How to check whether the birthdays of both parties are compatible? How to resolve disagreements

How to measure the compatibility or conflict or overcoming of the horoscopes of both parties requires a more comprehensive and comprehensive analysis. It is not so one-sided. It takes more than a few sentences to explain this issue. I have written An article about this aspect is copied below for you to take a look at.

Regarding the issue of marriage between men and women, the conflicting horoscopes

Since ancient times, there has been a saying: "I only envy mandarin ducks but not immortals". A harmonious and happy marriage is a very beautiful thing. . It stands to reason that the most beautiful things are also the most hurtful. The mystery of the relationship between men and women can be easily seen through horoscope analysis.

As far as I know, the average horoscope teacher only looks at things superficially. Some say that a husband and wife are incompatible with each other when their years and fortunes are in conflict, and some say that it is not possible when they see that their birth years are in conflict with each other! Providing wrong information guidance will increase the psychological burden of test takers, which is not worth the gain. Among the customers, many are Yixue enthusiasts. Since I have my own work, I really don’t have time to guide them one by one. I am writing this article to break it down with examples. Ordinary customers can roughly understand the principle. Yixue enthusiasts can Learn from it and get the correct analysis method.

Determining whether a man and a woman are getting married, whether the horoscopes are in conflict with each other, and whether they are suitable to be together is not so one-sided. In addition to looking at the yin of the birth year, you still need to look at the five elements, the five elements of the year pillar, the day pillar The conditions of the yin, stems, branches and five elements can be comprehensively measured. It should be noted that it is not bad if there is conflict or conflict. If there is conflict or conflict, you need to look at whether the person being conflicted is happy or jealous. You cannot generalize, otherwise it will be easy to make mistakes. For example, if "Yin and Shen" conflict, the relationship between the two is that Shen and Metal clash with Yin and Wood, and Yin and Wood suffer. First, we need to measure the power of the five elements. For example, Shen and Metal are weak and Yin and Wood are strong. How can we defeat Yin and Wood? ? Furthermore, if the Yin wood itself is the five elements that are unfavorable to the person, then what's the disadvantage of overcoming the inherently unfavorable things? Therefore, we should not look at the superficial things. Often the things on the surface are illusions.

In addition, in the horoscope, the man is destined to have money as his wife, and the woman is destined to be an official as her husband. It is necessary to analyze the personal horoscope and analyze the status of wealth and official in the horoscope to measure the relative relationship. . Even if one party does have a strong Kev message, it cannot be concluded that they cannot be together. Why? Because it depends on the situation of the other person's horoscope to make a conclusion. For example, if a woman's horoscope has strong information about her husband, but her husband's horoscope is very prosperous, then she is not afraid of being overcome. If she can be overcome, there is no problem. There are many such examples, and a customer was in this situation some time ago. I first looked at his wife's horoscope. The horoscope indicates that the official is strong and prosperous. The official star is clear and suppressed, which means that the official is injured and sees the official. There is no wealth in the column. This horoscope is indeed very serious! Moreover, the horoscope itself is Ding Huo, so the yen is very weak. It is a very coincidence that his husband's horoscope of yen is C fire, and yen is strong. In this way, she is not afraid that she will be able to overcome her husband, and because her husband's horoscope of fire is strong, she can use it to her advantage. Better survival. This girl's horoscope can only be with a person whose horoscope is strong in yen and fire, and her husband happens to have such a horoscope. Is this a coincidence? I have to sigh for it! It's so magical, this is a kind of "fate", your own blessing. If we simply look at the woman's horoscope, the conclusion is clear, "The husband is very heavy, and he is weak, so it is difficult to find a marriage." But we can’t say that they can’t get married because of this. Based on the comparison of the couple’s horoscopes, the very definite conclusion is: “The woman’s husband’s message is very heavy, and the yen is Ding and the fire is too weak. Fortunately, the husband’s horoscope is strong and strong, so he is not afraid. The best thing about it is that the husband’s horoscope is fire, which benefits the wife, so it’s very accurate to say that the couple can be together, harmonious and happy, and grow old together.”

Example 1:

Date of birth (lunar calendar): Male: born at 3:30 am on September 18, 1981, Female: born at 6 am on February 26, 1987 . I found 6 very famous horoscope gentlemen to make calculations, and they all said that the two people's horoscopes were incompatible with each other and were extremely vicious, but they couldn't tell a way to resolve it.

