But he knows as well as I do. In view of the old love, I am always in the process of making myself sad with today's emotions. Memories of ex-boyfriends are also used to give people a sense of urgency. Cancer, which looks nostalgic, has always been staring at the present and looking at the future. It's just that he must use the specific situation now to say whether the future of this love will be as unsuccessful as the last one. So he constantly pays attention to the shadow of the past and constantly compares the past. This is not to say that he misses the past, but that he is unwilling to make mistakes again. Therefore, the key to really attracting cancer is here.
What he wants is someone who can help him overcome the past and heal his wounds. Or someone who can fill his inner emptiness, give him enough happiness and join hands in the future. Most cancer will choose the former in the process of mental exhaustion, but what cancer really needs must be the latter. Cancer is likely to have some doubts, "I will definitely choose the latter. How could I choose the front so superficially? " But the reality is that there must be one thing in common that can help him overcome the people in the past, that is, people who are most difficult to forget in cancer and can be understood by cancer. This is also a feeling that Cancer thinks will make him obsessed.
In short, the more cancer forces itself to avoid that person after injury and forget that person, the easier it is to be attracted by the similar smell of similar people. The advantages are similar, and the disadvantages are similar. In the emotional process, the resistance to cancer is as similar as fear. To put it more bluntly, knowing that it is inappropriate, Cancer will try again, just because he thinks he will like it, so he wants to try again. The conclusion is of course the same. Because after an unsuccessful relationship, it is almost impossible for cancer to reflect on itself, let alone blame each other. He always blames fate for the breakdown of their relationship.
He doesn't feel that they are not suitable for each other's temperament or habits. On the contrary, he felt that they were predestined friends, just because of some things caused by tragedy, they misunderstood each other and then parted ways. He would even continue to secretly imagine that if he did it again, it would not be such a conclusion. With this insistence, he found a similar person to do it again, and the same effect seemed to be done again. The appearance of this kind of thing can only make the cancer doubt himself, doubt his emotions, and doubt whether the true feelings will come from himself.
But Cancer is not only stubborn, but also has an iron head. While muttering that I can't believe my feelings, I can't easily move my heart. At the same time, he will still be attracted to such people, or he will be beaten black and blue by emotions because of the same problem. The more depressed he is, the tougher his shell becomes, and at the same time, the more sensitive his heart becomes. The more you expect the true feelings and the loyal people, the easier it is for them to believe and be moved again. Is this an infinite loop? I just feel that the pain is not enough, the injury is not deep enough, and I have not got rid of cancer's imagination of illusory emotions.
Let me get this straight. People who can help him overcome the past and heal his wounds are positive people, gentle people, intellectual and elegant people, talented people and people who can quickly enter an emotional situation. At the same time, this is also a person who will be positive, gentle and romantic to others and can achieve the best emotional state to others. And a person who can fill the inner emptiness, give him enough happiness and work together in the future is a passive person, a stupid person, a person who doesn't understand romance, a pragmatic person and a person who can't enter the emotional situation for a long time. Therefore, this will also be a person who is not active enough to pursue perfection, a person who is not easy to prepare unexpected surprises in advance, a person who is not easy to coax Cancer with rhetoric, and a person who will spend a long time in an emotional situation.
Having said that, Cancer should wake up like a dream. Why has the relationship been bad in recent years? Cancer has been pretending that "I'm not being chased, I'm just playing, and my posture is very high." Then in the process of flirting, I became more and more attentive, more humble and more passive. This will be farther and farther away from the illusory emotions envisioned in his mind. Stubborn cancer is not convinced, that is, to compare and give it a try, and always feel great. "Destroy the enemy 1000, with a loss of 800." But the usual conclusion is that they all did lose 800, and no one attacked. For these very calm and calm people, Cancer thinks that they are not brilliant enough and are not interesting together, so they choose to be attracted by more interesting people.
I really want to ask you, an interesting and romantic person who can please friends of the opposite sex, do you still expect him to be reliable, please only one person and be romantic to you? Do you think this is reliable? This is the cancer's expectation of feelings and its imagination of lovers. It must be beautiful and attractive, and it only attracts itself ... but it ignores whether it can attract such people ... I don't like to say that people like Cancer are not very attractive emotionally.
He always thinks that he is the perfect companion who is intellectual, elegant, gentle, lively and lovely, humorous, talented and likable. But in all fairness, cancer is a suitable type of economic development ... just fascinated, just starting a relationship, Cancer's liveliness, humor, romance and likability will gradually fade away. Take care of the family, be diligent and thrifty, work hard, work hard and be considerate. ...
Cancer's necessary daily life must be that two people live well, accumulate constantly, get richer and richer, get a car and a house gradually, and get happier and happier gradually. But when Cancer was young, she always chose a person who was not easy to get along with because of the fantasy of looking at love ... so, be sure to remember. What attracts Cancer must be the stable daily life after being with him. Not a man who makes him fall asleep and lead a dead life. When you are tired, Cancer will gradually collapse. If you want to give up, then you should do it slowly and start making trouble. On the other hand, as long as the daily life is leisurely, Cancer will be a reasonable, intellectual, elegant and kind person. This is the emotion that cancer wants, the sunny life, and the people who need it.