Many people don't like Yang Guo, some because he is rebellious, and there are a few such people. More people don't like him because he has broken too many girls' hearts. I just want to talk about my own ideas here.
From childhood to adulthood, there are 12 closely related women in Yang Guo, in chronological order: Mu Nianci, Guo Fu, Li Mochou, Cheng Ying, Lu Wushuang, Huang Rong, Sun Popo, Little Dragon Girl, Wan Yanping, Ye Luyan, Gong Sunluo and Guo Xiang. (If it is not accurate, you can add Hong Lingbo and Sun Buer. )
Mu Nianci is suitable to be a loving mother, but Yang Guo misunderstood his father's hatred for his father because of the huge gap between his IQ and his son, his extreme infatuation with his father, his excessive kindness (as the name suggests) and his early death. This is almost the beginning of Yang Guo's miserable life and the reason for his loneliness.
(Speaking of which, I think of a detail in the book "God". Yang Guo in "The Son of an Old Friend" once said that Mu Nianci told her before his death that Yang Kang died in Jiaxing Tieqiang Temple, begging him to revive his spirit so far, so he stayed here. By this time, he should have known where his father died. But why did he hear for three transgressions of four times that Yang Kang died in Jiaxing Iron Gun Temple, saying it was the first time, and he was surprised and heartbroken-eavesdropping on the law of beating dogs, eavesdropping on the conversation between Guo Jing and Guo Fu, and eavesdropping on Ke Zhene's words in Jiaxing Iron Gun Temple? Am I wrong or Yang Guo wrong, or Jin Yong wrong? )
Another person equivalent to Yang's mother is Huang Rong. Unfortunately, this one caused another misfortune to Yang Guo. Yang Guo has always regarded Huang Rong as his mother in his mind (as can be seen from Yang Guo's "crying" to Huang Rong in The Twelve Heroes Banquet), but Huang Rong has never regarded Yang Guo as his son. Huang Rong can compete with Yang Guo in IQ (Huang Rong lost in trivial matters), but it is precisely because Yang Guo is not lost to her in this respect that she has always been wary of Yang Guo. Imagine, if Yang Guo inherited Mu Nianci intellectually, even Yang Kang's son, Huang Rong wouldn't be so wary of a child. This is because Huang Rong's nature is not generous enough, which has nothing to do with Yang Guo, but it has caused Yang Guo's disappointment for warmth. Many people have analyzed Yang Guo's longing for warmth, so I won't say much here. At this point, I have to mention Guo Jing. Let's assume that the gender of Guo Jing and Huang Rong is reversed, and Yang Guo will be much happier. But Guo Jing is his father after all, and Huang Rong is deliberately alienated, which means that there is little communication with Yang Guo.
Another woman on Peach Blossom Island is Guo Fu, and I really don't want to say anything to Guo Fu (I hate Guo Fu and her daughter). Some people say that the contradiction between Yang Guo and Guo Fu at that time was that the little boy bullied the girl he liked. I don't want to attack personally, but I really want to ask, apart from Guo Fu's empty appearance, what else does that idiot like about Yang Guo? So it is to compare Yang Guo with Zhang Wuji. Who would believe that Zhang Wuji's infatuation with Zhu Jiuzhen would happen to Yang Guo? Since no one will believe it, how can this statement be established? Guo Fu's temper can be said to be unruly, stupid, frivolous, without self-knowledge, bullying the weak and fearing the hard (no amount of derogatory words can be too much). Yang Guo longed for warmth, not self-abuse. Why is he interested in Guo Fu?
At this time, Yang could hardly find any emotional sustenance on the Peach Blossom Island, otherwise how could he secretly practice frog kung fu? Is it really just to defeat the Wu brothers? Every time I see Yang Guo dreaming in the cave where he taught him to beat the Wu brothers with frog skills in Ouyang Feng, I feel sad. Yang Guo has been alone since he was a child. No one has cared about him for a long time. At this time, he is so lonely. How can he not be rebellious? Is Yang Guo's deep affection also related to his never being loved affectionately? Maybe in his heart, he wants to make up for the warmth he didn't get by giving. And his infatuation and devotion are all related to this. It's hard for a person to love her and pity him and teach him how not to give wholeheartedly.