Example breakdown:

To determine whether a couple’s horoscopes are incompatible with each other, whether they are serious, and whether they can be rescued, it requires comprehensive analysis of multiple factors to be sure. Because the information about the conflict between these two horoscopes is very obvious, most of them can see it and talk about it on the surface. In fact, very few can really look at it and analyze it in depth. There are two reasons why the local masters cannot tell how to solve the problem: First, they only look at the appearance and know the reason, but their skills are not thorough and they are not good at solving the problem. Second, there is a saying that those who guide others to resolve disasters will not dare to speak out if the disaster cannot resolve itself. Actually, it is mainly based on my own practical study and careful observation. It is not a random fabrication, but a sincere desire to help others resolve it. Then there is no need to be afraid of this or that, and there is no need to worry. Such thoughts are superfluous.

Male: Born at 3:30 a.m. on September 18, 1981:

The God of Good Wealth and Food, the Sun Master, Partial Wealth

Qian Zao: Xin Wubinggeng< /p>

Youxu Yinyin

Female: Born at 6 a.m. on February 26, 1987:

Partially wealthy as the Japanese god of food

Kun Zao: Dingguiyiyi

Maomaoyoumao

These two eight-character year pillars, the sky and the earth, are in conflict, and the day pillar, the sky and the earth, are in conflict. No wonder the 6 people said that they are incompatible with each other. From the above horoscopes, we can see that men are born in the year of Xinyou, women are born in the year of Dingmao, the Heavenly Stem and Dinghuo overcome Xinjin, the earthly branches and Maoyou conflict, and the Maoyou conflict is the conflict of the four positives, and the impact is greater than the others. The Nian Pillar The conflict between heaven and earth is a message of conflict between heaven and earth, and it is heavier. This is true. Looking at the sun pillar again, the man's life is Bingyin day, and the woman's life is Guiyou day. The heavenly stem Guishui restrains Binghuo, the lower branch Youjin restrains Yin wood, and the day pillar is heaven restraining earth. Now that the situation is known, what is being overcome is happiness or fear? Is it just bad? You must first understand your personal likes and dislikes and then analyze them.

The male zodiac sign Yen is Bing Fire. In the horoscope, the food injury is in season, and the wealth star penetrates directly to the root. Sitting on the Yin wood is also the Yin time, so it is obvious that the Yen "B" fire is still weak. There is a lack of water in the five elements of the horoscope, which makes it look a bit hot, but it is not suitable to use water, because the Bing fire and the Japanese yen are weak, and water can restrain fire. If the wood of the seal star cannot turn into water, it will not be good. It should be used as seal and support, that is to say, the five elements of wood and fire are beneficial to the five elements of this horoscope. A small amount of water can be used to adjust the temperature, but too much water will be useless.

Looking at the girl's horoscope again, the Japanese Yen is "Gui" water. She was born in the Spring Wood, which is prosperous and discouraged. When it is dry, the Food God Yi Wood has three strong roots. It can be seen that the wood in her horoscope is very prosperous! The Moonstem and Guishui are tight and supportive. Although its power is weak, it still has the power to help. Sitting on the unitary metal, it has no choice but to support the lower three mao and oppose the unitary unit. It is difficult to protect oneself and unable to regenerate. The yen of a female is weak, very weak. They only survive by relying on the power of Yuegan and Guishui.

Now that we know the situation of our respective yen and the five elements of happiness and taboos, we can measure how strong the conflict is and whether the fate is irreversible or solvable.

As mentioned earlier, the Nian Pillar is in conflict with the Earth, the Heavenly Stem and the Ding Fire are in conflict with the Xin Metal, and the Earthly Branches are in conflict with each other. The Rizhu sky restrains the earth, the sky stem Guishui restrains the Bing fire, and the lower branch Youjin restrains the Yin wood. Let’s first look at the Nian Pillar’s ??Heaven and Earth opposition. The Heavenly Stem is the woman’s Ding Fire that overcomes Xin Metal. Fire overcomes metal. Metal is harmed, and to overcome others, you have to put in a certain amount of strength. In other words, if Xin Metal is overcome After it is gone, the power of Ding Fire has also weakened. The five elements of metal are originally unfavorable to men, but its elimination will reduce the burden of wealth. And Ding Huo itself is also unfavorable to the woman's five elements. The consequence of this restraint is that each of them damages the five elements that are unfavorable to himself. The man's Youjin supports the woman's Maomu. As a result, Maomu is weakened and Youjin weakens its own strength. From this point of view, there is no disadvantage in this year's Pillar of Heaven and Earth. Because the five elements that are harmed and damaged are all the five elements that are not beneficial to oneself, what is wrong with destroying things that are not beneficial to oneself? It is obviously beneficial. Moreover, the year of life is supported by yin, so this conflict between heaven and earth is not a harm, but an illusion, a superficial illusion.

