will frown at Aries' carelessness, they have realized that Aries is harmless and unwilling to criticize too much. Therefore, it is easy for these two kinds of people to develop a stable and intimate relationship. However, because this relationship is a vibrating combination of 4- 1 1, it is often not a love relationship, but a partner in the same business, or within the same business scope, or in the same family. Due to the influence of 4- 1 1 vibration, both sides have a strong sense of self, but due to fate, they both know that they need to adjust themselves to maintain a balanced and harmonious relationship with each other. So gradually, Aries and Cancer will become excellent business partners, or they may form a good marriage.
Aries (female)-Cancer (male)
Cancer people, like Aries, are sensitive and afraid of being hurt. However, these two people behave in very different ways. The former expresses his strength by attacking, thus unintentionally hurting people around him, but he (she) intended to attract people's attention and then be accepted by people. The latter shows caution and forbearance, keeps hidden, approaches the target in a tortuous way, and even diverts others' attention from what he or she wants to do. In short, Cancer people are good at protecting themselves. After the injury, the reaction of the two is absolutely different. The former is furious and will fight back soon, preferring to be shattered rather than shattered. The latter turned and wept silently, gritted his teeth and pursued a compromise policy of "not being provoked but hiding". It is precisely because they are both afraid of being hurt that these two kinds of people can understand each other together, so they are in the same boat. Therefore, if Aries women do a good job in understanding, this love or marriage will be more than half successful.
However, both of them have a desire to lead, and this is also true in marriage. When two males contend, there must be a wound. In fact, why should we fight for the high and low? Isn't it nice for two people to walk hand in hand?
Scarlett, the heroine in Gone with the Wind, is a typical Aries woman. She has a strong desire to dominate, so she has two female values: on the one hand, she wants to be a little woman loved by men; On the one hand, even when dancing, I hope I can lead my partner. Aries women are often too frank and aggressive, which often makes men flinch. It usually takes several failures before she realizes that she is too sharp as a woman. So she began to restrain herself and consider changing her tomboy style. Just then, he appeared in Cancer. He is personable and gentle. He teased her patiently to make her forget her recent sense of loss. She forgot the previous lesson again, called the man casually first, and talked impatiently about substantive issues. Fortunately, it's him this time. He doesn't care at all. Of course, the first person to say "I love you" is also a woman. This time, the bold girl can be proud-she has never been so brazen as to beg without being blamed. Since the other party can accept her completely without being critical, she will not hesitate to show all her love.
But there will be conflicts. First of all, both sides are too jealous, especially the man. Even the woman can't stand it and will inevitably resist.
Secondly, different means lead to different pursuit of fame and fortune. The man knows the truth that "haste makes waste", so he hides his desire and even plays hard to get. The woman can't wait, so when she sees the man's slowness, she is anxious and even angry. In fact, men's practices are often more successful, and they can reach their destination by bypassing the corner like that. If you don't believe me, just look at business celebrities. There are many rich people in cancer.
After the money comes, there will be disputes. The man thinks that wealth should not be exposed, and it is best to save it or make a cost-effective investment; The woman can't wait to spend money, talk about ostentation and extravagance, and make a splash. This is also determined by the different nature of the two sides. The woman is optimistic and cheerful, while the man is steady and sometimes pessimistic. In fact, his caution is often correct.
Both of them have an inner world. The woman frankly opened it to the man without covering it; On the other hand, a man always refuses to reveal his secret to a woman, which makes her feel curious and extremely painful. She'll ask around and get suspicious. The man should also be honest with the woman, otherwise she will be heartbroken and leave him alone to keep the secret and be a bachelor. When she left, she was full of hope for her new life, and her old life was decisively abandoned by her. But what he left behind was that he could not get rid of the entanglement of the past. He regretted and was sad.
If her mother-in-law is alive, the woman is fighting an emotional battle-she wants to compete with her mother-in-law for the man's love and attention. My mother-in-law has passed away, and the shadow is still there-for the man, everything about my mother is good, but my wife should strive to be as natural and graceful as her mother, be a woman, be diligent in housekeeping, play the piano well, sing good songs and cook well ... You should see that she also has many advantages. Besides, you love her because she is a lovely woman, not because she is your mother.
Their sex life also needs a lot of adjustment from both sides. At first, the man was gentle and considerate, thinking of her everywhere, which made the woman very moved. However, the man's long-term caution on the wedding bed may cause some problems. The man will not fully accept or even feel uneasy about the woman's bold enthusiasm; The woman feels left out and neglected because of the warmth of the man. The man should remember that no matter how many times she has been in Aries, her sexual life is still fresh and always fully devoted. Accepting her enthusiasm is tantamount to accepting her love. How afraid she is of being rejected. And the woman should also remember: Cancer man has periodic changes, and once his low tide cycle is over, he will be gentle and considerate as always. Don't say anything too exciting to him at his low tide. Once sexually assaulted, he will be more depressed and even depressed for a long time. To make matters worse, he may seek comfort from alcohol or other drugs-the cancer man is very sensitive and fragile inside.
