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People who were so eager to find sincere feelings in the past would not show their feelings easily, they would trust each other's feelings at will, and even gave their feelings to each other without observing them clearly.
Scorpio, who likes to join in the fun and comes out as soon as his good friends call him, is becoming more and more homebody and doesn't want to solve the problem with licentiousness and venting.
Just a person, lying down, watching movies and reading books. When you feel that this kind of worry can't affect your mood, just let go.
Obviously, his mentality is becoming more and more stable, and the whole person is in a shrinking posture, eliminating those things that disturb his cleanliness.
He no longer has the desire and ambition to want everything. He just wants to keep what he can hold in his hand and what is worth cherishing.
From an ambitious person to a person who wants to be celibate.
What did he go through?
This has to start from an early age.
In fact, Scorpio's ambition is not that he wants a lot, but that he thinks he wants everything he can get.
But Scorpio's desire will make him continue to spy after getting some, feeling that he has not got all, so he wants more.
This is especially reflected in his feelings. He is always dissatisfied, always can't help but guess each other, and always can't help but feel that the other party doesn't put himself first.
The so-called possessiveness of Scorpio is nothing more than trying to make your feelings full of inferiority by constantly getting more.
Scorpio has tasted the bitter fruit from his family background and friendship when he was studying.
His memory is really good, especially in the face of feelings, promises, lies, perfunctory and betrayal.
He always clearly remembers how much he has paid for each other, but why can't the other party give him the same feeling?
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What kind of person is Scorpio?
Lonely and arrogant? Self? Independent? Rational? Such a person?
This is true in front of strangers, but in his feelings, he is an extremely clingy person with a strong sense of dependence, but he doesn't want the other person to see that he is relying on him.
When Scorpio is alone, he doesn't know what to do, whether to read books, play games, go to the movies or do something. In the growing period, Scorpio basically listens to emotional decisions.
After school, I didn't know what to do, so I stood there deliberately, waiting for my good friend to come out. He pretended to be casual and asked him where he was going.
The other person grinned. "I'm going home to do my homework."
Scorpio is disappointed, but it still doesn't matter. "Well, I'll go back, too."
But as long as the other party adds "You go to my house and write together."
Scorpio will lose its reserve, "good, good", and then go home with each other.
For Scorpio, sitting next to someone with an appetite and doing nothing makes him feel at ease and happy.
But only if he knows that the other person is willing to sit next to him.
Then this possession of feelings will naturally bring pain to Scorpio.
You're not invited tomorrow?
The day after tomorrow, the other party takes someone home to do homework?
……
At this time, Scorpio did not directly start to blame each other, but began to think about what he had done wrong, which would make the other party stop playing with himself.
In fact, the other party didn't stop playing with Scorpio, that is, they neglected, didn't see the hidden joy of Scorpio, and didn't know that Scorpio was waiting for them.
Scorpio will not say a word about all this.
He silently observed, silently judged, silently guessed, silently sad, and silently decided to leave.
By the time I plan to leave, it is not who is right or wrong, who is good or bad, but the relationship of this person has affected him, and he must leave.
Expect the pain caused by feelings to accumulate in my mind.
Scorpio has a good memory. He may forget the names and faces of people who left, but he will never forget those lessons, those pains and those grievances caused by feelings.
These things will become a kind of shadow, evil influence, make him doubt his feelings, doubt himself, doubt human nature, and remind himself to be emotional next time. "Haven't you been hurt enough by this?"
For a long time, it was hard for him to let go. He will feel that he has met the wrong person. He will feel that he really paid the wrong person, but he is still looking forward to his feelings. Although he was afraid of getting hurt, he still wanted to try when he faced it again.
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Back to the beginning.
Until one day, he finally found the problem.
The so-called truest, hottest and purest feelings he wants may never be found.
Between people, only when they are not familiar enough, will they keep proper limit, only when they are uncertain about their own possession, and only when they leave and meet again, will they keep awe.
In the face of a stable and comfortable relationship, everyone will gradually become less passionate.
So, is it really wrong to pursue stability and comfort and want both sides to love themselves forever?
Constantly testing feelings and humanity, threatening to let insincere people leave, can really filter out the most sincere people.
Summon up the courage and motivation for the last time, try again and fail again.
Scorpio also evolved from growth to maturity.
Social will is getting lower and lower.
New feelings disappear faster and faster.
The reply message is getting slower and slower.
There are fewer and fewer friends.
If the distance between people is not too far or too close, to keep people measured and comfortable.
Then between comfort and sincerity, Scorpio chose comfort.