How to choose a date for your wedding

1. Specific steps for choosing a date for marriage

Choosing an auspicious date for marriage is not easy. In addition to the fact that the wedding year cannot conflict with the year of the man and woman, it also depends on the woman's lucky month. , a small profit month, hindering the mother-in-law, hindering the parents, hindering the husband's body, hindering the woman's body, in addition, there are many gods, nobles, etc., such as the day when the child is destroyed, and the day when it hits the mother's womb. If you get married, you will either destroy the child or the wife after the marriage. If there are many diseases, there are three killing days, and if you get married on the day of tribute killing, the woman will have many disasters after marriage, etc. Finally, you have to choose an auspicious day according to the zodiac and auspicious days for marriage, so that the selected day can be regarded as a suitable and good day for marriage.

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2. How to choose an auspicious day for wedding

1. Choose a prosperous year and a prosperous month. Chinese people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date, and pay great attention to the theory of "Run Yue" and "Run Nian", that is, there will be a Run Nian every two or three years, that is, there are two "Beginning of Spring" in that year. A "moon moon". To choose an auspicious day for marriage, it is best to fall in a year with a moist moon.

2. Avoid 379. It is best to avoid the three auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with "Qingming", "Olan" and "Chonggong" respectively, which are all traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable to be held. happy event. The "Mid-Autumn Festival" month with the full moon, that is, the eighth month of the lunar calendar, is the most suitable month for weddings.

3. Avoid Sanniangsha. According to legend, Yue Lao did not hold the red string for Sanniang, so she could not get married. Based on the revenge mentality, Sanniangxi goes against Yue Lao and specializes in destroying the happy event of the couple. Therefore, it is not suitable to get married on the Sanniangsha day of each month, namely the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of the month.

4. The method of choosing a date for marriage. The principle of choosing a date for marriage is based on the birth date of the bride, with reference to the birth dates of the man and others. As the saying goes: "A son depends on the time of birth, and a woman depends on the year of marriage." Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to marital problems or even divorce; on the contrary, it will be auspicious.

5. Don’t choose your parents’ birthdays. In traditional customs, parents' birthdays should not be the same as the auspicious dates for marriage. In fact, it just means that the day of parents' birthdays is not suitable for marriage, but it is absolutely suitable to get married within that month.

6. The real wedding day. If you decide to separate the registration and wedding dates, it's best to do both on separate dates. If you have to choose, you should choose to hold it on an auspicious day based on the traditional etiquette of welcoming the bride and serving wine, because Chinese tradition always regards this day as the real wedding day.

7. The method of calculating good times and auspicious days. Some people think that there should be a more strict method of calculating good days and auspicious times, that is, using the birth dates of the man and the woman to calculate the most auspicious wedding date. However, this method is quite cumbersome, and more people would rather choose the date based on the almanac or listen to the advice of people who studied the Book of Changes.

8. The actual work and study conditions of both parties must be considered. If one party is studying in their spare time, they should avoid the stressful review and exam dates; if one party is working day and night on a major technical research project of the unit, the other party should wait patiently for a period of time, and then choose an "auspicious day" when the good news comes. ".

9. Consider the actual circumstances of both families. When choosing an "auspicious day", it is necessary to take into account that both the elderly and relatives and friends of both parties have time to participate and witness the joyful and harmonious scene.

10. The physical condition of both parties must be considered. If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange a marriage, but to seek medical treatment in time and recover before discussing the matter. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of your new life and easily aggravate your physical condition. The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be shy about talking about it. When choosing an "auspicious day", the man should pay special attention to listen to the woman's opinions.

11. Unify wedding dates and holidays. It may be a wise move if the wedding date coincides with a holiday. The advantages of this are: it is commemorative; the newlyweds put on festive costumes to add interest; relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, the atmosphere is warm, and the relatives and friends can be entertained and celebrated at home, which is both economical and festive, but the newlyweds who get married during the holidays There are many, so be sure to book hotels and fleets in advance.

12. The definition of a good day. No matter what, the definition of a "good day" is always different for everyone. No matter what days you choose, try to choose those days that everyone is satisfied with.