It's another misfortune caused by Huang Rong in Yang Guo, which refers to this period-Quanzhen nationality. But otherwise, Yang Guo won't meet the true love of his life, and it can't be said that Huang Rong did a good deed unintentionally.
Yang Guo continued his life in the Peach Blossom Island under Quanzhen Gate, and Qiu Chuji, like Guo Jing, could not bring Yang Guo the warmth he longed for. Zhao Zhijing was such a master, and Yang Guo was really in darkness when he was in Quanzhen.
Finally, Sun Popo appeared at the worst time in Yang Guo.
Sun Popo is another loving mother in Yang Guo, but she seldom gets together. Another achievement of Sun Popo is that she gave her life for the "support" of the little dragon girl team Yang Guo. Sun Popo should be said to resemble Yang Guo in character. He is passionate, burning everything and himself. In fact, what Yang Guo wanted was someone who was as sincere to himself as Sun Popo, but he never got it.
The appearance of Little Dragon Girl is a turning point in Yang Guo's life. Yang Guo's enthusiasm can burn everything, and Yang Guo's insistence is not acceptable to ordinary people. As a woman in Yang Guo, there must be no other men in her eyes. Who else can do it except Xiaolong girl? The simplicity of the little dragon girl and the sophistication of Yang Guo; The little dragon girl doesn't know the world, and the taste of Yang Guo is warm and cold; The indifference of Little Dragon Girl and the enthusiasm of Yang Guo are so harmonious. (Forgive me for being disgusting) I always feel that Jin Yong wrote Little Dragon Girl just to pair up with Yang Guo. Some people say that Yang Guo is rebellious, and the more people don't let him be with Little Dragon Girl, the more he wants to be with her. In my opinion, this is as unreasonable as saying that Yang Guo likes Guo Fu. For Yang, the little dragon girl is a teacher, a mother, a wife and a daughter. This may be an exaggeration, but it's true.
Yang Guo's longing for warmth, under the accumulation of disappointment and depression again and again, broke out when he met Sun Popo, and he could no longer restrain it. The little dragon girl appeared at the right time and acted as Yang Guo's strict teacher and loving mother. At this time, Yang Guo pinned all her feelings on the little dragon girl, including her mother and her master. At this time, the feelings are closer to family, but not entirely family. Two years of living with the little dragon girl is the happiest two years in Yang Guo's life except her mother's life. What Yang Guo wants is the day when someone loves him, and the person who loves him has no blood relationship with him, let alone family ties. In this case, how could he have no love for the little dragon girl? Plus this period of time has just crossed a person's most unstable adolescence, leaving the tomb, Yang Guo's feelings for the little dragon girl have actually taken shape. Just because Yang Guo's adolescence was only spent with the little dragon girl, his rich feelings were not vented enough-the life in the ancient tomb prematurely let Yang Guo enjoy the quiet days, while Yang Guo's personality was flying and jumping, and it was impossible to endure the quiet life for a long time. Walking out of the grave is an inevitable tragedy.
But when it comes to this, it seems that Yang Guo's feelings for the little dragon girl are the result of no choice, but they are not. The life of Yang Guo and the girl in the ancient tomb is not an accidental product. Judging from the fact that Yang Guo rebelled against Quanzhen religion at that time, no one would adopt him except Little Dragon Girl who didn't know the way of the world and ignored the moral codes. And assuming that the adopter can't love him wholeheartedly, he will inevitably betray him again. Therefore, it is no accident that Yang Long's two-year life in the ancient tomb was earned by Yang Guo, Little Dragon Girl and Sun Popo themselves.
