Although the conditions are not very good, Tingting studies hard and her family supports her to go to college. When I was a sophomore, a schoolmate fell in love with her at first sight and chased her for more than two years. At that time, Tingting didn't know the boy's family situation, and she couldn't stand the boy's pursuit of being with him in senior three.
The boy's father is a medical family with a distinguished family background. My father has arranged marriage for him at home, and he is also a family studying medicine. But the boy disagreed and was severely beaten by his father. The boy's mother can't bear to part with her child, so she can only compromise.
Every place has its own customs. The night before the wedding, the boy wanted to give his relatives money for a bath. The boy was originally from a good family, and his relatives gave him 12000 yuan. About 20,000 to 30,000 boys gave all their money to Tingting, but Tingting, who was careless, gave all her money to her mother. She didn't know that she would never get it back. The next day, when the wedding started, there were red envelopes calling each other Mom and Dad. The man's parents gave the woman two red envelopes of 4,000 yuan, and the woman's parents gave the man two red envelopes of 5 yuan. The man's parents were very angry at the time. Although it is the custom of the woman's family, the man's parents were both black-faced at that wedding.
Tingting's mother has been asking Tingting for money since she got married. The first time, she said that her brother wanted to buy a mobile phone, and Tingting gave it. The second time, she said that she needed to buy a car for tens of thousands of dollars. Tingting couldn't take it out and asked the boy for it. Tingting was pregnant at that time. The boy had just graduated from college and had no money at all, so he had to ask his parents for help. When my parents heard that they borrowed it, they were afraid Tingting would get angry, so they had to bite the bullet and take 50 thousand yuan.
In these repeated days, Tingting's mother and brother always ask Tingting for money for no reason, ranging from hundreds to thousands. Tingting just said a few words and finally compromised. The young couple always quarrel about it. Let's talk about several characteristics of Wang's younger brother.
1. I think my mother's brother should help everyone. I think, "He is my brother. I will ignore my family if I don't help."
2. If a brother has difficulty in opening his mouth, he should help if he borrows money. If he doesn't talk, he should have thought of it first and offered to help.
I would rather starve myself than my mother's brother.
I don't think my small family is as important as my mother's. I must help my mother's family at any time.
I am willing to contribute to my family without asking for anything in return. I feel I have an obligation to take care of everything.
Finally, I want to say that a married woman has her own family. Although family is important, she should do what she can. Some can help, some can't. Giving blindly will only bring you closer to your family. Let yourself be what others call a brother's assistant.