3. What should you pay attention to when choosing a date for marriage registration?

Auspicious and warm reminder---your zodiac sign* *year category: We are waiting for you to register your marriage in September 2011 The auspicious days of the zodiac are: (You can choose to avoid the opposition of your two zodiac signs or after public holidays) September 6, 2011, Tuesday, August 9 (small) of the lunar calendar, oppose the horse (Wuwu) Qinglong fixed day, good day in 2011 September 7th, Wednesday, the 10th day of August (small) in the lunar calendar is opposed to the Sheep (Jiwei). It is a good day for Mingtang to hold the Sun. September 12, 2011, Monday, the 15th day of the August (small) month in the lunar calendar is opposed to the Rat (Jiazi). It is a good day to receive gold and precious wealth. September 28, 2011: Wednesday, September 2nd of the lunar calendar, is the dragon (Gengchen). I wish you happiness on New Year's Day.

4. How to calculate an auspicious day for wedding

The auspicious day for wedding in January 2010:

January 3, 2010 is Sunday, the 19th day of the eleventh lunar month (big day) Go to Sheep (Ding Wei) and evil to the east

January 6, 2010 Wednesday, the 22nd day of the eleventh month of the lunar calendar, go to Dog (Geng Shu) to the south

January 8, 2010 Friday, the 24th day of the eleventh month of the lunar calendar (big day), clashes with the rat (Renzi) in the north

January 19, 2010, Tuesday, the 5th day of the December (big day) in the lunar calendar, clashes with the pig (Guihai) in the east

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On January 20, 2010, Wednesday, the 06th day of the 12th month of the lunar calendar, clashed with the rat (Jiazi) and Shabei

On January 22, 2010, Friday, the 08th day of the 12th month of the lunar calendar (big day) opposed Tiger (Bingyin) is evil to the south

January 24, 2010 Sunday, the 10th day of the 12th month of the lunar calendar, is opposite to Dragon (Wu Chen) evil to the north

January 25, 2010 Monday, the 11th day of the 12th month of the lunar calendar is in conflict with Snake (Ji Ji) and evil in the west

January 29, 2010 is Friday, the 15th day of the 12th month in the lunar calendar (Big Day) with the rooster (Guiyou) in the west

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January 31, 2010, Sunday, the 17th day of the 12th month of the lunar calendar, is in conflict with the Pig (Yi Hai) and is in the east L

The auspicious day for wedding in February 2010:

On February 1, 2010, Monday, the 18th day of the 12th lunar month (big day) clashed with the rat (Bingzi) and evil north

February 3, 2010, Wednesday, the 20th day of the 12th lunar month (big day) clashed with the tiger ( Wuyin) Sha Nan

February 4, 2010, Thursday, the 21st day of the 12th month of the lunar calendar, opposes the Rabbit (Jimao) Shadong

February 7, 2010, the 12th day of the lunar calendar Sunday, the 24th day of the lunar month (big), clashes with the horse (Ren Wu) and evil spirits to the south

February 10, 2010, Wednesday, the 27th day of the lunar month (big month) of the twelfth lunar month clashes with the chicken (Yiyou) evil spirit to the west

On February 14, 2010, Sunday, the 01st day of the 1st lunar month (big) was in opposition to Ox (Jichou) and Shaxi

On February 16, 2010, Tuesday, 03rd day of the 1st lunar month (big) was in opposition to the Rabbit (Xin Mao) Shadong

February 22, 2010, Monday, the 09th day of the 1st month of the lunar calendar, clashes with Rooster (Dingyou) and evils the west

February 23, 2010, the 1st lunar month (Big) Tuesday, the 10th, clashes with the Dog (Wuxu) and destroys the South

February 26, 2010, the 13th day of the first lunar month (Big) Friday, the 13th, clashes with the Ox (Xin Chou) and destroys the West L

< p> Avoid the zodiac opposition and choose an auspicious day to get married. Congratulations to you and wish you a happy marriage forever. Thank you.

5. Choose a date to get married

Male: June 13, 1984 (Wednesday) Lunar Calendar: May 14th, Jiazi Year Stem and Branch: Gengwu Month, Wuyin Day, Jiazi Year Zodiac: Rat Girl: July 16, 1984 (Monday) Lunar Calendar: June 18th, Year Jiazi Stem and Branch: Xinwei Month, Year Jiazi Zodiac Sign: Rat Tip*: When choosing an auspicious day, please try to avoid the opposition and sun of your zodiac sign Evil direction.