Besides, the little dragon girl's character can be said to be a hot spring frozen into ice. The little dragon girl, if not sent to the ancient tomb school and learned the martial arts of the ancient tomb school, should be gentle and affectionate. This can be seen from her feelings for Yang Guo. However, the influence of people's fate on their personality cannot be changed, so the little dragon girl was sent to the ancient tomb and learned the martial arts of the ancient tomb school, which determined that she was such a character. And when her pool of ice springs meets the raging fire in Yang Guo, it must be to neutralize the two, so it is the best place for Yang Guo's feelings. The little dragon girl's rebellious mentality is also very strong, otherwise she will not ignore it after learning about the ceremony.
The two people who walked out of the grave faced not only external pressure, but also their own problems. Yang Guo has been isolated from the world for three years, and there is a gap in experience. He doesn't understand his feelings for the little dragon girl. This little dragon girl has been isolated from the world all her life. She doesn't understand that Yang Guo doesn't understand his feelings for her. Therefore, Yang Guo unconsciously chased out the eyes similar to Little Dragon Girl; The little dragon girl chased the memories with Yang Guo in disappointment-until Yang Guo understood her feelings for the little dragon girl; Until the little dragon girl understands that she can ignore Yang Guo's feelings for her.
Yang Guo's feelings for the little dragon girl have always been pure, pure without any impurities. It is not only an insult to Yang Guo, but also an insult to our readers to say that Yang Guo's feelings for the little dragon girl were accumulated under rebellion.
Now, Yang Guo rebelled. Yang Guo longed for warmth since he was a child. Even Ouyang Feng's generation, as long as they treat her sincerely, he regards her as his father, and he doesn't care whether he is a good person or a very evil person. Yang Guo may have inherited his father Yang Kang, or it may have something to do with his childhood situation, or just because he didn't have much education in this field. In short, he is not good at distinguishing right from wrong, which can be seen from his rejection of Feng Mofeng's suggestion of killing the enemy in Revenge of Father for the Sixteenth time. In fact, if Yang Guo has been following Ouyang Feng, maybe he will become a bit bad and not too bad person like Ouyang Ke. (Of course, Yang Guo can't be a generation of adulterers. First of all, he has no ambition. Secondly, Yang Guo inherited Mu Nianci's kindness, which is also deep into the bone marrow. ) In a word, this character that is not bound by ethics has penetrated into his bone marrow, and Yang Guo is alive. Therefore, his rebellion now is conscious, but it is unconscious. This is what makes us girls crazy. ) Because of this, Yang Guo shouted, "Master and apprentice can't get married. Who made the rules?" I insist that she is both my master and my wife. "But it doesn't make sense to say that Yang Guo wants to be with Little Dragon Girl because she is rebellious. It seems that you can go to a restaurant because you like to eat a dish, which happens to be delicious in this restaurant, but you won't deliberately like this dish because you want to eat in this restaurant, which happens to be delicious in this restaurant. (This is the difference between a sufficient condition and a necessary condition. ) Yang Guo subconsciously rebelled, not because he wanted to rebel.
In spite of this, the ethical code has catalyzed Yang Guo's cognition of his feelings for the little dragon girl-if it weren't for the ethical code, the little dragon girl wouldn't have left Yang Guo and Yang Guo wouldn't have found it. In fact, if there is a little dragon girl's company, the loneliness of the tomb is not difficult to bear-this is a psychological turning point of Feiyang. (Speaking of which, I was very angry and remembered the reason why the little dragon girl left Yang Guo-Huang Rong's mother and daughter and Wu Shi's brothers! )
What happened after that was so painful that I couldn't bear to recall it over and over again, but I never forgot the culprit-Huang Rong and her daughter! However, the love between Yang Guo and the little dragon girl was precipitated in repeated hardships, and they grew up accordingly until their love matured-they were not waiting for a lifetime together, but separated for 16 years. What a heartache! Yang Guo can't save the little dragon girl; Yang Guo finally thought of a way to save the little dragon girl, but her hope was ruthlessly destroyed; When the last hope is shattered; What kind of heartbreak is that? How did Yang Guo die when he threw half a heartless Dan into the cliff bottom? What kind of mood do we feel when we look at a book but can't do anything? How strong is Yang Long's love, strong enough to accept all this. In this case, how can you have the heart to defile the perfect love between Yang Guo and Little Dragon Girl? How can the imaginary feelings woven by Guo Fu and Yang Guo be so smooth?
