If we can see clearly what feelings others want, if we can treat this kind of social relationship well, it doesn't matter what kind of social relationship we have and who we get along with, because we can treat these things well. Therefore, we don't need to argue, nor do we need to argue with others.
If we are right, the facts will always prove it. If we are wrong, we don't need to defend ourselves, because what we should do now is to correct our mistakes instead of always explaining them to others. If we have no problems, others will look down on us.
If men have these characteristics, they must be corrected. If we don't correct them, girls actually look down on these boys, and even think that people like them are irresponsible, and they don't even deserve to be loved. In the end, I think such a boy can get nothing. I don't think anyone wants to do this, so we must make ourselves worthy of being loved and cherished by others. Obsessing too much about some things will always make you unhappy. Why can't you get over it?