In people’s perception, men are more carefree and have the least sense of marital responsibility, because whether in life or on TV, what is common is men’s half-heartedness and failure. responsibility.
But we have ignored that women also make many mistakes in marriage. Women may also make such things as cheating. Generally, men make such mistakes. Some women may do it for the sake of their family and family. Children, and choose to forgive, but if a woman makes such a mistake, most men will not tolerate it, and the family will inevitably be torn apart, and society’s attitude towards men’s cheating is different from that of women’s cheating. Men should be more tolerant when they cheat, but they should be more harsh when it comes to women cheating. If a woman cheats within marriage, she will definitely be criticized by others, and she will never be able to hold her head high, and her reputation will be ruined.
A 37-year-old woman came to me for fortune telling. I calculated that she would get divorced this year. Then the woman confided in me. She asked me to express her case in an article and let others know. Women know that there are no good consequences for a woman having an affair, so she must be careful not to have an affair casually.
Her birth time is: Shenshi on April 23, 1984
Her birthplace is Liuzhou City, Guangxi.
Bazi Kunzao: Jiazi, Jisi, Dingsi, Wushen.
The Universiade is 4 Gengwu, 14 Xinwei, 24 Renshen, 34 Guiyou, 44 Jiaxu, 54 Yihai.
Her name is Zhang Min. She said she made a big mistake because of a moment of confusion. She is 37 years old and should have been an ordinary housewife, living a happy life of caring for her husband and raising children, but she did not. Take care of your own feelings, fail to understand your marital responsibilities, refuse to settle for a dull married life, and make unforgivable mistakes like cheating, which ultimately destroys your marriage and family.
She said that she and her husband have been married for ten years. Although they were married in love, their relationship has become very dull over the years, but she is also a romantic. Those who prefer the kind of sweet feelings, but this man, except for the moment when he first chases you, can be sweet to you. Over time, that is impossible. Every man is like this, she My husband is no exception. We have been an old married couple for so many years. How can we still have so much love and love? We just need to live a good life. We are not willing to cater to Zhang Min’s fantasy love dreams. Of course Zhang Min is not interested in this. She is dissatisfied. She always feels that her husband no longer loves her, neglects her, always finds fault with her husband, and the two of them are always noisy.
As time went by, Zhang Min’s husband was still the same, so Zhang Min gave up. Anyway, marrying such a husband in this life could only be her own life, but in fact, Zhang Min’s heart was It was because of her unwillingness that she gave others the opportunity to take advantage of her. Zhang Min was just a housewife. She cleaned up the housework and took care of the children every day, and just spent the day like this. It was quite boring. I fell in love with chatting with others on the mobile phone, and I met Li Guojun. The two of them chatted quite well. Li Guojun was a few years younger than Zhang Min. He worked in sales in a company. He was young and eloquent. He is good and knowledgeable. He often tells Zhang Min some interesting things, which makes Zhang Min very happy.
Slowly, Zhang Min became more and more attracted to Li Guojun. After not chatting for a while, she missed him so much that she had a different kind of feeling for Li Guojun, but she didn't say anything. After all, he took into account his married status, but Li Guojun took the initiative to confess to her, saying that he really liked her and didn't mind that she had a family. As long as the two of them could chat like this often and be together, it would be fine. He always said some sweet words to Zhang Min, making Zhang Min stunned for a while. Zhang Min was originally longing for love, but when he met someone like Li Guojun, how could he resist it? After going back and forth, the two even arranged to meet in private. , had sexual relations, and Zhang Min fell into this rough relationship, unable to extricate himself. He completely forgot about his identity as a wife and mother. He was dissatisfied with his current marriage and disliked his own life more and more. The husband doesn't even bother to take care of the children anymore, he only thinks about falling in love with Xiao Li.
After her husband discovered something strange about her, he asked her about her situation. She was no longer afraid. She directly showed her cards to her husband and wanted a divorce. Her husband initially tried to keep her, but then he saw her. She was determined to get a divorce, so she angrily agreed to the divorce.
The ten-year marriage between the two ended. For the sake of true love, Zhang Min chose to leave the house. She thought that she would be relaxed and could pursue her love, but what Zhang Min didn't expect was that... When she went to Li Guojun and told her that she was divorced and wanted to be with him forever, Li Guojun changed his face and told her to break up immediately. No matter how she cried and begged, Li Guojun still wanted to break up, saying that he was still so young and could not marry her. The story of a thirty-seven-year-old divorced woman disappeared from Zhang Min’s world without a trace.
Zhang Min was heartbroken and turned back to beg her husband for forgiveness. However, her husband, probably her ex-husband, did not even look at her again. Even her children cried and called her a bad mother. , relatives and friends around her pointed at her, saying that she was shameless and neglected her family and children. Zhang Min was very sad and said that what she was pursuing with all her heart was thought to be true love, but unexpectedly it turned out to be a love disaster. When she reached middle age, Encountering a peach blossom catastrophe, the family and reputation are ruined.
It's useless for me to tell her that you regret it, but everything can't be gone back. People who betray their marriage can forget their identity at that moment and don't care about the eyes of the world. But you are really waiting for you to face the reality, but you can't help but not care. The world will not accept this kind of betrayal of marriage, and you will live in the shadow of this incident all your life. All your happiness is ruined by your hotheadedness.
Think about it, is it worth it? If you choose marriage, you should cherish it, so as not to let yourself fall into a complete failure