As long as we can strengthen communication, many problems will be solved well and our feelings will become deeper and deeper. In fact, these two people will have a lot of happiness when they live together-the man will let the woman see his side that is difficult to show, full of humor, and will be amused, even if they keep accounts or count money together, it will become a pleasure. Besides, the gentleman's demeanor is so beautiful, and the woman feels like a lady when she is with him. As a result, the woman has also undergone obvious changes, and of course she has become more lovely. The man's love and affection for the woman will be deeper and deeper, and he will depend on the woman emotionally, just as the child depends on the mother. Men admire a woman's courage and enterprise and are proud of her. But the man will not say such admiration, but will complain that the woman is too bold and extravagant from time to time. Of course, the woman doesn't like to hear these criticisms, but she won't mind knowing that the other person is such a cold-faced person. Of course, the man should also learn to talk. Such a couple will be an enviable one.
Aries (male)-Cancer (female)
Aries men often fall in love with cancer women at first sight. This woman looks so delicate and fragile, as if she wants to get support and comfort from him, and he is willing to let this woman cry on his shoulder.
How does this woman make him happy: praise him, pay attention to him, be fascinated by him, and laugh at every interesting thing he says. His daily life became lively because of this woman. The meal is ready, the clothes are packed, and his home has become a gentle hometown.
Will Aries be satisfied? No, he soon got tired of this life bound by her. It is comfortable to be taken good care of, but he prefers freedom. Women have to spend some time trying to tie him up unconsciously. If she gets impatient, she will provoke him, and then he will run away regardless. Now, it is really wasted, and the woman's feelings will be greatly affected.
Before long, the man will find that the woman just looks gentle and fragile, but she is actually a woman with backbone. From helping friends decorate their houses to-if conditions permit, merging several banks one by one, even running for parliament, jumping into the water to save drowning children, beating bodyguards to a pulp, and so on. This will make the man love her more. Pear blossoms bring rain, which makes people feel pity, but at present, the heroine's demeanor and demeanor are also admirable. The man has been secretly praying that he can live with such a soft and rigid woman. Isn't this found?
But the undercurrent still exists, which is worthy of vigilance, otherwise it will erode love. The first question is money. A woman's nature is always different. Even when decorating the bedroom, kitchen and nursery (these are her favorite rooms), she must make up her mind by calculating from left to right. Money means a sense of security to her. Her motto is: "Without money, happiness is empty." This man is a natural expert in spending money. He spends as much as he can. It never occurred to him to hide the money in the attic and let it rust. His mantra is: "Money can buy happiness." Seeing that the woman is so stingy with money, although he gives in, he is even used to giving in, but his heart is always uneven. Money has become the biggest contradiction in their lives. Every time he spends money, this man wastes his breath. If both sides can restrain themselves and make some concessions, family life will be beautiful.
Secondly, women's emotional changes will affect their lives. Yes, men are also very emotional, and they are often depressed for no reason, but they pass quickly. It's really unbearable to live a sullen life like that lady for a few days or even weeks. In the first few days, the man will try his best to make her happy, so he feels a little manly and proud. But there are many such things, and he is tired. But women are often keenly aware of this, so they subconsciously restrain themselves and even give encouragement to each other-if the man is also in a bad mood and depressed at this time. The man should sympathize with the woman's sentimental character and understand that the reason is insecurity, not egoism. Then at this time, put your arms around her and support part of her weight with a man's thick shoulders. She will gradually learn to control herself and stop being afraid.
The sexual life of both parties may be somewhat unsatisfactory because of differences. Yes, the man's passion will inspire the woman's passion and bring her into the realm of immortality and vulgarity. But the woman is very practical, even if she makes out in bed, she doesn't forget the trivial things of life. Sometimes when they are in high spirits, she will mention family expenses, or accuse the man of what money should not be spent, or argue with him about a budget. When she said this, the man suddenly lost interest and his desire for love disappeared.
Money has really become the subject of their constant quarrel. Every time the man spends a sum of money, he wastes his breath on the woman and is accused of being extravagant. And the woman always wants to spend money on the blade, even if she spends more. If both sides can make some concessions, there will be less disputes, less distress and more happiness in life.
The woman must try to restrain herself and blame the man less. Once the man thinks that too much criticism hurts his noble and fragile self-esteem, he will no longer be loyal to her, and he will not talk about love. In addition, on bigger issues, try to make him feel like a master. Aries male is "if it is for freedom and self-esteem, love can also be lost." Keep this in mind so that you can correctly handle and handle things between two people. The man should also remember to give sympathy and gentleness when the woman is depressed, and avoid impatient swearing. Once she loses her temper when provoked, it is difficult to deal with it.
Let's follow the couple to the restaurant.
The meal is almost ready. Her eyes lit up when she looked at the bill. "One * * * nine courses, including dessert?"
"Yes, dear, there are only nine courses including dessert." He replied casually. "After dinner, listen to the children said to go to the movies. What do you want to see? " He asked her gently.
Her eyebrows moved. This is the first time in many years that he is so willing to let her make a decision. Why didn't she say anything when she was not surprised at all?