Looking at the sun pillar, the heavenly stem, Guishui, restrains the Bing fire, and the lower branch, the You metal, restrains the Yin wood. This situation is not good, because the Bing fire and the Japanese yen are already weak, and it is certainly unlucky to be restrained again. When Guishui uses it to overcome Bing Fire, it also weakens its power, which is also bad, because Guishui itself is also very weak. It is also unfavorable to have You Metal to overcome Yin Wood. Yin Wood is the god of joy of Bing Fire. It is of course very bad to overcome the five elements that are beneficial to you. In the same way, Youjin is also favored by women, and it is unlucky if it weakens.

From the above analysis, it is obvious that the Nian Pillar's conflict between heaven and earth is not harmful, but beneficial. The harm point is that the sun overcomes the sky and the earth, and those who are overcome are each other's gods of joy. In other words, these horoscopes do conflict with each other, but not too seriously, because there are resolving factors in the horoscopes themselves, and the conflict between heaven and earth in Nian Zhu has no adverse effect. Of course, it is not good to explain it by itself. It is good to know that the sky restrains the earth and clashes. That is because restraint is harmful, and clashing means collision. This is one's own idea. However, what this Tian Ke Di Chong overcomes is inherently unfavorable. The Five Elements are essentially beneficial, so they can be saved. If the Heaven and Earth Clash is all about driving away the God of Joy, the God will be unable to recover. There is another favorable factor. Wood is the most prosperous in the woman's horoscope, and it is too prosperous, while the man needs wood to support him, which is just what he needs. Therefore, it is okay for these two people to be together. As long as the five elements are adjusted, their unfavorable relationship can be resolved.

Example 2:

The male was born in 1977, the year of Dingsi. The Japanese yen is the "Y" wood, so it is taboo to have a strong fire in the horoscope. The Japanese yen is weak, so you need to use the five elements of water and wood.

The female was born in 1983, the year of Guihai. The yen is "Xin" gold, and water and wood are both strong in the horoscope. If the body is too heavy due to food injuries and wealth leakage, the yen is weak, so it is necessary to use the five elements of earth and metal.

Example breakdown:

The situation of these two horoscopes is as mentioned above. One was born in the year of "Dingsi" and the other was born in the year of "Guihai". Ke Dinghuo, the two branches "Sihai" conflict with each other. The fortune teller said they couldn't be together, saying that these two people were in conflict with each other. In fact, this is a wrong judgment. In fact, the couple has been married for 6 years and has always been harmonious, happy and loving.

Why? These two people are indeed in conflict with Nian Zhutian, but the one they overcome is beneficial to the other. "Dingsi" -----"Guihai", the result of the conflict between the two is that the man's fire is restrained, and the woman's water is also weakened. The fire of the five elements is originally not good for the man, but it is beneficial when it is washed away. The water of the woman weakens her strength, which is also good for herself, because water is already strong, and water does not like it. This is caused by the conflict between heaven and earth. The outcome is mutually beneficial. Furthermore, the woman's horoscope is prosperous in water and wood, which is exactly what the man needs. The two complement each other. Therefore, these two people can be together and have a happy marriage. However, it needs to be explained here that despite this, the two people will still have some minor conflicts and frictions, but they will not hurt their feelings and affect their marriage. Because collision means collision, even if the conflict is not harmful but beneficial, the phenomenon of collision still exists. Just like when we went up the mountain and encountered a dead tiger, we were frightened even though we were not in danger. We need to have this idea in each other's hearts and give each other more understanding, trust, and tolerance in life. This will make the marriage happier.

From the above examples, we can know that the discussion of mutual restraint between husband and wife and the incompatibility of men and women is not so one-sided. It does not mean that they cannot be together if their zodiac signs are in conflict with each other or if their stems and branches are in conflict with each other. Most fortune tellers take things very superficially. I think there are two reasons for this. First, they have a strong commercial atmosphere and do not have a strong sense of responsibility. They do not want to bother to analyze things in detail. Second: If you are not academically sophisticated, you are not thorough, you abide by theorems, you are not flexible and thorough, and you can only look at the surface without conducting practical research. Therefore, do not believe the one-sided words of ordinary fortune tellers. In fact, in practical experience, some people with strong restraint in their horoscopes will naturally be with someone who is compatible with them in their horoscopes. It is not a coincidence. This is the way of nature. You can use the word "Yuan" explain. There are also some people who will naturally meet a master with real knowledge who can harmonize and resolve the five elements for them and achieve peace. Only a small number of people have not been able to meet someone who can solve the problem, nor have they had the "fate" to naturally find a person with matching horoscopes and bear the consequences. From this, we can also draw a conclusion that emotional matters cannot be forced or unasked, and it is most appropriate to adopt the golden mean.

Chen Kun: 11.25