William james, a famous American psychologist, said: "The most important discovery of our generation is that people can change their mentality and thus change their lives." Success or failure, happiness or frustration, happiness or sadness in life are entirely caused by people's own mentality. Because life treats us as we treat life.
If we consider everything from the perspective of interests, we will see hope. With hope, we can increase our courage and strength in life. In ancient times, there was a king who dreamed that the mountain fell, the water dried up and the flowers withered, so he asked the queen to interpret his dream. The Queen said, "The general trend is not good. When the mountain falls, it means that the mountain is going to fall; If the water is exhausted, the people will be centrifugal, the monarch will be the boat, and the people will be the water. If the water is exhausted, the boat will not work; Thank you for the flowers, which means that the good times will not last long. " The king broke out in a cold sweat and became ill from then on, getting heavier and heavier. A minister wanted to see the king, and the king spoke his mind on his deathbed. Hearing this, the minister smiled and said, "Great, the mountain collapsed, and the world is at peace from now on;" When the water dried up, the real dragon appeared. King, you are the son of heaven. Flowers wither, flowers wither to see fruit! The king was relaxed and soon recovered.
Some people always like to say that their current situation is caused by others, and the environment determines their own life orientation. Many things can't be got rid of and they can't think in a good direction. This is because they never really think about the good, they are always pessimistic and disappointed, and sometimes even if they have good ideas, they will be immediately denied by themselves. In the final analysis, how to look at life depends entirely on ourselves.
This is the case in many situations in life. As long as we change the way of thinking and the mentality of looking at problems, the results will be very different.
On Christmas Eve, Gambus wants to go to new york. When his wife booked tickets for him, the tickets were sold out. But the conductor said that there is only one in ten thousand chance that someone will temporarily refund the ticket. Hearing this, Gambus immediately began to pack up and prepare for a business trip. The wife asked inexplicably, "Since there is no ticket, what are you packing for?" He said, "I'm going to try my luck. If no one refunds the ticket, it's just that I take my luggage to the station for a walk. " Three minutes before driving, a lady finally refunded her ticket because her child was ill. She boarded the train to new york. In new york, he called his wife and said, "I will succeed in gambling, because I am an idiot who seizes one in ten thousand chances, because I always think of the bright side.". Others think I am a fool, but this is actually where I am different from others. "
Look on the bright side and be happy! On the bright side, it's easier said than done! Some people live in the world, that is, they always think the worst of things, and as a result, they are in a state of high tension, suspicion, panic, vigilance and struggle all day. Can people in this state of mind still be happy? Look on the bright side, this is the secret of happiness!
A man went to see a psychiatrist and said, "I have a mental illness, and it is very serious." Then he talked about his symptoms: "My daughter goes out to school, and if she doesn't come home on time, I'm worried;" If it is in the future, I will fidget. "
The doctor said, "This shows that you love your daughter very much and are a caring person. I don't think this is a disease. " The man said, "No, I don't think she is making up lessons or doing anything else. I think she has been kidnapped."
The doctor listened to the man's question: "What do you do? How long have you had this symptom? When did it start? " The man replied: "I am a developer, and this symptom began when I earned the first10 million!" " But I can guarantee that every penny I earn is clean. "
The doctor said, "What you are worried about above is not psychological fear, but an out-and-out mental illness." This disease is most likely to appear in the rich, and it is very difficult to treat. "
The man said, "No matter how much money I spend, I am willing to get rid of this mentality."
The doctor said, "Samuel, a western psychologist, once said,' It is more valuable for a person to develop the habit of positive thinking than to earn 10 million yuan a year.' But he went on to say,' It is more difficult for a person with an annual income of 10 million to form the habit of thinking positively about everything than to ascend to heaven.' If you want to cure yourself, you might as well try. "
As for how the psychologist taught him to try, it is unclear. However, since then, a charitable foundation and a happy rich man have appeared in that city.
"Take it easy" is not a panacea to solve all problems, but a healthy and positive philosophy of life. With it, the problem itself may not be reduced, but the solution to the problem has found the right direction. Therefore, we should cultivate an optimistic attitude towards life. Look on the bright side of everything, and things will naturally develop in the good side. If you look on the bright side, you will enjoy life with a calm mood, and you will be able to accurately find the perspective of life and show the elegance of life.