Why do men want to spend a lot of money on their colleagues, but nothing on their wives?

Such a man is just to save face and fill his face with fat.

Such a man, who obviously has no skill, talks about how powerful he is and thinks that the more perfect he is in image-building, the more real he is as he says. Indulge in vanity, unable to be self.

They regard their face as very important and must not be looked down upon by their friends. Money should be spent on the cutting edge. The so-called blade is a pig's face in front of friends. And my girlfriend is a knife behind my friend. The back of the knife doesn't cost too much. It's good to be alive.

Some men feel that since they have girlfriends, they regard them as their own property and their own people. Since we are one of our own, there is no need to be so generous, and people who live together in the future can't spend money lavishly or spoil their girlfriends. Your own face is also very important, and you should be generous with your friends.

Some people are very masculine. In their ideas, women should follow the traditional three obedience and four virtues, educate their children at home and support their work unconditionally. Men need money to keep up appearances when socializing outside, so they take some from home. Girlfriends should think of themselves and put family first.

If a man loves his sweetheart deeply, then he spends money on his girlfriend because he feels comfortable and comfortable from the bottom of his heart, and some even hate not "giving" everything. This incident shows from the side that you are not as good as his colleagues in his mind.

If you can't settle for second best for a while, be tolerant and honest with your feelings and communicate calmly, but don't nag, complain or grumble.

If you see your boyfriend in this situation, try to let him gradually discover your bright spot and your personality charm. If the foundation of love cannot be firmly established, it is better to separate the senses.