Haha, what does excellence mean? How do you know your destiny is perfect? If you are not a professional in this field, don't make random guesses. It will be bad for yourself. However, "fate is hard" is only an explicit statement, and formal instructions do not say this. Generally, the day stem is positive, and women who are more prosperous have what Mingjian calls a hard life. This kind of woman is relatively strong and likes to create things, but it has nothing to do with whether her life is miserable or not. However, it is better for women to be gentle. Strong women are prone to problems in marriage and family.