First, the spirit of water.
I have an analogy. Every river has its own different life curve, and every river has its own dream, that is, to run to the sea. When we encounter difficulties, whether it is rushing or circuitous, as long as we can pass, I hope everyone can let their lives flow to their dreams, like the Yangtze River and the Yellow River, to the end of their dreams, to enter the vast ocean and to broaden their careers. But it doesn't mean you can flow if you want. In fact, there must be spirit in it. This is the spirit of water. Sometimes our life will precipitate. Although you have been following the water, you may slowly settle down, like sand, because of personality defects, difficult legs or timidity. Once you settle down, you may not have to work hard for progress, but you will never see the sun. The sediment above will keep you sinking, and finally you will be in darkness, so I would suggest that no matter what your life is like now, you should have the spirit of water. Even if you are polluted, you can wash yourself, continue your strength like water and constantly break through obstacles. When you find the wrong time, accumulate your thickness, and then you can rush into the sea to make your life.
Second, if you want to succeed, you must be self-disciplined.
I learned to ski five years ago. I just started climbing the snow trail and fell down. Later, I found that I had to learn to stop. There are two kinds of stopping methods for skiing, the eight-character stopping method used by beginners, but when the ski slope reaches a certain slope, this eight-character stopping method will not work. I have to stop sideways with two skis. I spent a whole week practicing stopping. When I found that my stop was good, I just carried it. I have a friend who thinks you can climb, so can I. This ski slope has a hillside on one side and a cliff on the other. As a result, his foot was torn off and his ligament was completely broken. Whenever there is a huge temptation in front of you, if you feel that you can't stop, don't chase that thing, because if you can't catch that thing, you must be the last person to trip.
Three quarters of happiness and happiness in life.
Once when I walked to the edge of the Yellow River, I poured a bottle of water. As we all know, the water in the Yellow River is particularly turbid. Then I left it on the side of the road for an hour or so. I was very surprised to find that three quarters of a bottle of water has become very clear, and only one quarter is sediment. If the clear part of this bottle of water is compared to our happiness and happiness, and the turbid sediment is compared to our pain, when you shake it, your whole life is full of turbidity, that is, pain and trouble. But when you calm down, although the total weight of sediment has not decreased at all, it is deposited in your heart. Because your heart is quiet and will never be stirred again, three quarters of your life must be happiness and happiness.
Fourth, the thickness of the inside story determines the height of your future life.
Nowadays, college students have relatively little humanistic knowledge, and now they are too eager for quick success and instant benefit. They only look at poor fathers and rich fathers, and both want to get rich quickly. There is a saying that "the thickness of the foundation determines the height of your future life", and this thickness is definitely not enough for poor fathers and rich fathers. You should read books such as Rousseau's History of Western Philosophy and Zhu Guangqian's History of Western Aesthetics. Even reciting Tang poetry and Song poetry is good for improving the thickness of your life. On the surface, these books may have nothing to do with what you do in the future, but they have laid the foundation for you, laid the foundation for your thickness and laid the foundation for how much space you can play in the future.