Lu Wushuang and Cheng Ying are doomed to be disappointed, but in this case, no one, including themselves, will have any dissatisfaction. This is also the regret of these two people (this regret refers to poor love).
Lu Wushuang's regret is that she is the product of Yang Guo's pursuit of the little dragon girl's vision and Yang Guo's own kindness. This innocent love was a mistake from the beginning, but Lu Wushuang accepted it gladly. In fact, even if the little dragon girl doesn't exist, Lu Wushuang will still fall in love with Yang Guo. Yang Guo's bad charm has fatal attraction to women, but Yang Guo won't notice Lu Wushuang, and even if he does, he won't give Lu Wushuang the same love. Because Lu Wushuang couldn't give Yang Guo the warmth he longed for, she couldn't digest Yang Guo's incomparable enthusiasm with the same enthusiasm, and she couldn't make Yang Guo pay all her feelings.
Cheng Ying's regret is that she appeared too late. Cheng Ying's personality is very similar to that of Little Dragon Girl. Suppose Yang Guo met her when she didn't meet the little dragon girl, they would probably become a couple, but Yang Guo wouldn't give all her feelings-but he would never know. Cheng Ying's maternal instinct is too deep. It says that the little dragon girl team Yang is a teacher, a mother, a wife and a daughter, just because the innocence of the little dragon girl will give her man great satisfaction like his wife and daughter, not. Being a man, a teacher and a mother of Cheng Ying will be very depressed. If he is Yang Guo, he will never be able to release his true self and give all his feelings.
Fall in love with Yang Guo, Cheng and Lu will not regret it. If it were me, neither would they. For a woman, it is enough to find someone who really loves her all her life, what's more, that person is really happy, even if it is not me who gives him happiness. What's more, it was Yang Guo.
Gong Sunlue is a very unlucky woman. Besides, she hasn't become a woman yet. Falling in love with Yang Guo and dying for him should be the only beauty in her life. She should be happy. In such a poor life, Yang Guo, a short but brilliant fireworks man, appeared and lit up her life, which is why she finally chose to be a fireworks in Yang Guo's life.
Lu Wushuang, Cheng Ying and Gong Sunlue all loved Yang Guo without any regrets. Yang Guo's love was all given to the little dragon girl, and there was nothing left. But Yang Guo enriched their lives. If they hadn't met Yang Guo, maybe they wouldn't be lonely or die young. Maybe they will find a good husband and live a dull but warm and rich life, but they will never realize what true love is. Speaking of which, some people defend the morality of male chauvinism, but if I were you, even if I knew the result, I would still choose to fall in love with Yang Guo. I think they think so, too. Therefore, if they criticize Yang Guo for failing them, they will not be happy.
I have to mention Guo Xiang. The strongest opposition to Yang Guo is Guo Xiang's supporters. Guo Xiang has never been my favorite, so I can't understand why you like her. I just want to talk about my views on her feelings for Yang Guo. Yang Guo was Guo Xiang's first love, and Yang Guo satisfied all the fantasies that Guo Xiang (like us) might have about men at first-rebellion, wildness, martial arts, loyalty and, most importantly, infatuation. It is strange that a girl of Guo Xiang's age is not fascinated by such a person who really exists in her world. When he really came into contact with Yang Guo, everything in his fantasy came true, and it was unreasonable for Guo Xiang not to get involved in it.
Then, Yang Guo had a little dragon girl. To put it bluntly, who is Guo Xiang? (Sorry to call names) My feelings for her are normal, purely wishful thinking, and there is no need to answer. Then because she criticized Yang Guo, many people came to me and said that if she really liked Yang Guo, it would be better for everyone not to like it.
This seems to have become an unwritten rule-if one of the hero and heroine is charming, the other one must not be the best match that everyone thinks. Yang Guo is like this, and so is Kudou Shinichi. Personally, I think that if you like him (her), you should like all of him, his strengths and weaknesses, including the people he likes.